2008 Highlander VS 2007 outlanderGuys can anyone advice how is 2007 outlander??, i know that mitsubishi has lower resale value ??
The 2007/08 Outlander is built in Japan with 100% Japanese part content (my Infiniti G35 has more foreign content). Furthermore, Mitsubishi is offering a 10 yr/100k powertrain warranty in addition to a 5yr/60k bumper-to-bumper warranty. All that with 5yrs/unlimited roadside assistance. The Outlander XLS is priced right with all of the latest gadgets and features you've come to expect in a near-luxury car. It's emissions output is equivalent to a hybrid (if you live in California) and the gas mileage is very reasonable for its class.
Don't forget the Outlander was Car of the Year AND the best selling SUV in Japan. Consumer Reports also has the Outlander as a recommended model. The Outlander platform is shared with the upcoming Evo-X and the new Lancer (both are getting rave reviews in the press).
I truly believe there's hatred out there for Mitsubishi based on the cars they made YEARS ago (back when Mitsubishi foolishly worked with Chrysler in designing products in the 1980s). That's why some old-school mechanics still harbor ill feelings about Mitsubishi products. A few years ago, Mitsubishi offered 0% financing/$0 down. The company financed anybody (including deadbeats with bad credit). After two years, Mitsubishi got flooded used cars because of loan defaults. Those used cars were dumped on the market which caused resale values to drop dramatically. We all know how supply and demand works.
By the way, I own a 2007 Outlander. I've owned a Toyota and Honda in the past (both cars had issues contrary to the claims of perfection with those brands) and I currently have an Infiniti G35 (it also had bugs). I'm very picky about what I own.Guys can anyone advice how is 2007 outlander??, i know that mitsubishi has lower resale value ??
I would defenetly get the ooutttie, as its got great motor response, great inside space, and it is well equiped (get the top of the line version, as the other versions are not worth it).
Also, have in mind, is a loud steraeo for you? shiters on the steering wheel for you?... if you think yes, get it, as the competition, offers a more 'calm suv' than the outtie.
I bought the XLS on april, and cant leave it alone, its great.
Hope this works for you....
Hi,
I currently have an eclipse. If this runs across the board for Mitsubishi, I am currently having engine issues. My car only has 85000 miles on it and Cylinder 2 is misfiring. I was told by a certified mechanic that you usually only get about 70-90K out of a Mitsubishi and then they basically are done. If you are looking for a short term vehicle, I would recommend depending on the mileage, but if you are looking to make a major purchase and keep the vehicle long term... I would look more to Toyota Rav4 or Highlander!
Friday, April 30, 2010
Advice about guys? Girls and guys please.?
So this guy I really liked who I kissed and we were almost going out but not, I ended up getting him to go out with a friend of mine. Now I like him again and I realize he's off limits and there really happy together even though seeing them together makes me so jealous I want to kill myself. So today after school they were together and they just started making out right in front of me! They both know I really like him again. I texted them both asking them to at least ask me to leave or give me warning before there next tongue war... is that okay or was it too bitchy? Any other thoughts and advice would be wonderful. Thanks %26lt;3Advice about guys? Girls and guys please.?
What you did was normal, but you shouldn't have done it anyway. They are happy, and you must try to support that, even if it is hard for you.
Look, I feel for you. Most of us have been through this kind of thing, and we know it sucks. But things will get better, there are other guys, etc., and you have to be a good friend to your friends.Advice about guys? Girls and guys please.?
Is there some reason why you just can't walk away from them when they start in front of you?
I think that's rude to start making out in front of you, even if you hated the guy they should still be a little more considerate about you being there. It's okay for you to be jealous, and maybe if you hang out with the two of them you will find out if he's really worth dating..
ok you fu*ked yourself by getting him to go out with your friend get over it and move on, they're happy together, find someone else
Well, you could easily just walk away.
And if you liked him, it probably wasn't a brilliant idea to put him and your friend together.
You can't have him anymore, so just take it easy for now or look for someone else to either befriend or form a relationship with.
It's normal you cant avoid jealousy the same way you cant avoid love. They always come together. You just have to start looking for someone else.
What you did was normal, but you shouldn't have done it anyway. They are happy, and you must try to support that, even if it is hard for you.
Look, I feel for you. Most of us have been through this kind of thing, and we know it sucks. But things will get better, there are other guys, etc., and you have to be a good friend to your friends.Advice about guys? Girls and guys please.?
Is there some reason why you just can't walk away from them when they start in front of you?
I think that's rude to start making out in front of you, even if you hated the guy they should still be a little more considerate about you being there. It's okay for you to be jealous, and maybe if you hang out with the two of them you will find out if he's really worth dating..
ok you fu*ked yourself by getting him to go out with your friend get over it and move on, they're happy together, find someone else
Well, you could easily just walk away.
And if you liked him, it probably wasn't a brilliant idea to put him and your friend together.
You can't have him anymore, so just take it easy for now or look for someone else to either befriend or form a relationship with.
It's normal you cant avoid jealousy the same way you cant avoid love. They always come together. You just have to start looking for someone else.
Guys...a little advice plz?
my bf is into dirty talk/noises while having sex. Im not....and we do have sex but im just like the quiet type...like i do just heavy breathing/ and little silent moans....he says he doesnt care that we will just work up to that whenever....but the truth is i just feel a little strange saying things and screaming lol. What tips do u guys have?Guys...a little advice plz?
Why men demand women to be more expressive is coz men are more visual and vocal compared to women. More over male psychie is altogether different compared to fems. What matters more to men is what he could do to his partner. Not what he could get from. So your responses to his plays imply that he is doing good. That actully is a positive reinforcement and encouragement to him while making love to you. So reacting to what he does is very important...it will only arouse him more.
But that need not mean that you need to behave like a porn actress in bed. Why dont you guys meet half way? You become a bit more expressive and dirty, while he reduces his extremities. You know i too used to be quiet. And my husband demamded me to be more expressive. I too had a bit starting problem letting the voice outta my mouth. But now i love expressing myself fully n it makes him horny as well.
You will never enjoy sex unless you are ready to welcome changes and try new things. And if you are, you will never stop wondering if there is something else you can do in it.
So....good luck n enjoy!!!Guys...a little advice plz?
You should just tell him you cant yell and scream like that because . . .you cant
just tell him that you don't like it, get it out in the open
maybe tell him how you feel about it and maybe you guys can work out a situation together to keep it pleasurable for both people
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it. Tell him you won't do it. If he still insists, then punish him by taking away his sex privilages.
He wants to have sex, he'll have to have it your way or not at all (well maybe his hand, unless you smack it everytime he tries to whack it)
If he still insist on his way, come up with some excuse, like your tired or have a headache, not feeling well whatever it's all up to you.
Maybe you could just explain to him that you're not comfortable making noises. I'm sure he'll understand. Does he make a lot of noises as well? If he does, and you feel strange when he makes noises, ask him if he could keep it to a minimum.
Hmmm...
I don't know...??
If you don't feel like you want to make noises, or say something sexy; then you don't have to.
But you could try starting with simple little things, like:
How good he feels, or is making you feel...
or confessions about the things you like (when he does them)
or words of encouragement
or asking him to tell you or you tell him when you're about to (Ummm) feel relief.
Small things like that may satisfy his need, if you are able to do those things...
If not, perhaps you're not complatible in bed...
It's not the worst area to be incompatible.
as a guy my wife would wine i was the quiet type and explained i needed to get into it more. Not like fake it or something but breath or moan it helps the other gauge your level of excitement etc.. I started doign it and in all honesty it makes sex way better.
My boyfriend loves to talk dirty and I don't, I feel silly when I try. I told him that and he's okay with it, he says he would like it, if I did, but since I'm not comfortable with it, he just likes it, when he does it.
Just let yourself go. Don't repress your emotions and say and express what you feel. However, if you really don't feel very comfortable doing that, then he should have to to respect that.
Why men demand women to be more expressive is coz men are more visual and vocal compared to women. More over male psychie is altogether different compared to fems. What matters more to men is what he could do to his partner. Not what he could get from. So your responses to his plays imply that he is doing good. That actully is a positive reinforcement and encouragement to him while making love to you. So reacting to what he does is very important...it will only arouse him more.
But that need not mean that you need to behave like a porn actress in bed. Why dont you guys meet half way? You become a bit more expressive and dirty, while he reduces his extremities. You know i too used to be quiet. And my husband demamded me to be more expressive. I too had a bit starting problem letting the voice outta my mouth. But now i love expressing myself fully n it makes him horny as well.
You will never enjoy sex unless you are ready to welcome changes and try new things. And if you are, you will never stop wondering if there is something else you can do in it.
So....good luck n enjoy!!!Guys...a little advice plz?
You should just tell him you cant yell and scream like that because . . .you cant
just tell him that you don't like it, get it out in the open
maybe tell him how you feel about it and maybe you guys can work out a situation together to keep it pleasurable for both people
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it. Tell him you won't do it. If he still insists, then punish him by taking away his sex privilages.
He wants to have sex, he'll have to have it your way or not at all (well maybe his hand, unless you smack it everytime he tries to whack it)
If he still insist on his way, come up with some excuse, like your tired or have a headache, not feeling well whatever it's all up to you.
Maybe you could just explain to him that you're not comfortable making noises. I'm sure he'll understand. Does he make a lot of noises as well? If he does, and you feel strange when he makes noises, ask him if he could keep it to a minimum.
Hmmm...
I don't know...??
If you don't feel like you want to make noises, or say something sexy; then you don't have to.
But you could try starting with simple little things, like:
How good he feels, or is making you feel...
or confessions about the things you like (when he does them)
or words of encouragement
or asking him to tell you or you tell him when you're about to (Ummm) feel relief.
Small things like that may satisfy his need, if you are able to do those things...
If not, perhaps you're not complatible in bed...
It's not the worst area to be incompatible.
as a guy my wife would wine i was the quiet type and explained i needed to get into it more. Not like fake it or something but breath or moan it helps the other gauge your level of excitement etc.. I started doign it and in all honesty it makes sex way better.
My boyfriend loves to talk dirty and I don't, I feel silly when I try. I told him that and he's okay with it, he says he would like it, if I did, but since I'm not comfortable with it, he just likes it, when he does it.
Just let yourself go. Don't repress your emotions and say and express what you feel. However, if you really don't feel very comfortable doing that, then he should have to to respect that.
GUYS PLEASE HELP! ADVICE ON FLIRTING?
I've recently been flirting with a guy at work, and I would like some advice/suggstions on some subtle flirty things i can do to get his attention a little more without being like way over the top innapropriate because it's still a workplace! Any suggestions?GUYS PLEASE HELP! ADVICE ON FLIRTING?
everytime you pass him in your workplace smile, say hi, then look away and keep walking. it will drive him crazy. then when you talk to him or ask him how hes doing, smile confidently and gently touch his arm and laugh at anything remotely funny he says. thats a sure, appropriate way to flirt and to make him like notice you back. good luck (:GUYS PLEASE HELP! ADVICE ON FLIRTING?
one of the rules of thumb is the hips, when you are talking to him, even about work or what you had for breakfast, just point your hips a little more towards him, its a very subtle sign that guys notice subconsciously. another thing you can do is do you work in an office? if you do, you can just sorta walk by his cubicle and drop a sticky note over the top very discretely, with some date on it or something. when he makes a funny joke, and you start laughing, lightly tap his arm with the flat of your fingers, almost like a slap, but very light, to let him know you arent afraid of contact. haha there are millions of things you could do.
Well, if its a guy you can't be TOO subtle cause most of the time we're too dense to notice. You may just want to get his number and text message each other or hang out with other co-workers after work. Course, you guys can just e-mail each other if the text thing or the other doesn't work out. Good luck!
Just do the usual, a lot of eye contact and smiling. And when you stand close to him, a light touch on his arm. He'll get the message. When some girl, stands real close to you, you know that she's into you.
However, you are right, you are in a work environment, so just keep it cool and easy. Tongues will be wagging soon enough. You don't need that to happen.
Well aside from smiling at him and laughing at his jokes you can also get a little physical with him like hitting him lightly or touching his arm to get his attention. Plus when a girl goes out of her way to be near us this also lets us know she likes us.
look i think it isnt right to flirt at work,may be get his atention whn u ar on break or something,but pls go but take it easy.
slap his but. not like randomly. when lunch is over or something say c ya and slap it softly
you should get to know him but be your self.(and wear really atractive outfitts)
poke him when you get the chance to
and keep doing it
(:
Physical contact but not inappropriate physical contact.. figure it out :P
everytime you pass him in your workplace smile, say hi, then look away and keep walking. it will drive him crazy. then when you talk to him or ask him how hes doing, smile confidently and gently touch his arm and laugh at anything remotely funny he says. thats a sure, appropriate way to flirt and to make him like notice you back. good luck (:GUYS PLEASE HELP! ADVICE ON FLIRTING?
one of the rules of thumb is the hips, when you are talking to him, even about work or what you had for breakfast, just point your hips a little more towards him, its a very subtle sign that guys notice subconsciously. another thing you can do is do you work in an office? if you do, you can just sorta walk by his cubicle and drop a sticky note over the top very discretely, with some date on it or something. when he makes a funny joke, and you start laughing, lightly tap his arm with the flat of your fingers, almost like a slap, but very light, to let him know you arent afraid of contact. haha there are millions of things you could do.
Well, if its a guy you can't be TOO subtle cause most of the time we're too dense to notice. You may just want to get his number and text message each other or hang out with other co-workers after work. Course, you guys can just e-mail each other if the text thing or the other doesn't work out. Good luck!
Just do the usual, a lot of eye contact and smiling. And when you stand close to him, a light touch on his arm. He'll get the message. When some girl, stands real close to you, you know that she's into you.
However, you are right, you are in a work environment, so just keep it cool and easy. Tongues will be wagging soon enough. You don't need that to happen.
Well aside from smiling at him and laughing at his jokes you can also get a little physical with him like hitting him lightly or touching his arm to get his attention. Plus when a girl goes out of her way to be near us this also lets us know she likes us.
look i think it isnt right to flirt at work,may be get his atention whn u ar on break or something,but pls go but take it easy.
slap his but. not like randomly. when lunch is over or something say c ya and slap it softly
you should get to know him but be your self.(and wear really atractive outfitts)
poke him when you get the chance to
and keep doing it
(:
Physical contact but not inappropriate physical contact.. figure it out :P
Advice...on guys...(girls n guys both can answer)?
Alright. So theres this guy. Hell yeah hes hotttttt. But, I'm not sure if he likes me back.
So girls: If you've ever had a boyfriend how did u ask him out or how did he ask you out? By phone, in person, in text, in instant message? Send me the hole convo word for word. Discription, Discription, Discription!!!
Also if you've ever had a hot hot hot makeout setion explain it with details details details!!! Even how it happened. Was he like would you make out wit me or what?
Guys: Would you think it would be weird if a girl asked YOU out instead of YOU asking THEM out? Or would it be...hot...or something like that?
Also, if a girl ever asked you out tell me what they said? Text? Email? Phone call? In person? IM? Explain!!!! lollll
Alright if you guys could answer my questions that would be the greatest! And this is an EASY 10 POINTS!!! TRUST ME!!!
Hailey%26lt;3
Advice...on guys...(girls n guys both can answer)?
if i wanna make out with my man i just climb on him n start rubbing my nose on his cheek n nibblin on his ear n stuff n sometime well be play fighting then he will pin me down n we will just start kissing as for being asked 2 be a gf this guy once just told me that he liked me 4 a long time n stuff and wanted to be my bf (i said no thou cause he was shady) then theres just the kinda relationship where no one asks no one and u just know your bf and gf (u kno that when you call eachother baby n stuff) as for asking a guy out u just gotta say it hunni i just told this guy that i was really feelin him and i thought he was really sexy and i think we would look real good 2 gether i never ask guys on the phone etc always in person!!! so you will always kno when the times right trust me if it feels right then just go 4 it u only have 1 life!!Advice...on guys...(girls n guys both can answer)?
well my ex bf asked me out in person. He knew i liked him and i knew he liked me on my bday we were in his car and he was dropping me off at my house and he just said would you like to be my GF and i was like yeah i really would like that, Never ask to make out with someone ,. it just happens like from a pek to a really long kiss . keep it slow and deep if i do that than if i like the guy i get butterflies which are the absolute best=]
i would like it if a girl asked me out. i find that pretty attractive, and would probably say yes, unless i dont like her at all.
and one girl actually did ask me out before, on halloween. she said that she wanted to see a scary movie, and asked me if i would like to go with her and ';protect her'; when she gets scared. I was like...';SURE! you're asking me to make the moves on you!';
we ended up making out in the back for the first 20 minutes.
i like when girls make the first move sometimes. I guess its supposed to be proper for a guy to ask a girl out, but it doesn't matter to me.
One time it happened to me after i won this drawing at school and got 2 movie tickets. The girl i liked texted me and said hey your taking me right? (she had a boyfriend) and i said sure if you want. She broke up with her boyfriend that weekend and we went on a date the next monday
If a girl asked me out, and I liked her, I would feel like the luckiest man in the world. It sux when u gotta ask the girl out all the time cause all the pressure is on u and u always gotta worrry about a NO. So, if a girl asked me out, it wouldn't be weird, it would probably b a good thing.
Ive asked boys out and they asked me out. Its awesome i ask them out in person or i have my friends ask them out for me. in person. I never kiss the first time we go out unless they kiss me first or if i really like them and they let me. i had one really hot make out it was with me ex boyfriends brother who was my boyfriend at the time. im dating someone rate now we just started
ok i got asked out by one of my exs over the phone well he didnt technically do it but he txtd my friend because he didnt have my number and she was like will you go out with **** and i was like yes this came about that day at school where we told each other that we liked each other and then he left early before nething could happen
well i went to school with my boyfriend..we chatted in school and both liked each other..so i asked him if he wanted to go bowling with some friends of mine and he did. and then he took me out to lunch as friends and then i invited him to my house a couple of days later. all my friends left us alone and he asked me out.....:]
Honestly you just got to go up to him and introduce yourself or compliment him. If you mean ask out as in to be in a relationship, no the guy is supposed to do that but their is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out to go hang out somewhere. That's fine.
I'm a guy and I would def. say do it in person! Ask him if he wants to go out to dinner and ice skating or something. Its cheap, and easy, and you can pretend to suck at skating, giving you a reason to hold his hand...
It would be great to have a girl ask me out. Usually the pressure is always on the guy. The only time a girl asked me out I said no though, so you probably don't want pointers from her.
Wow, personal detailed question much? To my face, something along the lines of will you go out with me, I'm not describing a ';hot hot hot'; makeout session mmkay?
If fine if a girl asks me out. No problem. But, you should seem relaxed. Do it in person or on the phone. No emails, IMs, or any of that stuff.
Well if you like him then I'd say go for it, and trust me if her likes you he will be relieved that you asked him out.
I am a guy don't mind girls asking me out in person,don't ask your friends to do it its just annoying
well lets see ive been asked out in person by text and over the phone!!
just tell him you'd like to get together and ask if he is interested
dinner, movie, whatever
every guy if they like me just walk up and ask me out
lol i feel bad though when i say no
well... my friend once told a guy she liked him on aim once.. this is how it went.
girl: there is one reason i always love to talk to you..
boy: whys that?
girl: i really like you **name**
boy: oh well.. i dont want to ruin our friendship. i think he should just be close friends.
girl: oh. yeah i agree.. (even though she didnt!!)
it didnt go well. and how to start to make out? just go see a movie and look at him until he looks back which will be right when you turn your head. just look at him, then slowly lean in and he will to, and then PUCKEr UP!
I asked my ex out. I started by talking to him, then i suggested things to him. just like i would with a friend.like : oh!! theres this movie that i would like to see but i aint got no one to go with mer'; then the guy would just invite him self.
OK. so I'm a guy and in a relationship right now. If i were you, i would wait for him to make the first move. but it also depends on the type of person he is. if he is stuck up then wait, but if he is shy and romantic, then try something to give him clues. Maybe put a not in his locker of something. And if all else fails, definitely do it in person. Like the girl i asked out, i asked her in person, and I'm a nerd and she is really popular, and when i asked her in person i did it in front of her friends, and she said no but she brought me off to the side and said i had real guts asking her like that. and then one week later she said if the offer was still available, and now we are dating. And always follow your heart. Because in the end, its your gut feeling that makes you succeed in love. Always have faith, and good luck.
--Schmidty--
I liked this guy for literally years of my life and I never thought he'd like me back...ever in a million billion years. On top of that, for some of the years he was engaged! So finally he wasn't engaged anymore and we started hanging out. I didn't think he liked me at all but one day we were watching a movie and he just decided to kiss me! Out of NOWHERE! I was floored. We've started ';going out'; about 4 months later. When he finally ';asked me out'; he talked to my dad first and got permission. Then he came to me IN PERSON and asked if I'd like to have a relationship with him. I said yes.
Second thing...the hot makeout sessions aren't usually discussed before-hand. They just sort of happen. So good luck to you on that.
Hope this helps ;)
ahahha good questions.
1. My ex asked me out one day after my practice. He sat there and waited for me to get out and gave me a flower he picked and asked me. It was adorable...and we were together for 2 years. He said well do you like me..more than a friend..and i said well idk. He goes cmon and did this little puppy face thing and it was the cutest thing i have ever seen. and i said yes and we kissed right hten and there. ahaha
2. The best makeout session i ever had was after a huge fight. We were both really upset and just had gotten done yelling and it just happened. ahahhaha
3.
I'm a guy and when I liked this girl and was with her a lot for a few weeks and went to homecoming with her and i thought it would be really cheesy to ask her out if it wasn't in person, then one time she said that a few people had told her that I didn't like her and she was confused and i asked her what she thought, and she said she didn't know and i said, will this answer ur question, do u wanna go out wit me? I'm really shy and it was hard, I know im lame but hey, i did it ^^
and i wouldn't mind if she asked me out eithereyeshadow makeup
So girls: If you've ever had a boyfriend how did u ask him out or how did he ask you out? By phone, in person, in text, in instant message? Send me the hole convo word for word. Discription, Discription, Discription!!!
Also if you've ever had a hot hot hot makeout setion explain it with details details details!!! Even how it happened. Was he like would you make out wit me or what?
Guys: Would you think it would be weird if a girl asked YOU out instead of YOU asking THEM out? Or would it be...hot...or something like that?
Also, if a girl ever asked you out tell me what they said? Text? Email? Phone call? In person? IM? Explain!!!! lollll
Alright if you guys could answer my questions that would be the greatest! And this is an EASY 10 POINTS!!! TRUST ME!!!
Hailey%26lt;3
Advice...on guys...(girls n guys both can answer)?
if i wanna make out with my man i just climb on him n start rubbing my nose on his cheek n nibblin on his ear n stuff n sometime well be play fighting then he will pin me down n we will just start kissing as for being asked 2 be a gf this guy once just told me that he liked me 4 a long time n stuff and wanted to be my bf (i said no thou cause he was shady) then theres just the kinda relationship where no one asks no one and u just know your bf and gf (u kno that when you call eachother baby n stuff) as for asking a guy out u just gotta say it hunni i just told this guy that i was really feelin him and i thought he was really sexy and i think we would look real good 2 gether i never ask guys on the phone etc always in person!!! so you will always kno when the times right trust me if it feels right then just go 4 it u only have 1 life!!Advice...on guys...(girls n guys both can answer)?
well my ex bf asked me out in person. He knew i liked him and i knew he liked me on my bday we were in his car and he was dropping me off at my house and he just said would you like to be my GF and i was like yeah i really would like that, Never ask to make out with someone ,. it just happens like from a pek to a really long kiss . keep it slow and deep if i do that than if i like the guy i get butterflies which are the absolute best=]
i would like it if a girl asked me out. i find that pretty attractive, and would probably say yes, unless i dont like her at all.
and one girl actually did ask me out before, on halloween. she said that she wanted to see a scary movie, and asked me if i would like to go with her and ';protect her'; when she gets scared. I was like...';SURE! you're asking me to make the moves on you!';
we ended up making out in the back for the first 20 minutes.
i like when girls make the first move sometimes. I guess its supposed to be proper for a guy to ask a girl out, but it doesn't matter to me.
One time it happened to me after i won this drawing at school and got 2 movie tickets. The girl i liked texted me and said hey your taking me right? (she had a boyfriend) and i said sure if you want. She broke up with her boyfriend that weekend and we went on a date the next monday
If a girl asked me out, and I liked her, I would feel like the luckiest man in the world. It sux when u gotta ask the girl out all the time cause all the pressure is on u and u always gotta worrry about a NO. So, if a girl asked me out, it wouldn't be weird, it would probably b a good thing.
Ive asked boys out and they asked me out. Its awesome i ask them out in person or i have my friends ask them out for me. in person. I never kiss the first time we go out unless they kiss me first or if i really like them and they let me. i had one really hot make out it was with me ex boyfriends brother who was my boyfriend at the time. im dating someone rate now we just started
ok i got asked out by one of my exs over the phone well he didnt technically do it but he txtd my friend because he didnt have my number and she was like will you go out with **** and i was like yes this came about that day at school where we told each other that we liked each other and then he left early before nething could happen
well i went to school with my boyfriend..we chatted in school and both liked each other..so i asked him if he wanted to go bowling with some friends of mine and he did. and then he took me out to lunch as friends and then i invited him to my house a couple of days later. all my friends left us alone and he asked me out.....:]
Honestly you just got to go up to him and introduce yourself or compliment him. If you mean ask out as in to be in a relationship, no the guy is supposed to do that but their is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out to go hang out somewhere. That's fine.
I'm a guy and I would def. say do it in person! Ask him if he wants to go out to dinner and ice skating or something. Its cheap, and easy, and you can pretend to suck at skating, giving you a reason to hold his hand...
It would be great to have a girl ask me out. Usually the pressure is always on the guy. The only time a girl asked me out I said no though, so you probably don't want pointers from her.
Wow, personal detailed question much? To my face, something along the lines of will you go out with me, I'm not describing a ';hot hot hot'; makeout session mmkay?
If fine if a girl asks me out. No problem. But, you should seem relaxed. Do it in person or on the phone. No emails, IMs, or any of that stuff.
Well if you like him then I'd say go for it, and trust me if her likes you he will be relieved that you asked him out.
I am a guy don't mind girls asking me out in person,don't ask your friends to do it its just annoying
well lets see ive been asked out in person by text and over the phone!!
just tell him you'd like to get together and ask if he is interested
dinner, movie, whatever
every guy if they like me just walk up and ask me out
lol i feel bad though when i say no
well... my friend once told a guy she liked him on aim once.. this is how it went.
girl: there is one reason i always love to talk to you..
boy: whys that?
girl: i really like you **name**
boy: oh well.. i dont want to ruin our friendship. i think he should just be close friends.
girl: oh. yeah i agree.. (even though she didnt!!)
it didnt go well. and how to start to make out? just go see a movie and look at him until he looks back which will be right when you turn your head. just look at him, then slowly lean in and he will to, and then PUCKEr UP!
I asked my ex out. I started by talking to him, then i suggested things to him. just like i would with a friend.like : oh!! theres this movie that i would like to see but i aint got no one to go with mer'; then the guy would just invite him self.
OK. so I'm a guy and in a relationship right now. If i were you, i would wait for him to make the first move. but it also depends on the type of person he is. if he is stuck up then wait, but if he is shy and romantic, then try something to give him clues. Maybe put a not in his locker of something. And if all else fails, definitely do it in person. Like the girl i asked out, i asked her in person, and I'm a nerd and she is really popular, and when i asked her in person i did it in front of her friends, and she said no but she brought me off to the side and said i had real guts asking her like that. and then one week later she said if the offer was still available, and now we are dating. And always follow your heart. Because in the end, its your gut feeling that makes you succeed in love. Always have faith, and good luck.
--Schmidty--
I liked this guy for literally years of my life and I never thought he'd like me back...ever in a million billion years. On top of that, for some of the years he was engaged! So finally he wasn't engaged anymore and we started hanging out. I didn't think he liked me at all but one day we were watching a movie and he just decided to kiss me! Out of NOWHERE! I was floored. We've started ';going out'; about 4 months later. When he finally ';asked me out'; he talked to my dad first and got permission. Then he came to me IN PERSON and asked if I'd like to have a relationship with him. I said yes.
Second thing...the hot makeout sessions aren't usually discussed before-hand. They just sort of happen. So good luck to you on that.
Hope this helps ;)
ahahha good questions.
1. My ex asked me out one day after my practice. He sat there and waited for me to get out and gave me a flower he picked and asked me. It was adorable...and we were together for 2 years. He said well do you like me..more than a friend..and i said well idk. He goes cmon and did this little puppy face thing and it was the cutest thing i have ever seen. and i said yes and we kissed right hten and there. ahaha
2. The best makeout session i ever had was after a huge fight. We were both really upset and just had gotten done yelling and it just happened. ahahhaha
3.
I'm a guy and when I liked this girl and was with her a lot for a few weeks and went to homecoming with her and i thought it would be really cheesy to ask her out if it wasn't in person, then one time she said that a few people had told her that I didn't like her and she was confused and i asked her what she thought, and she said she didn't know and i said, will this answer ur question, do u wanna go out wit me? I'm really shy and it was hard, I know im lame but hey, i did it ^^
and i wouldn't mind if she asked me out either
Guys i need advice please help me!!!?
hello everyone.i just graduated from high school and i got into law school.the problem is that i regretted choosing law as my studies and now i ve decided not to go.instead i will wait until next year to study literature in my hometown.well i am not 100% sure of my choice cause sitting around for a year is not my style.i ve used to studying,going out,generally being active.so now what?everybody is leaving for studying and i am leaving behind!!!should i go to law just to avoid this and next year enroll in m hometown?Guys i need advice please help me!!!?
having the privilege of carrying an impressive academic records u can apply for internships or other kinds of work experiences. On the other hand you can apply for mid-year entry, depending on the university and the course they might or might not have mid-year entry, but most of the popular courses such as Sciences, Maths/Computers, Arts (including English Lit) do have this. Generally at Freshman year the popular units are run both semesters. Also, there are some courses available online (either free of charge, or with minium charge). I think that you won't have a problem to find an online-university that offer online English Lit courses. Renowned universities like MIT and Standford in the US or Oxford %26amp; Cambridge in the UK have online-courses also, free of charge, if you're interested.
Hope you will succeed in your choice of career. It's a good thing that you realize what you want to do and dont want to do now, many students dont until halfway through the course and cry themselves a river.Guys i need advice please help me!!!?
You don't have to lay around for a year. You could go to a community college and take some basic classes. It would be cheaper and save you time in the long-run. Community college is less of a commitment than a four-year school and it could ease your workload when you do transfer to a four-year college or something similar. Just get some basic classes out of the way like math or composition. Meet with an adviser to make sure you take classes that can transfer to another school.
I don't think you should take a year out all of your friends would be passed and you would still be at university and they would have careers and you wont! I personally I think it is a wrong idea to skip a year! Go to law school! Don't waste your talents!
theres nothing wrong with law maybee you should just enroll next time in your home town just follow your heart every thing will work out
having the privilege of carrying an impressive academic records u can apply for internships or other kinds of work experiences. On the other hand you can apply for mid-year entry, depending on the university and the course they might or might not have mid-year entry, but most of the popular courses such as Sciences, Maths/Computers, Arts (including English Lit) do have this. Generally at Freshman year the popular units are run both semesters. Also, there are some courses available online (either free of charge, or with minium charge). I think that you won't have a problem to find an online-university that offer online English Lit courses. Renowned universities like MIT and Standford in the US or Oxford %26amp; Cambridge in the UK have online-courses also, free of charge, if you're interested.
Hope you will succeed in your choice of career. It's a good thing that you realize what you want to do and dont want to do now, many students dont until halfway through the course and cry themselves a river.Guys i need advice please help me!!!?
You don't have to lay around for a year. You could go to a community college and take some basic classes. It would be cheaper and save you time in the long-run. Community college is less of a commitment than a four-year school and it could ease your workload when you do transfer to a four-year college or something similar. Just get some basic classes out of the way like math or composition. Meet with an adviser to make sure you take classes that can transfer to another school.
I don't think you should take a year out all of your friends would be passed and you would still be at university and they would have careers and you wont! I personally I think it is a wrong idea to skip a year! Go to law school! Don't waste your talents!
theres nothing wrong with law maybee you should just enroll next time in your home town just follow your heart every thing will work out
GUYS & GIRLS!!! any advice?? info inside?
so my friend is setting me up with one of her other friends that i've never met but apparently we are very alike.
any advice for me like flirting, what should i wear? %26amp; so on.GUYS %26amp; GIRLS!!! any advice?? info inside?
Don't be too flirty! That could totally scare him and make everything extreeeemely awkward. Try just getting to know him, and if you really are ';very alike';, the conversation should just flow. You both will get very excited and connected if you have a lot in common, so just explore what you can with your conversations. Try to show off all your positive personality aspects! And make sure you make a lot of eye contact with him while you're talking, it shows that you're interested without being overly flirty. And in terms of what to wear, it really depends on where you're going/what you're doing. Just don't show off too much skin, it looks desperate. Just accentuate your best physical feature. Good luck!
any advice for me like flirting, what should i wear? %26amp; so on.GUYS %26amp; GIRLS!!! any advice?? info inside?
Don't be too flirty! That could totally scare him and make everything extreeeemely awkward. Try just getting to know him, and if you really are ';very alike';, the conversation should just flow. You both will get very excited and connected if you have a lot in common, so just explore what you can with your conversations. Try to show off all your positive personality aspects! And make sure you make a lot of eye contact with him while you're talking, it shows that you're interested without being overly flirty. And in terms of what to wear, it really depends on where you're going/what you're doing. Just don't show off too much skin, it looks desperate. Just accentuate your best physical feature. Good luck!
Guys! i need advice! does he like me or not?
there's this guy at school and whenever we're together we laugh and smile a lot. but sometimes it feels like he doesn't even know i'm alive. he just ignores me sometimes but other times he joins in my conversations.
What does this mean? if he likes me what should i do?Guys! i need advice! does he like me or not?
friends as of now..Guys! i need advice! does he like me or not?
its kinda iffy. he could be trying to feel you out or just friends. flirt a little bit with him. see what happens? text him sometime or something, try to be a closer friend just don't push it yet.
Are you talking about a teenage boy? He likes anything that moves!
I aggree with eric. Try getting closer to him. If he likes you he will eventually make his move.
ima girl but i can tell hes interested
What does this mean? if he likes me what should i do?Guys! i need advice! does he like me or not?
friends as of now..Guys! i need advice! does he like me or not?
its kinda iffy. he could be trying to feel you out or just friends. flirt a little bit with him. see what happens? text him sometime or something, try to be a closer friend just don't push it yet.
Are you talking about a teenage boy? He likes anything that moves!
I aggree with eric. Try getting closer to him. If he likes you he will eventually make his move.
ima girl but i can tell hes interested
ADVICE TO GUYS ON GIRLS... boys and girls can both read this?
listen guys
i know sometimes you like someone or want them to like you
and when your around them you talk about your (imaginary) girlfriend and how shes the only girl you love and she has a good this and a good that...
and you are trying to get them jealous...COME ON YOU CANT DENY IT
well, you arent getting them jealous
you are hurting them
you want to do that....you want to hurt them so they act all nice to you
but no
you are making them feel like they will never have a chance and that crushes them and makes them cry
if you want them to like you, treat them special, dont push them around, dont call them names, and give them hugs and look at them straight in the eyes
cause girls...YOU KNOW YOU HAVE TO AGREE WITH THIS
o yeah
they want you to make the first move
dont be embarrassed
they wont reject youADVICE TO GUYS ON GIRLS... boys and girls can both read this?
THis is sweet. Just be yourself.ADVICE TO GUYS ON GIRLS... boys and girls can both read this?
This is really sweet.
But a blanket statement like ';They won't reject you'; is overpromising, honey.
Awww,....All your comments are affirmative dear! One down, 4 million to go!
i know sometimes you like someone or want them to like you
and when your around them you talk about your (imaginary) girlfriend and how shes the only girl you love and she has a good this and a good that...
and you are trying to get them jealous...COME ON YOU CANT DENY IT
well, you arent getting them jealous
you are hurting them
you want to do that....you want to hurt them so they act all nice to you
but no
you are making them feel like they will never have a chance and that crushes them and makes them cry
if you want them to like you, treat them special, dont push them around, dont call them names, and give them hugs and look at them straight in the eyes
cause girls...YOU KNOW YOU HAVE TO AGREE WITH THIS
o yeah
they want you to make the first move
dont be embarrassed
they wont reject youADVICE TO GUYS ON GIRLS... boys and girls can both read this?
THis is sweet. Just be yourself.ADVICE TO GUYS ON GIRLS... boys and girls can both read this?
This is really sweet.
But a blanket statement like ';They won't reject you'; is overpromising, honey.
Awww,....All your comments are affirmative dear! One down, 4 million to go!
Guys can anyone advice how is 2007 outlander??, i know that mitsubishi has lower resale value ??
2008 Highlander VS 2007 outlanderGuys can anyone advice how is 2007 outlander??, i know that mitsubishi has lower resale value ??
The 2007/08 Outlander is built in Japan with 100% Japanese part content (my Infiniti G35 has more foreign content). Furthermore, Mitsubishi is offering a 10 yr/100k powertrain warranty in addition to a 5yr/60k bumper-to-bumper warranty. All that with 5yrs/unlimited roadside assistance. The Outlander XLS is priced right with all of the latest gadgets and features you've come to expect in a near-luxury car. It's emissions output is equivalent to a hybrid (if you live in California) and the gas mileage is very reasonable for its class.
Don't forget the Outlander was Car of the Year AND the best selling SUV in Japan. Consumer Reports also has the Outlander as a recommended model. The Outlander platform is shared with the upcoming Evo-X and the new Lancer (both are getting rave reviews in the press).
I truly believe there's hatred out there for Mitsubishi based on the cars they made YEARS ago (back when Mitsubishi foolishly worked with Chrysler in designing products in the 1980s). That's why some old-school mechanics still harbor ill feelings about Mitsubishi products. A few years ago, Mitsubishi offered 0% financing/$0 down. The company financed anybody (including deadbeats with bad credit). After two years, Mitsubishi got flooded used cars because of loan defaults. Those used cars were dumped on the market which caused resale values to drop dramatically. We all know how supply and demand works.
By the way, I own a 2007 Outlander. I've owned a Toyota and Honda in the past (both cars had issues contrary to the claims of perfection with those brands) and I currently have an Infiniti G35 (it also had bugs). I'm very picky about what I own.Guys can anyone advice how is 2007 outlander??, i know that mitsubishi has lower resale value ??
I would defenetly get the ooutttie, as its got great motor response, great inside space, and it is well equiped (get the top of the line version, as the other versions are not worth it).
Also, have in mind, is a loud steraeo for you? shiters on the steering wheel for you?... if you think yes, get it, as the competition, offers a more 'calm suv' than the outtie.
I bought the XLS on april, and cant leave it alone, its great.
Hope this works for you....
Hi,
I currently have an eclipse. If this runs across the board for Mitsubishi, I am currently having engine issues. My car only has 85000 miles on it and Cylinder 2 is misfiring. I was told by a certified mechanic that you usually only get about 70-90K out of a Mitsubishi and then they basically are done. If you are looking for a short term vehicle, I would recommend depending on the mileage, but if you are looking to make a major purchase and keep the vehicle long term... I would look more to Toyota Rav4 or Highlander!
The 2007/08 Outlander is built in Japan with 100% Japanese part content (my Infiniti G35 has more foreign content). Furthermore, Mitsubishi is offering a 10 yr/100k powertrain warranty in addition to a 5yr/60k bumper-to-bumper warranty. All that with 5yrs/unlimited roadside assistance. The Outlander XLS is priced right with all of the latest gadgets and features you've come to expect in a near-luxury car. It's emissions output is equivalent to a hybrid (if you live in California) and the gas mileage is very reasonable for its class.
Don't forget the Outlander was Car of the Year AND the best selling SUV in Japan. Consumer Reports also has the Outlander as a recommended model. The Outlander platform is shared with the upcoming Evo-X and the new Lancer (both are getting rave reviews in the press).
I truly believe there's hatred out there for Mitsubishi based on the cars they made YEARS ago (back when Mitsubishi foolishly worked with Chrysler in designing products in the 1980s). That's why some old-school mechanics still harbor ill feelings about Mitsubishi products. A few years ago, Mitsubishi offered 0% financing/$0 down. The company financed anybody (including deadbeats with bad credit). After two years, Mitsubishi got flooded used cars because of loan defaults. Those used cars were dumped on the market which caused resale values to drop dramatically. We all know how supply and demand works.
By the way, I own a 2007 Outlander. I've owned a Toyota and Honda in the past (both cars had issues contrary to the claims of perfection with those brands) and I currently have an Infiniti G35 (it also had bugs). I'm very picky about what I own.Guys can anyone advice how is 2007 outlander??, i know that mitsubishi has lower resale value ??
I would defenetly get the ooutttie, as its got great motor response, great inside space, and it is well equiped (get the top of the line version, as the other versions are not worth it).
Also, have in mind, is a loud steraeo for you? shiters on the steering wheel for you?... if you think yes, get it, as the competition, offers a more 'calm suv' than the outtie.
I bought the XLS on april, and cant leave it alone, its great.
Hope this works for you....
Hi,
I currently have an eclipse. If this runs across the board for Mitsubishi, I am currently having engine issues. My car only has 85000 miles on it and Cylinder 2 is misfiring. I was told by a certified mechanic that you usually only get about 70-90K out of a Mitsubishi and then they basically are done. If you are looking for a short term vehicle, I would recommend depending on the mileage, but if you are looking to make a major purchase and keep the vehicle long term... I would look more to Toyota Rav4 or Highlander!
Advice about guys? Girls and guys please.?
So this guy I really liked who I kissed and we were almost going out but not, I ended up getting him to go out with a friend of mine. Now I like him again and I realize he's off limits and there really happy together even though seeing them together makes me so jealous I want to kill myself. So today after school they were together and they just started making out right in front of me! They both know I really like him again. I texted them both asking them to at least ask me to leave or give me warning before there next tongue war... is that okay or was it too bitchy? Any other thoughts and advice would be wonderful. Thanks %26lt;3Advice about guys? Girls and guys please.?
What you did was normal, but you shouldn't have done it anyway. They are happy, and you must try to support that, even if it is hard for you.
Look, I feel for you. Most of us have been through this kind of thing, and we know it sucks. But things will get better, there are other guys, etc., and you have to be a good friend to your friends.Advice about guys? Girls and guys please.?
Is there some reason why you just can't walk away from them when they start in front of you?
I think that's rude to start making out in front of you, even if you hated the guy they should still be a little more considerate about you being there. It's okay for you to be jealous, and maybe if you hang out with the two of them you will find out if he's really worth dating..
ok you fu*ked yourself by getting him to go out with your friend get over it and move on, they're happy together, find someone else
Well, you could easily just walk away.
And if you liked him, it probably wasn't a brilliant idea to put him and your friend together.
You can't have him anymore, so just take it easy for now or look for someone else to either befriend or form a relationship with.
It's normal you cant avoid jealousy the same way you cant avoid love. They always come together. You just have to start looking for someone else.eyeshadow makeup
What you did was normal, but you shouldn't have done it anyway. They are happy, and you must try to support that, even if it is hard for you.
Look, I feel for you. Most of us have been through this kind of thing, and we know it sucks. But things will get better, there are other guys, etc., and you have to be a good friend to your friends.Advice about guys? Girls and guys please.?
Is there some reason why you just can't walk away from them when they start in front of you?
I think that's rude to start making out in front of you, even if you hated the guy they should still be a little more considerate about you being there. It's okay for you to be jealous, and maybe if you hang out with the two of them you will find out if he's really worth dating..
ok you fu*ked yourself by getting him to go out with your friend get over it and move on, they're happy together, find someone else
Well, you could easily just walk away.
And if you liked him, it probably wasn't a brilliant idea to put him and your friend together.
You can't have him anymore, so just take it easy for now or look for someone else to either befriend or form a relationship with.
It's normal you cant avoid jealousy the same way you cant avoid love. They always come together. You just have to start looking for someone else.
Guys...a little advice plz?
my bf is into dirty talk/noises while having sex. Im not....and we do have sex but im just like the quiet type...like i do just heavy breathing/ and little silent moans....he says he doesnt care that we will just work up to that whenever....but the truth is i just feel a little strange saying things and screaming lol. What tips do u guys have?Guys...a little advice plz?
Why men demand women to be more expressive is coz men are more visual and vocal compared to women. More over male psychie is altogether different compared to fems. What matters more to men is what he could do to his partner. Not what he could get from. So your responses to his plays imply that he is doing good. That actully is a positive reinforcement and encouragement to him while making love to you. So reacting to what he does is very important...it will only arouse him more.
But that need not mean that you need to behave like a porn actress in bed. Why dont you guys meet half way? You become a bit more expressive and dirty, while he reduces his extremities. You know i too used to be quiet. And my husband demamded me to be more expressive. I too had a bit starting problem letting the voice outta my mouth. But now i love expressing myself fully n it makes him horny as well.
You will never enjoy sex unless you are ready to welcome changes and try new things. And if you are, you will never stop wondering if there is something else you can do in it.
So....good luck n enjoy!!!Guys...a little advice plz?
You should just tell him you cant yell and scream like that because . . .you cant
just tell him that you don't like it, get it out in the open
maybe tell him how you feel about it and maybe you guys can work out a situation together to keep it pleasurable for both people
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it. Tell him you won't do it. If he still insists, then punish him by taking away his sex privilages.
He wants to have sex, he'll have to have it your way or not at all (well maybe his hand, unless you smack it everytime he tries to whack it)
If he still insist on his way, come up with some excuse, like your tired or have a headache, not feeling well whatever it's all up to you.
Maybe you could just explain to him that you're not comfortable making noises. I'm sure he'll understand. Does he make a lot of noises as well? If he does, and you feel strange when he makes noises, ask him if he could keep it to a minimum.
Hmmm...
I don't know...??
If you don't feel like you want to make noises, or say something sexy; then you don't have to.
But you could try starting with simple little things, like:
How good he feels, or is making you feel...
or confessions about the things you like (when he does them)
or words of encouragement
or asking him to tell you or you tell him when you're about to (Ummm) feel relief.
Small things like that may satisfy his need, if you are able to do those things...
If not, perhaps you're not complatible in bed...
It's not the worst area to be incompatible.
as a guy my wife would wine i was the quiet type and explained i needed to get into it more. Not like fake it or something but breath or moan it helps the other gauge your level of excitement etc.. I started doign it and in all honesty it makes sex way better.
My boyfriend loves to talk dirty and I don't, I feel silly when I try. I told him that and he's okay with it, he says he would like it, if I did, but since I'm not comfortable with it, he just likes it, when he does it.
Just let yourself go. Don't repress your emotions and say and express what you feel. However, if you really don't feel very comfortable doing that, then he should have to to respect that.
Why men demand women to be more expressive is coz men are more visual and vocal compared to women. More over male psychie is altogether different compared to fems. What matters more to men is what he could do to his partner. Not what he could get from. So your responses to his plays imply that he is doing good. That actully is a positive reinforcement and encouragement to him while making love to you. So reacting to what he does is very important...it will only arouse him more.
But that need not mean that you need to behave like a porn actress in bed. Why dont you guys meet half way? You become a bit more expressive and dirty, while he reduces his extremities. You know i too used to be quiet. And my husband demamded me to be more expressive. I too had a bit starting problem letting the voice outta my mouth. But now i love expressing myself fully n it makes him horny as well.
You will never enjoy sex unless you are ready to welcome changes and try new things. And if you are, you will never stop wondering if there is something else you can do in it.
So....good luck n enjoy!!!Guys...a little advice plz?
You should just tell him you cant yell and scream like that because . . .you cant
just tell him that you don't like it, get it out in the open
maybe tell him how you feel about it and maybe you guys can work out a situation together to keep it pleasurable for both people
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it. Tell him you won't do it. If he still insists, then punish him by taking away his sex privilages.
He wants to have sex, he'll have to have it your way or not at all (well maybe his hand, unless you smack it everytime he tries to whack it)
If he still insist on his way, come up with some excuse, like your tired or have a headache, not feeling well whatever it's all up to you.
Maybe you could just explain to him that you're not comfortable making noises. I'm sure he'll understand. Does he make a lot of noises as well? If he does, and you feel strange when he makes noises, ask him if he could keep it to a minimum.
Hmmm...
I don't know...??
If you don't feel like you want to make noises, or say something sexy; then you don't have to.
But you could try starting with simple little things, like:
How good he feels, or is making you feel...
or confessions about the things you like (when he does them)
or words of encouragement
or asking him to tell you or you tell him when you're about to (Ummm) feel relief.
Small things like that may satisfy his need, if you are able to do those things...
If not, perhaps you're not complatible in bed...
It's not the worst area to be incompatible.
as a guy my wife would wine i was the quiet type and explained i needed to get into it more. Not like fake it or something but breath or moan it helps the other gauge your level of excitement etc.. I started doign it and in all honesty it makes sex way better.
My boyfriend loves to talk dirty and I don't, I feel silly when I try. I told him that and he's okay with it, he says he would like it, if I did, but since I'm not comfortable with it, he just likes it, when he does it.
Just let yourself go. Don't repress your emotions and say and express what you feel. However, if you really don't feel very comfortable doing that, then he should have to to respect that.
Guys only, any advice?
I'm a virgin and my bf and I were thinking about having sex for the first time in our relationship. We've been going out for like 3 months now and yeah he's been waiting for me. So, I want it to be done right, any advice? Like on what are good condoms out there to use or ways for it to be as pleasurable as possible for the both of us? We really don't want to use a condom but I know we'll have to. No lecturing, just real talk, please. I know how to protect myself, I'm just curious and is ready to take my relationship to the next level.Guys only, any advice?
that's up to you if you want to take your relationship to the next levelGuys only, any advice?
if you want it to be done right wait or marriage
dont get pissed
im a girl but yall have only been going out for 3 months
thats a huge step and im sure you know that so i would wait a few more months
who knows he may just screw you and break up with you
DONT BE EASY
im not trying to lecture
also i dont think your going to have a lot of pleasure because im sure its gonna hurt like a ******
also if you are going to use a condom and birth control
if you cant get birth control on your own then your too young
try trojan condoms, and try reverse cowgirl position.
just get tested for std's and if ur both clean get on the pill or some other kind of bc
i think i had sex for the first time around that time in my relationship. (only we didn't use a condom lol, so good for you being smart!) i'm sure since he's been nice about waiting that you've talked about it and stuff, but make sure he knows to take it slow. it hurt like hell for me at first. but my bf was really nice about it, and we took our time. that's the best advice. just don't rush when you start. it took me some time to get used to it. also, get some lube just in case... nothing's worse than trying to go in dry. ouch
well good on you for waiting this long and planning on safe sex.
To be honest any condom aslong as it fits will be ok as lets be honest the laddie will be quite keen and wont last that long.
But why dont you hold off a little longer to make sure he is serious about you? sex isnt to be rushed into, or should it have the 3Month sell by date.
just make sure its what you want, and if so get the condoms bought
use one
trojans, make him buy them so that they are the right size, get him happy, hands in the pants and stuff then ask him to undress you, as that is sooooooo sexy to a guy, then tease him a lil bit, then just start it up. id lie down and let him do the work for your first, ask him to go slow (i made the mistake, as my last gf forgot to mention that she was a virgin, which i though she was just really tight, and it hurt her like a *%26amp;%26amp;%26amp;%26amp;) SLOW as hell. then slowly get faster and faster. It will hurt you for a little while, maybe the entire time, you may not get to orgasm. it may take multiple sexual encounters before you even get one from him. also depends on his size. Just dont judge the AWSOMEness of sex on your first time, it usually (well almost always) SUCKS. Guy cums too fast, girl is sore as hell for a while, etc.
definatly buy condoms. dont want no babies yet. Think about it really hard first like if youre ready for this step in your relationship. thats all that i can really give except for make sure you keepo track of your period and when your done make sure the condom didnt have a whole in it for anything, because a lot of them can. and if it did go get yourself a pregnancy test.
Always use a condom, any condom, with everyone, everytime. Don't worry about the rest....the first time is never as good as you think it will be, no matter what you do to prepare.
it depends if you are going hard core or soft core
that's up to you if you want to take your relationship to the next levelGuys only, any advice?
if you want it to be done right wait or marriage
dont get pissed
im a girl but yall have only been going out for 3 months
thats a huge step and im sure you know that so i would wait a few more months
who knows he may just screw you and break up with you
DONT BE EASY
im not trying to lecture
also i dont think your going to have a lot of pleasure because im sure its gonna hurt like a ******
also if you are going to use a condom and birth control
if you cant get birth control on your own then your too young
try trojan condoms, and try reverse cowgirl position.
just get tested for std's and if ur both clean get on the pill or some other kind of bc
i think i had sex for the first time around that time in my relationship. (only we didn't use a condom lol, so good for you being smart!) i'm sure since he's been nice about waiting that you've talked about it and stuff, but make sure he knows to take it slow. it hurt like hell for me at first. but my bf was really nice about it, and we took our time. that's the best advice. just don't rush when you start. it took me some time to get used to it. also, get some lube just in case... nothing's worse than trying to go in dry. ouch
well good on you for waiting this long and planning on safe sex.
To be honest any condom aslong as it fits will be ok as lets be honest the laddie will be quite keen and wont last that long.
But why dont you hold off a little longer to make sure he is serious about you? sex isnt to be rushed into, or should it have the 3Month sell by date.
just make sure its what you want, and if so get the condoms bought
use one
trojans, make him buy them so that they are the right size, get him happy, hands in the pants and stuff then ask him to undress you, as that is sooooooo sexy to a guy, then tease him a lil bit, then just start it up. id lie down and let him do the work for your first, ask him to go slow (i made the mistake, as my last gf forgot to mention that she was a virgin, which i though she was just really tight, and it hurt her like a *%26amp;%26amp;%26amp;%26amp;) SLOW as hell. then slowly get faster and faster. It will hurt you for a little while, maybe the entire time, you may not get to orgasm. it may take multiple sexual encounters before you even get one from him. also depends on his size. Just dont judge the AWSOMEness of sex on your first time, it usually (well almost always) SUCKS. Guy cums too fast, girl is sore as hell for a while, etc.
definatly buy condoms. dont want no babies yet. Think about it really hard first like if youre ready for this step in your relationship. thats all that i can really give except for make sure you keepo track of your period and when your done make sure the condom didnt have a whole in it for anything, because a lot of them can. and if it did go get yourself a pregnancy test.
Always use a condom, any condom, with everyone, everytime. Don't worry about the rest....the first time is never as good as you think it will be, no matter what you do to prepare.
it depends if you are going hard core or soft core
Lady Advice.. maybe guys too?
So, i have a problem. Im a latin woman and I have lots of curves. I have the hardest time finding jeans. I dont have a weight problem or anything. I workout and dance and things like that. But i have a small waist, hips and a big butt. Does anyone have this problem? Are there any brands out there that are made for my body type and where can i find them?Lady Advice.. maybe guys too?
Most Drycleaners have an alterationist. Just buy the jeans that accomodate your buttocks and then get the waist taken in. :-)Lady Advice.. maybe guys too?
hahahaha! I have the same problem.
I have a very small waist, hips that go on for forever and a nice round butt! Never had any complaints!!!! But I have found that Levi's work great and look great!
there are some brand for ur body type, i have a bigger butt, n my waist is quite small, i buy normal CHEAP jeans n i tailor the back of the waistband it looks perfect !!
try it !
i have curves but i am slightly overweight. i have a similar problem. i stay away from the straight leg because there's no space for curves. i like lee or l.e.i. (l.e.i. with a flared leg and low rise - emphasizes curves i think)
Go to a jeans store and have a professional help you. There are different brands and cuts of jeans for different body types.
Quit fooling yourself, get out and walk at least three days a week.
A fat butt is a fat butt.
Sorry, I don't know where you can shop, but yeah, you Latin ladies are muy caliente!! That's why they had to invent duenas to keep an eye on you--*I* certainly can't watch you shake it when the music starts! :)
you are hot
Most Drycleaners have an alterationist. Just buy the jeans that accomodate your buttocks and then get the waist taken in. :-)Lady Advice.. maybe guys too?
hahahaha! I have the same problem.
I have a very small waist, hips that go on for forever and a nice round butt! Never had any complaints!!!! But I have found that Levi's work great and look great!
there are some brand for ur body type, i have a bigger butt, n my waist is quite small, i buy normal CHEAP jeans n i tailor the back of the waistband it looks perfect !!
try it !
i have curves but i am slightly overweight. i have a similar problem. i stay away from the straight leg because there's no space for curves. i like lee or l.e.i. (l.e.i. with a flared leg and low rise - emphasizes curves i think)
Go to a jeans store and have a professional help you. There are different brands and cuts of jeans for different body types.
Quit fooling yourself, get out and walk at least three days a week.
A fat butt is a fat butt.
Sorry, I don't know where you can shop, but yeah, you Latin ladies are muy caliente!! That's why they had to invent duenas to keep an eye on you--*I* certainly can't watch you shake it when the music starts! :)
you are hot
Boy advice from guys and girls....PLEASE?
We have family-friends that com every year to Toronto, they come to visit but not for the past 3 years. And there oldest son, i had A HUGE CRUSH on for like 5 years...I know...but i couldnt tell him cuz our family is so close and it would be so awkward and i dont think he ever took me seriously. BUt now i do not like him any more.
I cannot act normal around a guy that i used to like its just feels awkward....and he so HOT! and its just not normal for me to act normal unless im mad at him...but that doesnt count...
so and i PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE have some advice on how i can act normal around him and be my self%26gt; please this is really serious!! THANK YOU!Boy advice from guys and girls....PLEASE?
first of all you better get off the impression that you used to like this guy coz it will just overpower your need to communicate with him
i suggest you imagine him as your friend, cousin, or even brother anyone who could make you comfortable being with him
good day....Boy advice from guys and girls....PLEASE?
just like think for a sec. before you act.
if you act normally once that will probably lead to another ';normal'; moment.
then it might catch on and ull be acting normally without a problem.
its gonna take some time but youll get it.
i know i have the same problem.
just try to control your self.
good luck
Two words.Practice and Visualize.Practice in what you're going to say and Visualize him the next time you'll meet.Don't act nervous and just be yourself.Do you really like him?If you do hang out somewhere and if you don't then maybe you shouldn't see him period.
Move on, go out with another guy, you'll forget him.
Good luck! x
help me?
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Say ';I can't like him I can't like him'; in your head or pinch yourself everytime you think of him that way. Thats all I can say about that...
Just pretend he's someone you really can't stand, then go from there.
I cannot act normal around a guy that i used to like its just feels awkward....and he so HOT! and its just not normal for me to act normal unless im mad at him...but that doesnt count...
so and i PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE have some advice on how i can act normal around him and be my self%26gt; please this is really serious!! THANK YOU!Boy advice from guys and girls....PLEASE?
first of all you better get off the impression that you used to like this guy coz it will just overpower your need to communicate with him
i suggest you imagine him as your friend, cousin, or even brother anyone who could make you comfortable being with him
good day....Boy advice from guys and girls....PLEASE?
just like think for a sec. before you act.
if you act normally once that will probably lead to another ';normal'; moment.
then it might catch on and ull be acting normally without a problem.
its gonna take some time but youll get it.
i know i have the same problem.
just try to control your self.
good luck
Two words.Practice and Visualize.Practice in what you're going to say and Visualize him the next time you'll meet.Don't act nervous and just be yourself.Do you really like him?If you do hang out somewhere and if you don't then maybe you shouldn't see him period.
Move on, go out with another guy, you'll forget him.
Good luck! x
help me?
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Say ';I can't like him I can't like him'; in your head or pinch yourself everytime you think of him that way. Thats all I can say about that...
Just pretend he's someone you really can't stand, then go from there.
Need advice from guys or whoever eveyone just help?
well ok
im a nice girl, im latina, kinda short 5'4 but i'm fit, but curvy
i'm a sophmore in college
and there is this guy i'm crushing on but he wont give me the time of day
we are in the same psych class and worked on a project together, that were i started liking him
my friend thinks i'm crazy for liking him he's shy is that why he won't pay any attention to me
he's not what i would typically go for, i hate to use labels but he's kind of a nerd, but a very adorable one, i was thinking he might think i'm not smart enough,but i'm a smart girl in the honors society, i might not have as high a gpa but im not stupid, he's never had a girl friend
but i can't tell if he likes me when we finished our project and got it back i was so happy with our grade a kissed him on the cheek and hugged him,he turned really red,i was sort of embarrassed to make him uncomfortable he's really nice,and sweet. for my bday he gave me a rose,idk what to think how do i ask him w/o being weirdNeed advice from guys or whoever eveyone just help?
Relax. If he's never had a girlfriend, he doesn't know how to act. Just hang out with him and reassure him when he does something right and don't be too hard on him when he goofs something up (as I'm sure he will do). Just have patience with him. This is new for him.Need advice from guys or whoever eveyone just help?
this sounds like a nice young man that probably hasnt had many if any girl freinds so be gentle and youve got a winner . im sure hes trying to build the courage to ask you out right now the rose was a dead give away . just give him a nudge and ill bet your going to be an item !!!!
Hey,
next time you have a psych class test or quizz ask him if he wants to study together, that way you don't use the word ';date'; and scare him away. You guys can talk and if it goes well you could even go out to eat afterwards. If you still want to go out with him on a real date it probably wont be as uncomfortable because you two have gotten to know each other better :]!
im a nice girl, im latina, kinda short 5'4 but i'm fit, but curvy
i'm a sophmore in college
and there is this guy i'm crushing on but he wont give me the time of day
we are in the same psych class and worked on a project together, that were i started liking him
my friend thinks i'm crazy for liking him he's shy is that why he won't pay any attention to me
he's not what i would typically go for, i hate to use labels but he's kind of a nerd, but a very adorable one, i was thinking he might think i'm not smart enough,but i'm a smart girl in the honors society, i might not have as high a gpa but im not stupid, he's never had a girl friend
but i can't tell if he likes me when we finished our project and got it back i was so happy with our grade a kissed him on the cheek and hugged him,he turned really red,i was sort of embarrassed to make him uncomfortable he's really nice,and sweet. for my bday he gave me a rose,idk what to think how do i ask him w/o being weirdNeed advice from guys or whoever eveyone just help?
Relax. If he's never had a girlfriend, he doesn't know how to act. Just hang out with him and reassure him when he does something right and don't be too hard on him when he goofs something up (as I'm sure he will do). Just have patience with him. This is new for him.Need advice from guys or whoever eveyone just help?
this sounds like a nice young man that probably hasnt had many if any girl freinds so be gentle and youve got a winner . im sure hes trying to build the courage to ask you out right now the rose was a dead give away . just give him a nudge and ill bet your going to be an item !!!!
Hey,
next time you have a psych class test or quizz ask him if he wants to study together, that way you don't use the word ';date'; and scare him away. You guys can talk and if it goes well you could even go out to eat afterwards. If you still want to go out with him on a real date it probably wont be as uncomfortable because you two have gotten to know each other better :]!
Some advice from guys pleeeaze!?
ok....I met a guy recently but because of outside things happening that couldn't be helped, we've only been out twice. Both times wasn't really what I'd call a date....it's hard to explain why they weren't dates but just take it that it was spur of the moment and stuff like that.....anyway, i texted him the other day to tell him i'd be back in town soon and that we have to meet up for that drink he promised me.....after most contact we have via email or text message, he always says ';see you soon'; and I just want to know, is he just being polite or does he actually mean he'll see me soon.....i am reminded of the episode of friends where chandler kept saying...we must do this again sometime but didn't actually mean it!!!!
Just want to be sure that I'm not wasting my time here!Some advice from guys pleeeaze!?
well thats a sitcom
they make a giant poking devise out of chop sticks that reached acros a street ( see that one )
so dont take that to heart
and dont read too much into things
it tend to do it and i usually get it all wrong
so just be calm
like if he arranges to meet up with u too then im sure he does mean hell see u soon
i cant really say if he does or not cuz i dont know all the details
good luck thou !!Some advice from guys pleeeaze!?
If he usually sees you soon after you get back in town then he means what he says. Cant live your life based on the actions of fictional characters.eyeshadow makeup
Just want to be sure that I'm not wasting my time here!Some advice from guys pleeeaze!?
well thats a sitcom
they make a giant poking devise out of chop sticks that reached acros a street ( see that one )
so dont take that to heart
and dont read too much into things
it tend to do it and i usually get it all wrong
so just be calm
like if he arranges to meet up with u too then im sure he does mean hell see u soon
i cant really say if he does or not cuz i dont know all the details
good luck thou !!Some advice from guys pleeeaze!?
If he usually sees you soon after you get back in town then he means what he says. Cant live your life based on the actions of fictional characters.
Need advice from GUYS ONLY?
i figured guys would understand this problem the best,
okay so i have liked this guy for about 9 months now,
and we just recently started talking about the possibility of a relationship, he has a girl friend but he wants to break up with her, and i asked him if he liked me and he said as a friend right now because we didnt really know eachother that well, so when he came back from vacation we were going to hang out. well yesterday he was supposed to call me, and of course no call. i feel like im sending him too many messages / comments on myspace. and i dont want him to get sick of me, he is a really good guy but he always leaves me dissapointed. I mean he was the one that originally started talking to me and he is NEVER mean/rude/or a douche to me but its just one day, he is like lets hang i want to get to know you and then one day he doesnt talk to me. I dont know, is he just shy?Need advice from GUYS ONLY?
you talk too much.Need advice from GUYS ONLY?
I'm a guy, and i think you should give him time. If he likes you, he'll eventually show it. As for not calling you, maybe he is busy, or has things going on. Guys usually don't get sick of girls!
maybe u should txt be like ';hey what up', show him that ur interested too its a two way street. be like are we hang out today? then ull get an answers if there too many excuses in many occasions then hes not interested. or be like wanna get some lunch etc etc.
hes working with the ill wait for her to call routine see this gets you to think about him even more and itll lead you to call him and show him a bit of how much you like him
Guys have busy lives too, he doesn't have enough time to talk to you every single day.
dont read too much into it. chances are he just forgot to call, seeing as he just got back from vacation. If he doesnt call you tommorow or the day after why dont you give him a call?
okay so i have liked this guy for about 9 months now,
and we just recently started talking about the possibility of a relationship, he has a girl friend but he wants to break up with her, and i asked him if he liked me and he said as a friend right now because we didnt really know eachother that well, so when he came back from vacation we were going to hang out. well yesterday he was supposed to call me, and of course no call. i feel like im sending him too many messages / comments on myspace. and i dont want him to get sick of me, he is a really good guy but he always leaves me dissapointed. I mean he was the one that originally started talking to me and he is NEVER mean/rude/or a douche to me but its just one day, he is like lets hang i want to get to know you and then one day he doesnt talk to me. I dont know, is he just shy?Need advice from GUYS ONLY?
you talk too much.Need advice from GUYS ONLY?
I'm a guy, and i think you should give him time. If he likes you, he'll eventually show it. As for not calling you, maybe he is busy, or has things going on. Guys usually don't get sick of girls!
maybe u should txt be like ';hey what up', show him that ur interested too its a two way street. be like are we hang out today? then ull get an answers if there too many excuses in many occasions then hes not interested. or be like wanna get some lunch etc etc.
hes working with the ill wait for her to call routine see this gets you to think about him even more and itll lead you to call him and show him a bit of how much you like him
Guys have busy lives too, he doesn't have enough time to talk to you every single day.
dont read too much into it. chances are he just forgot to call, seeing as he just got back from vacation. If he doesnt call you tommorow or the day after why dont you give him a call?
Lady Advice.. maybe guys too?
So, i have a problem. Im a latin woman and I have lots of curves. I have the hardest time finding jeans. I dont have a weight problem or anything. I workout and dance and things like that. But i have a small waist, hips and a big butt. Does anyone have this problem? Are there any brands out there that are made for my body type and where can i find them?Lady Advice.. maybe guys too?
I have a similar build with long legs too so the waist would always be big around me with some jeans. I've found Levi's to be the best for me and they have so many different styles.Lady Advice.. maybe guys too?
welcome to the world of the full figured woman I'm small and have problems finding jeans that fit right but i know jlo has a line that caters to the full figured woman so i guess you can try her. or have your jeans tailor made
nelly's apple bottoms ;)
try applebottoms they are made for women with curves and big bottom areas. you should be able to find them in the stores at the mall like jcpenney and other stores that carry urban clothing
gurl i know your pain, i'm going thru the same problem also.
But it seems that yours is more serious than mines. What i normally do by my jeans 1 zize bigger or 1/2 bigger,
You probably have the same problem my fiance does... the pants go up over your butt...but then you can fit a 2 liter coke bottle back there...try to find curvy jeans and a contour belt...She finds that Victoria's Secret jeans work best for her.... This probably sounds crazy coming from a guy... but when you've been with a girl for over 3 years, and have experience in clothing retail... you kinda develop a knowledge of these things... hope this helps.
... By the way ladies, there is nothing wrong with nice curves in the right places... 'cept for finding clothes that fit.... Well, in a perfect world, we'd all be naked anyway.
i have the same problemo
First of all... Can I have you're number? ;) Jk.
My girlfriend has the same problem. She buys her jeans at Buckle and only at Buckle. Other than that, try them on before you buy them?
I am an african american woman an I have a full figure, hips and thighs. there are alot of urban clothing lines that cater to us my favorite is akademic, then u have to try babyphat, azzure, rocawear, LRG, these r just a few just check them out. Guaranteed to fit like heaven, they may be a lil costly but hey they r well worth it.
Thalia that brand is made for you try it you will like it you can find it everywhere almost I know for sur they have it at K mart and I know you are thinking K mart what but just go look I am telling you they are cut
I have a similar build with long legs too so the waist would always be big around me with some jeans. I've found Levi's to be the best for me and they have so many different styles.Lady Advice.. maybe guys too?
welcome to the world of the full figured woman I'm small and have problems finding jeans that fit right but i know jlo has a line that caters to the full figured woman so i guess you can try her. or have your jeans tailor made
nelly's apple bottoms ;)
try applebottoms they are made for women with curves and big bottom areas. you should be able to find them in the stores at the mall like jcpenney and other stores that carry urban clothing
gurl i know your pain, i'm going thru the same problem also.
But it seems that yours is more serious than mines. What i normally do by my jeans 1 zize bigger or 1/2 bigger,
You probably have the same problem my fiance does... the pants go up over your butt...but then you can fit a 2 liter coke bottle back there...try to find curvy jeans and a contour belt...She finds that Victoria's Secret jeans work best for her.... This probably sounds crazy coming from a guy... but when you've been with a girl for over 3 years, and have experience in clothing retail... you kinda develop a knowledge of these things... hope this helps.
... By the way ladies, there is nothing wrong with nice curves in the right places... 'cept for finding clothes that fit.... Well, in a perfect world, we'd all be naked anyway.
i have the same problemo
First of all... Can I have you're number? ;) Jk.
My girlfriend has the same problem. She buys her jeans at Buckle and only at Buckle. Other than that, try them on before you buy them?
I am an african american woman an I have a full figure, hips and thighs. there are alot of urban clothing lines that cater to us my favorite is akademic, then u have to try babyphat, azzure, rocawear, LRG, these r just a few just check them out. Guaranteed to fit like heaven, they may be a lil costly but hey they r well worth it.
Thalia that brand is made for you try it you will like it you can find it everywhere almost I know for sur they have it at K mart and I know you are thinking K mart what but just go look I am telling you they are cut
Any advice for a guy who is about to start playing as an adult at 8th man?
I have played soccer and American football for years.Any advice for a guy who is about to start playing as an adult at 8th man?
number 8 is a hard runner, big tackler. Normally, number 8's have a bit of size about them, so I'm going to assume you have a bit of size about you too, throw it around!
With the ball in hand, run strait %26amp; hard, try to pick out the opposition's #9 %26amp; #10's to run at.
In defence, drop your shoulder %26amp; make your presence known.Any advice for a guy who is about to start playing as an adult at 8th man?
Enjoy it and put your heart into it.
number 8 is a hard runner, big tackler. Normally, number 8's have a bit of size about them, so I'm going to assume you have a bit of size about you too, throw it around!
With the ball in hand, run strait %26amp; hard, try to pick out the opposition's #9 %26amp; #10's to run at.
In defence, drop your shoulder %26amp; make your presence known.Any advice for a guy who is about to start playing as an adult at 8th man?
Enjoy it and put your heart into it.
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