Friday, January 8, 2010

I need advice from guys?

ok here goes why dont guys wanna date girls because there exes get jealous why cant yall just over look them


my ex gets jealous when other guys wanna date meI need advice from guys?
its just naturalI need advice from guys?
I have to wonder what kind of wimpy guys you are wanting to date that care what your exes feel. A real man cares only about the girl and being with her.
Men don't like drama. With a jealous ex in the background its tough to build a relationship that and its not fair to have that competition in the background. Tell your ex to buzz of and you'll have better luck. Best Wishes! J
Well for one thing / your ex shouldnt even be in the picture at all. Especially if he is jealous of who you date. Tell the Ex to take a hike / and the guys will come around again.
Well I could care less about what my gf's ex thought. If he tried to make a move on her I would kick his butt. If i knew he was jealous and wanted her back though I would ask that she not talk to him. but that would be all. If they just wanted to be friends and nothing else I wouldnt see any harm in that either
afraid of ex
baby girl, why should you care; it's your ex. you don't need to care what he thinks. go and enjoy life.
depends on how jealous he gets, many guys may feel like they may get into some type of fight with him and may not feel its worth it
Hmm... I've actually never heard of that before I read your question, but I can see how this could be a problem, especially if the girls ex was strong, bad tempered, or intimidating, or if he was friends with the guy and he didn't want to hurt him or their friendship.





Nevertheless, I think that's a fairly lousy reason not to date someone. I mean, there is a reason they are called an ';ex';.
find a boy that is nicer and a better fighter than ex, see if that will discourage the ex, maybe he will leave you alone then. then move on.
vice versa fer me, the girl is the one saying, i dont wanna hurt my exes feelings n blah blah blah, she now has an open relationship with the kid and im not invited. screw love boohh!
somes guys are afraid and also some guys are just insecure wel you just cant change things right
If he still care about ex, then he tries to avoid any thing that can hurt her. Even if it cost his own happiness. I know it sound stupid, but it's just a matter of heart and no one has control over it, brain doesn't work :) But thats the way ot is.

I need advice from guys!!!!?

How do I get my bf to kiss me without asking or kissing him 1st?I need advice from guys!!!!?
You learn how to communicate.





It helps if you use things called ';words.';





Either that, or telepathy.

How many of you guys do parkour any advice any of you guys willing to teach me i can be emailed and imed here.

i wanna learn parkour really badlyHow many of you guys do parkour any advice any of you guys willing to teach me i can be emailed and imed here.
Yo, I've been doing parkour for about 10 months now, but it hasn't really been until the past few weeks that I've started to take it seriously. Parkour is great; it really gets your body in shape and gets you to learn things about your body you never knew you could do (mind over matter!).





I'd suggest looking around on the internet for parkour communities near where you live, or, if they don't exist, start up a forum or put up posters to get more people together. The whole non-competitive aspect of parkour is one of it's defining characteristics, and having more people involved will really help you and others improve.
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  • Want some advice from guys !!about makin out...?

    well if me n my guy r jus makin out... wht can i do to make him enjoy it more... thats is if we r not intending to have sex... but jus bein a lil playful....Want some advice from guys !!about makin out...?
    dry hump him, just grind in between in thighs while you two are making out





    --Want some advice from guys !!about makin out...?
    shut your eyes tightly when he kisses you, he'll feel that there's nowhere else that you'd like to be except in his arms. grab a hold of his hair (not too tightly) and that'll deepen the kiss. making out is an art, only certain guys will aprreciate just making out without all that grinding and stuffs. that's also another way of analysing guys. =)
    I think it's awesome when someone runs their tongue along the front side of my teeth. it's sort of bizarre if you've never done it before...but I like it. :)
    make sexy noises.
    get you gf to help you he will really like that
    ugh! they only make out to get sex. So probably a kiss good night is about as far as you want to go to persue that.

    Ladies, what do you think about Asian women? Any advice for guys...?

    Most of them are very sweet, but I have met a couple with terrible tempers.Ladies, what do you think about Asian women? Any advice for guys...?
    I AM ASIAN! =D AND I AM PROUD OFF IT! COZ I'M HOT! :P No just kidding well i am asian and i'm proud off it coz actually no offence for the ladies who are black or white but i just think that asian women are more warm..off skintone ;-) and they are more patient and less jealous then white and black women..(i sound a bit racistic i'm sorry) xDLadies, what do you think about Asian women? Any advice for guys...?
    I know Asian girls they are sweet,and they have kind of a pride which makes them more attractive. and they like charming guys just like other girls:)
    I am thinkin what is the actual question. asain women i think they're kind but not all asain women are the same right??? and if you want to go out with one be normal like any other noemal guy lol
    Hmm, depends on what kind of Asian you are. And your family background.
    asian women are beautiful
    Wtf?





    Women are women!


    Don't be so racist.





    Asian guys are hot though...
    What about them? They're asian.
    What type of asian? chinese, indian?? and for what??
    they are good and helpful
    i duno there like all other people dont be rasist.

    I need advice from guys...What's going on??

    Okay, I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks - I talked to him over the weekend and he said that he'd call. Well, he never did, so I deleted his number from my cell. Low and behold he calls me today and we go out, and it was like nothing happened. We kissed, and he said that he wants to see me again. Why does it take him so long to call? Does he just see me as a cheap piece of tail or what??I need advice from guys...What's going on??
    Girls have to realize when guys say they'll call they mean like before they die.I need advice from guys...What's going on??
    well, there's your problem.





    you're not putting out.
    I think that you need to talk to him THE NEXT TIME HE CALLS strongly and matter-of-factly and tell him you already deleted his number because he didn't call when he said, ect. Then find out where he's coming from, ect.





    That way it won't be as though you're calling him, but you sort of tell him to get a clue or get lost.

    I need advice on guys?

    there is a guy at my school that is always hanging around me and he is my realy good friend and also my crush. he always tells people that he doesnt like me but he always puts his arm around me when im walking down the hall and always invites me to his house. what should i do about him!!!!!!!I need advice on guys?
    let mother nature diside what gona happen just let thinks happen there is nothing you can do , but just let thinks happen let see. OK.I need advice on guys?
    thats a guy for ya, make yourself scarce, he'll come runnin
    he just ';hiding'; his feelings about you
    The best advise I ever got was from an old lady who out of the blue while I was walking down a street in New Orleans stopped me and said, ';Remember this: be patient dear and be sweet.'; I don't know if she was drunk or just weird and scary but the advise always served me well I am passing it on to you.
    Go to his house and find out.
    Sounds like he's ashamed to have people think that he likes you. Very immature on his part. Don't let him put his arms around you, that's childish. Especially if he goes around telling people he doesn't like you. makes no sense
    if u like him too u should see if he'll go out w/ you. As far as him saying he doesn't like you he totally likes you.
    Ask him. before u do anything





    he might just be brotherly. I might be brotherly to some cute girl and help her out. so b4 u do anything that might hurt his feelings u better make sure

    Advice qwick guys and girls?

    ok i like this guy he told my bff he liked me and he was going to ask me out on friday buutt his xx came up to me and said you should not go out with himm cuz she stll likes him and now i wanna write him a love letter but idk wht to say ?????Advice qwick guys and girls?
    id write HER the letter:


    ';im sorry your ex like me. lifes tough get a helmet';


    sign ur name all pretty then go out with him anyways

    Guys I really need your advice?

    Ok so if you liked a girl two years younger than you would you be like totally outgoing with her and show her you like her or would you be kind of shy and unsure if she likes you or not and no want to like let her know you like her. The ages are 16 for the guy and 14 for the girl.Guys I really need your advice?
    right now i like a girl who is 12 years younger than me.. i hate it! i don't want to! that's too young, and it is still legal, i'm just old!!.. i am very outgoing with her. unless the guy is scared, he is always outgoing to the point of almost being stupid when he likes a girl.
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  • I need Advice from Guys?

    What is the non-psycho way to tell/show my boyfriend how much I love him?I need Advice from Guys?
    talk is cheap.





    walk the walk.I need Advice from Guys?
    you dnt say it u show it mayne! maybe give him a hug, get him sumden he likes, its all about what you do and what comes from the heart!
    Everyon is different, I'm partial to, maybe a walk during the sunset, then a long hug as we watch the sun go down.
    i like to her I LOVE YOU
    just spend a lot of timw with him.
    OK, how does he really show affection or caring? Does he serve people or encourage people? What ever he does, that is what you need to mirror to show him love that he will appreciate. BTW..Im not talking about sex. Duh.

    Advice Please! Guys and Girls?

    My roommate is anti relationship. He just likes to have sex with no strings attached. A girl approached him and said ';All you need to know is I'm over 18.'; They exchanged numbers. He called her yesterday and left a voicemail and let her know he was available today in the am hours. He texted her today and asked ';are you in class?';





    He wants to know what the best way to approach her to get her to get her to meet up without the impression that he is interested in her more than just a good lay, because she DID approach him and that's all he would want and he is sure she knows.





    He just wants to know how you would seal the deal considering she hasn't responded and she is the one who initiated the entire thing.





    Thank You---- ElleAdvice Please! Guys and Girls?
    Is this a roommate on a college campus? Because this guy seems like he's anti-education as well. He might as well save his tuition for some porn or something after the women catch up with him and his pathetic games. It might be the only thing to pass away his time.





    Find a new roommate please!Advice Please! Guys and Girls?
    he has already down all he should. she approached him, she knows the deal, next move is up to her. all he has to do is sit back and wait. then enjoy.
    shes playing hard to get or simply hasn't checked her phone.
    Why are you asking for him?





    He should be asking.





    My advice is to





    make love, not sex





    Wait till he is in love.
    tl;dr
    I'm not sure I 100% understand what you are asking. But:





    If I was the girl in the situation, I would PREFER he just say ';I just want to have fun and hook up, if you know what I mean. I don't want anymore than that.'; Because when I was in college I used to have fun hooking up with guys once in a while. But it used to really piss me off when they would try and come off all sweet and pretent they were into me. They thought that was what I wanted to hear. So rather than them just being honest, they would tell these ellaborate stories of how much they liked me, then would ignore me after we hooked up. It caused way more stress than necessary.





    But yeah, the guy needs to be totally 100% honest straight off the bat. His chances of getting what he wants are higher, and he won't have to deal with unnecessary drama. Believe me, I know there are girls out there who would PREFER this. The stereotype that girls are not into that is stupid.

    Advice on guys?

    So I met this guy at the mall and we kind of talked and we hung out. The problem is I've never gone out with a guy before, ever, and while I'm sure he was being sweet and whatnot, it was kind of weird when he kissed me, a lot, (not in the lips; I would have smacked him). I let him know that I was uncomfortable with everything and he agreed to take it slow. He wanted to hang out on Saturday, supposedly. My friends say that I'm ';playing hard to get'; (I refuse to call him; if he wants to talk to me, he can call me, and they also say I'm kind of apathetic with him) and I wonder if it's because of this that he didn't call me back yesterday. I called him and we talked and then he said he had to do some chores and he didn't call me back. (continued)Advice on guys?
    As a guy I can tell you that most of us are very ';spur of the moment'; creatures. Especially the younger ones. I'd tell you not to get too wrapped up in the situation. Just wait and see what the next few weeks bring. You don't have to dis him or anything, just give it time for him to show you what he's all about. If you're really worth it to him, he'll understand you wanting to take your time with this new relationship. Just make sure you explain that to him. Guys are also very dumb when it comes to girls and you explaining to him how the relationship should go if he wants to be with you is a big help to him... TRUST ME!!





    Good Luck...Advice on guys?
    yeah give this guy a chnace to see what he is about.but make sure he truley likes you for the person that you are (even with your faults,like being shy).and stop letting your friends judge you in what you are doing with your relationship.


    and this is your first relationship so im pretty sure that you should feel uncomfterble with him.take it one day at a time and see how things turn out. =)

    Advice PLEASE!! Guys please help. Does he like me ... was he trying to fill a void ... just wanna hook up*****

    I met this guy i like a lot 6mnts ago thru a mutual friend. The 1st night we hung out we drank alot %26amp; hooked up - amazing chemistry %26amp; connection. 2nd time we hung out (3 wks later) he'd just got back in town after a business trip w/his ex-wife (worked together @ that time-complicated). It had obviously messed with his head %26amp; he was def. not over her (she dumped him - he still loved her). Anyways that night these girls kept aggressively hitting on him %26amp; my other friend %26amp; one followed him into the b/room %26amp; started kissing on him. I was pissed %26amp; left. I heard thru my friend he felt really bad %26amp; wanted to call me %26amp; my friend said only call if u want to pursue something/ready to date. so he didn't.


    3rd time i seen him. 2 wks ltr he apologized %26amp; said he felt bad b/c he liked me. I didn't tell him how i felt about him.


    Now I have run into him 2x lately. I could be imagining it but seems like we still have some chemistry. He hasn't suggested we hang tho. think he's started dating again ...Advice PLEASE!! Guys please help. Does he like me ... was he trying to fill a void ... just wanna hook up*****
    Take him out for coffee and a good bagel, and just talk to him, no dating questions, just get to know him a little better, then see where it goes from there, you won't look like a psycho or anything just a down to earth easy girl to talk to, He knows that you are attracted to him, so you don't need to reiterate that part...just approach him non-aggressively, and don't forget YOU are the prize. Not the other way around. Good luck!

    Advice from guys?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and 1/2 years.Hes 22 and im 18.Right now though we live in different states.We chat online and talk on mic becuase its free.We like to maturbate together sometimes.But recently even though I was being extra carefull, I almost got caught by my mom(it was 2 am i didnt think she would be around).Anyway so i decided im not going to masturbate anymore.Thing is that he wants to.How can i tell him no effectively without hurting his feelings?I told him he could do it by himself but he doesnt want to do that.So how should i handle this?Thanks for the answers.Advice from guys?
    2 1/2 yrs. He'll definitely understand if you tell him what happened. I think that the fact both of you are doing this together is sweet. :] You can even talk about alternative things to do to change it up a bit.Advice from guys?
    If he is doing it with you before marriage how many other women is he doing it with as well. I'm sorry but this seems like something that is going to find you hitched up with men that will be unfaithful to you.





    Respect yourself and your body and tell him this must stop. If he is still faithful to you, then you might have the beginnings of a real relationship worth building a family on - otherwise you have nothing with him. Masturbation is something seldom stopped by marriage but becomes an addiction to many people married or otherwise.
    Did u tell him what almost happened that ur mom almost caught u? If not then tell him, tell him you would do it but are afraid of getting caught, TELL HIM U LOVE HIM AND HOPE HE RESPECTS U ENOUGH TO RESPECT UR WISHES THAT U DONT WANT TO, hope ive been of help and if u want or need anymore advice, then feel free to email me ,
    Just be straight.


    Tell him you were caught by your mom playing vagina banjo, you were terribly embarrassed and don't want to do it anymore.








    He will get over it.








    When you are together in person than you can be intimate
    Honestly, he will not just get over it.





    Nothing you can do long distance is going to be as good as what you're planning to no longer do.
    Who cares, masturbating is normal, just do it anyways.
    just do it any ways you should go see him and jus have sex and he wont want to do that any more
    Why would you stop?Just lock the damn door.
    Once should not change what you've been doing.
    go on and tell him what happend to you. he'll understand !

    Advice? a guys prospective would be good also?

    i like a guy at collage and one of my 'friends' told him even though i asked her not too, anyways, and he hasn't made it obvious that he knows in fact he denys that he does (not to me i pretend not to know that my friend told him) and if i say i find some other guy attractive he will be like 'im better!' or 'but, ha-ha, you prefer me..' but he is started to act a little distant towards me.








    any ideas?! im so totally confused!Advice? a guys prospective would be good also?
    saying stuff about other guys is BAAAAAAAAAD it makes him think u dont like him, it wont make him jelous atleast not in a good way, he will probably think to back off because theres no chance... just go for it ;pAdvice? a guys prospective would be good also?
    Just try to talk to him and see whats upp! =)
    Make a move already!!!! What are you waiting on???
    Just consider it a guy thing and don't worry about it. He likes you no matter what he says. If you like him then go after him because it doesn't sound like he's the go getter type.





    Hope this helps, good luck.
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  • Advice, from guys or girls, A bit long..?

    I was in Sears the other day and was getting help from this one guy at the desk. While he was talking to they other guy with me, I looked over at the other person working the desk, a young gal. She locked eyes with me and smiled at me. Then we came back a few minutes later to get something else, and she and I locked eyes again and she kind of smiled flirtatiously. Then as we left I sort of gave her a wink and she smiled again, and smiled with her eyes, if you know what I mean.


    I am very attracted to this woman and I want to ask her out, but I don't know how to go about doing it. Should I go up and ask for help finding something in the store and then ask her, just go up to and ask her when she get's of her shift or something? Any advice would be appreciated.Advice, from guys or girls, A bit long..?
    be bold and ask her if she's single and available for a latte break or someshing. Nothing is sexier than someone who exudes confidence. Good luck.Advice, from guys or girls, A bit long..?
    Hahaha you should be like:


    ';Hey i'm having trouble getting something can you help me?';


    And she'll be like: ';Sure, what do you need??';


    And then you say: ';Your number!!'; [;


    Smooth...slick and clean!! A guarenteed yes!! :D


    Hahahahahahahaha!!
    if she is close in age, yeah ask her staright out, its brave and sexy.


    if your not close in age, she might be a little creeped n_n
    well u can never be too sure, so kinda get to know her better, MAKE SURE SHE DOESN'T HVE A BOYFRIEND. that would be really bad, then when you do get to know her, try asking. if she says no, its okay theres plenty of fish in the sea :)
    instead of asking on yahoo answers, be confident, grow a pair, and do something.
    Awh, I love stuff like this. :)


    It would be dorky but in a really cute%2
    Go for it. Tell her do you want to hang out after work. That's the stuff I personally think works. Direct but don't do it so suddenly have a conversation first.
    be like hey wanna go to this blah blah restaurant the food is amazing.


    if she says yes...great


    if not....ask her about another employee and be like oh okay do you know if shes available.


    so you don't seem like an ***.\


    answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    Why don't you go up to her and say...





    ';It looks like our eyes like each other, what do you think?';





    Or if you prefer to be more direct, just say:





    ';I like you and I want to get to know you better.';
    Looks get remembered, but personality never dies. Follow your heart, and nothing can go wrong.
    ';Hey I noticed you the other day when I was shopping. I was kind of taken by you...I was intreged if you will. I was wondering if you could give me you number and maby I could call you sometime.'; Call when ever is good for her.(After work mabe';
    yah figure out what department she works in. find something tht u need and be kind of flirty but not too cocky or anything and like make a little joke and lock eyes again kinda like turn you head and body a little turn it back say say do you , do you wanna get a drink sometime. or wanna go out some time or something like tht.

    Advice about guys.. does he like me? is this good or bad?

    so i like this guy but im not sure if hes interested in me or not.





    - on myspace there is a picture of me and him from this party, all his friends are commenting it saying ';omg you stud'; or ';look at this stud'; is that pertaining to me at all or just him?





    - when im walking thru the halls at school i will catch him looking at me until he knows i notice, then he looks away





    - he can be flirty with me but he flirts with a lot of other girls





    - he almost avoids talking to me unless i start the conversation





    - he wants me to watch him play basketball





    does he like me or no ? Advice about guys.. does he like me? is this good or bad?
    There's probably a chance that because you asked this question your gut is telling you that he likes you. Trust your gut. I think he probably likes you.Advice about guys.. does he like me? is this good or bad?
    nah probably doesnt like u

    I need advice about guys, guys can aswer please???

    I am a nice person, but I really only have a couple friends. I set at my lunch table by myself. AAnd everyone thinkd I am mean.


    Alot of guys pick on me


    One guy always talks to me and is a good friend,


    But one guy, he is so hansome and the thing that caught my eye was his smile. he always smiles at me and says hi eveyonce in a while, but now after emailing him he said I was mean and other stuff and now he dont smile at me anymore but I still se him lookin at me Because i sure do look at him. How do I get his attention. I cryed and he was sweet but changed after veryone told him I liked him. He was in he halway and said Hi, but I think he is ust doin that I can think of anyone else, is it because of me being overweight. I ant gigantic Im 200 lbs and 5.8 and eveyone is amazed I am that they didnt think I was.


    There is also a guy who smiled and isfunny and I got off bus and he was behind he was honkin and stuff and yelled Beth i came scool yestrday he said i no wher ya liv, wht u thnkI need advice about guys, guys can aswer please???
    Guys like girls who pay attention to them. Act like he is the sh#t and he'll like youI need advice about guys, guys can aswer please???
    Some people express affection through jokes picking fun at others. If you do this and you're getting a common response from everyone that you're mean you're probably being too reliant on things like that and need to work on showing genuine interest in the things people are interested in. According to the sourced site, you're at least 50Lbs overweight, so not gigantic, but by no means where you should be. A positive personality and self confidence are nessisary to be attractive though, and if you're doing something like going on the emotional defensive with guys it's pretty offputting.

    Advice on guys?! Please help !?

    Okay. So i have liked this guy since last year. He is really sweet and has changed alot((for the better)) So, this year we started talking and we became best friends. He calls me alot and we talk and its great. I tell him i dont like him anymore because of the whole ';new best friend thing'; and i dont want that to go away. So, he went out with one of my ';friends'; %26lt;--shes not too much of a friend, ill get into that later. But, he told me how he had sex with her and NOT TO TELL ANYBODY. So, on the track a few days ago his ex and my ';friend'; was about to tell me about it, and i accidently blurted out ';oh i know, he already told me'; . And then my other friend goes screaming it around. Then, my ';friend'; told him that i was still in ';love'; with him and how hes breaking my heart. And she told me he liked me((which isnt true at all) . But, i told her not to tell him i told her i knew, but then she goes yelling at him and also telling him that i told her what he said.








    Now, he is super mad at me and cant trust me.


    I want him to be able for him to trust me again.


    But, how do i do that?


    and i REALLY dont want to loose him.


    I never want to lose him.





    Please help!?Advice on guys?! Please help !?
    Wow Those Gurls R Assholes Nd Yu Should Show It To Him That They RAdvice on guys?! Please help !?
    how's he breaking your heart? n how do u kno he doesn't like u? u never kno. n u should tell him it slipped, and tell him that it's ok if he doesn't like you, or w/e happened, but u never wanna lose him, and ask him wat he wants u 2 do about it. that should work.





    or you can get a TRUE friend to show him this question, and he'll understand.
    all they want is sex, dear.

    Advice on guys needed!!! Does he like me or not?!?

    So...I met this guy in a class last year and I started talking to him a lot in class and outside of class. We would talk for hours on end. However this started before we went home for the summer. So we kept in contact over the summer but not nearly as much as during school. He's a shy guy until you get to know him, but he'll talk to anyone, he just doesn't give away his true feelings unless you know him.





    When we came back to class in the fall, we had class together again. Because of this class we spent a good 15 hours a week together. He also kept making excuses to see me outside of class. At the end of the semester I invited him and two of our friends over for dinner at my apartment. The two friends ';ditched'; us which is very out of the ordinary for them. So we just had an evening alone the two of us. Which I think that he arranged for just the two of us. However at this point I really didn't think I was interested in him...I was hooked on a guy from home that wouldn't give me the time of day and I told him about this guy. As I think about it now, I feel I just threw the friend card right in his face.





    This semester he changed is major and so I never get to see him and I have realized how much I need him in my life. I love spending time with him and have been trying to see him throughout the semester. I've been having lunch with him every week with two of his friends. But we haven't spent really any time alone. It seems like he's interested and he always looks at me and treats me like he's interested but then trying to get together to hang out is like impossible. He's also started giving me hugs every time he sees me as well.





    We are only in school for three more weeks and I really want to tell him how I feel but I don't want to do it out of the blue and would really like to do it face to face, just the two of us. But I also don't want to be a complete fool if he has no interest whatsoever.





    I really need help with this. He's all I think about and I think if he gave it a shot we could have an awesome relationship. We're as close as you can be before dating, or at least we were before this semester. And a lot of other people even notice there's something between us by the way he looks at me and the fact that we're always together and talking.





    I'm also finding the fact that I have feelings for him and am keeping them from him is just hurting our relationship the longer it goes on. Because there's something unspoken between us.





    Should I continue to ask him to hang out and try to get one on one time with him or should I back off?Advice on guys needed!!! Does he like me or not?!?
    I'm not positive about the way he fells about you, but you should keep trying. You might be able to make him realize that he has feelings for you too.





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    Advice on guys..........

    i met this guy at a party and he got my number so we hung out, but every time we hung out its been with his close friends which are two guys and a few girls. so obviously he doesn't like me which is fine cause i dont like him like that, but i do have a crush on his friend Andy that we always hang out with. I was talking 2 Andy about hangin out so he gave me his number...me and a bunch of our friends are going 2 a concert so i txtd Andy telling him i just got the tickets in the mail and i was so excited and he txted ';haha thats so cool..im glad u guys are comin this concerts gona be so fun!'; then we txted a few more times and then he said ';im about 2 grab lunch with my family so ill talk to u later'; and he nvr txted me back so i nvr txted him....so then we hung out with our friends and partied but he had 2 go 2 work at 7 a/m so that afternoon i txted him saying 'hey how ya feelin? how was work after only a few hours sleep'; and he nvr answered





    he seems to be really friendly with me when we hang out but he nvr txts me first or trys to make a move so idk..he could just be a friendly person





    the concert is tomorrow and this weekend i was thinking about txting him and askin if he wants to hang out with me and our mutual friend and drink but i dont wana be too clingy





    what shud i doAdvice on guys..........
    First, how about stopping the texting. It's completely impersonal. How about talking to him on the phone? How about asking him for a date? Ask him to have dinner with you.
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  • Advice from guys please!?

    ok i'll give you my scenario---


    I broke up with him in january for god knows why yeah and i totally regret it....





    I know theres still something between us and he told me he's always felt we'd be together again....however things aren't really moving along as i wish they would..





    What can I do to get him back----no trashy advice please i'm a classy girl (and i'm only 16)Advice from guys please!?
    I'm glad you're being honest about being a classy girl! To me that says a lot about you, and there's no reason he shouldn't want to get back with you. I would suggest just being patient. Do the little things every now and then so you'll stay in his mind, but be patient. If you're only 16, you have a lot of time left to go get him.





    I would also schedule a date with him. Nothing fancy, just a chance to sit down and talk about your feelings and where you want to go from here. Be honest with him and see where it takes ya. Turn the charm on too! Sounds like you've got quite a bit of it!





    Good Luck!

    ADVICE ON GUYS PUHLEEZE!?

    So i like this guy, he is on my shuttle bus and everything... Everytime i get on i see him look at me and smile so i smile back. Then he looks away... i really like him but idk if he likes me! When i pass him in the halls he always looks at me! What should i do? and i don't wanna tell my friend i like him cuz i think she went out with him..but i think she already knows i like him! HELPADVICE ON GUYS PUHLEEZE!?
    Hey! Well I am really not that experienced...but about your friend...I really think that you should just tell her the truth. If she is really your friend, then she will understand your situation. Maybe she will even have tips on this guy to help you :) Just try to start up a conversation with him. I think he most likely has a thing for you, but he may just be friendly. In the end, you may get a boyfriend, or you may gain a good friend. Just go for it! Could you maybe take a look at my question??? haha It's ';How do I get him to notice me?'; Please and thank you ;)

    Advice for guys only?

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    Guys i need your advice really bad?

    Okay, there is this guy that i really like, but i dont no if he likes me. so i was wondering, how i would i know if he likes me????????Guys i need your advice really bad?
    Is always behind you?


    Is he always looking at you in a weird way?


    Does he tell you he wants to do you?


    Does he come up to you and smell your hair?


    are you hot?


    Guys i need your advice really bad?
    see if he notices you over other girls?


    pay atttention to the things he does and says to you


    you can be blunt and ask him but he might not like you and just say he does to eventually get laid.


    but just pay attention to how he acts around you that should speak volumes.
    study up on body language. Also use the search engine above, this question is asked so frequently theres prob a lot of good answers.

    I need advice form guys or girls about guy friends?

    my best friend is a 13 yo boy (ima 13yo girl) and we've been best friends since we were six anyway lately hes been acting wierd anytime he gets an erection he makes a stupid excuse and leaves or gets really red ive told him i dont care and that i kno he can't control . we used to be really close and talk about everything but now i never see him because he always leaves... hes never been really shy and my other guy friends dont have a problem with having and erectin near me NEED ADVICE SO I DONT LOSE A FRIEND PLEASEI need advice form guys or girls about guy friends?
    im 13 and a guy. i think that he might like you and its akward to him because you have been together for so long as friends that he thinks you only think of him as a friend. when i get erections i dont care because i know they are natural so that probably isnt the problem. erections are ok for me but im ';large'; ( 7 inchs)I need advice form guys or girls about guy friends?
    if hes embarrassed about it than he probably has feelings for you.. try talking on the phone or iming him so nothing can happen. and who know maybe you'll start to like him
    yea that's just so common how do you take it all. anyway , if he's embarrassed just let him be , or he will never come around at all
    i agree with irongriff he probably likes you and gets embarrassed around you cuz you only think of him as a friend but he wants to be more when i was 13 i only got embarrassed when i had self induced erections otherwise spontanious ones didn't bother me

    Advice from guys/girls thanks!?

    Everytime that I know I'm going to hang out with my boyfriend I get like super sick. Like my stomach hurts and it feels like I'm going to throw up. I even get shakey. It's happened before when I've been on dates with other guys. Why? What can I do to make it stop?Advice from guys/girls thanks!?
    Your probably really nervous,


    just reassure yourself everything will be fine.


    [:Advice from guys/girls thanks!?
    I don't know why you would be acting like that unless it was the first time you ever met ur bf.. uhm.. is there something he does that makes you uncomfortable? or are you worried about something? before you see him just take some deep breathes, and take sips of water and just tell urself everythings going to be ok.





    Hopefully that helps :-)
    It sounds like a severe form of social anxiety. Have you thought of going to a therapist for help in dealing with this? Meditation and yoga can help a lot with calming your nerves as well.
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  • Advice from guys 24 and older please!?

    i had a great first date with a guy and we had a lot in common. We french kissed at the end of the date, and I really think that he wants to see me again. When should he call me for a second date? Should I call him??Advice from guys 24 and older please!?
    He should if he was smart, would have called the next day to say he had a great time....





    if he didn't call, then wait 2 days then call and say U had a great time, then if he don't call u back in a day or ask u right then, then say good bye....Advice from guys 24 and older please!?
    oh another age racsist !


    im 21 but no one want my advice cuz im to cute to be smart !
    give him a call, hang out with him.... buy him a beer
    call him ,do not dealy ,now its time further 1 step ,u r boobs.
    wait about 3 days, and if he does not call you, call him





    he better call you!!!!! :o)
    feel free to call him. he should really call you the next day however.
    let him call you, you have done your part. Its ordinary for the male to be the agressor at the beginning of the relationship. Its lady like to just wait and play it cool. Do let him know (once he calls) that you had a nice time and would love to see him again. Keep it simple and short and really get to know him before getting emotionally involved. He has already impressed you because you are asking this question.. wink, wink... wait it out HE should and will calll soon... good luck..
    I don't know, but when I met my girlfriend every second of the day took like an hour waiting to call her. I would think about nothing more than her. It was hard to concentrate on pretty much anything. that's when love starts to bloom, give it a chance, you don't have to cram it all in one day.





    Do a puzzle or your hair or something that keeps you preoccupied until he calls. DO NOT CALL HIM. It's all about impressions girl. We still make all the MAN moves. wait till we make them. If by next week you don't have a call, the handwritings on the wall(or right here what i'm writing to you)





    Within 24 hours he's crazy about you, after that the clock ticks each day he might be busy, or gettin' busy wid' it, or just don't have a clue when to call a girl after a first date. We are men, We are not smart, we are just men...

    Advice from guys PLEASE!!?

    Ok guys.....if you like a girl,but you dont know she likes you.If you move on and get a g/f,but you and your g/f dont work out,and the other girl you liked asked you out,what would you say?Advice from guys PLEASE!!?
    yesAdvice from guys PLEASE!!?
    yeah
    yes, i would wonder if its out of pity and have a suspicious eye, but yeah i would say yes


    umm even if it were pity i would still say yes :D

    Advice on guys.?

    this is odd, but here it goes.


    im in my teens (and not too young)


    and dont know how to properly make out.


    i never had the oppertunity when i was younger,


    and now i dont wanna kiss someone and have them think im bad.


    im plenty old enough,


    but whenever a guy starts to try to kiss me i dont let it go that far,


    any advice or pointers.


    cause im lost.





    please dont say just go with it, i dont know how to..Advice on guys.?
    guys are into sex and erotic stuff


    in their minds





    so play with us =]Advice on guys.?
    Depending on what type of guy is with u determines ur actions. In other words use ur intuition. If you don't feel comfortable with him don't do anything u don't want to do. You don't have to do anything u don't want to and not one can take that away from u. If u do, take it one step at a time.





    Kissing is a natural thing and everyone is different at it whether it be ur first or ur 100th. Not everone kisses the same and everyone has a different reation to it depending on ur feelings. If its ur first kiss, i guess it's natural for the guy to start off. That's just my opinion though. Some guys ask first, others will give u a 'look' and some take you completely by surprise. Making out isn't everything there is to a relationship.





    If the guy is doing something u don't like say 'no'. Remember that u have the right to say yes or no to anything, that u have a choice. Stand up for ur moral and personal boundries. Also, be wise about the choices that you make. That way u don't regret them or they don't harm u in the future.





    Don't listen to people who are telling u stupid things cuz they don't care about other peoples feelings or the outcome of their own actions and their trying to get u to do something that u'll regret for the rest of ur life.





    I'm a teenager too so i know about peer presure and bad advise. The difference is trusting ur intuition and common sence. Also, listening to ur elders like ur parents or someone older that u trust completely. They should know what to tell u and guide you through difficult obstacles you will face in life. I hope this helps u out. Sry its a little long but I had to explain what I'm trying to convey.





    Enjoy life and be wise about ur choices.
    relax stay calm, kissing is natural its not something to worry about and the more you do it the better you become so its time to start NOW lol you have to make sure your attracted to him lock lips and then use tongue but not too much you dont want to choke him then the rest will simply come to you....confidence is the one thing you must maintain
    Find a guy that you can trust %26amp; have them teach you or a girl.
    truth is i'm in the same state.....and no if i were you i wouldnt just go with it...but i was thinking about getting a close guy friend to teach me...one that has experince and maybe i can learn from him...but i read...lol...that if you moth the word olive while making out it helps because the way the mouth is supposed to move while making out is like saying olive....but remember dont say it mouth it...hey it's worth a try...you might actually have a natural talent....who knows....





    good luck!!!





    why dont you go get a book i'm sure there is one....or look it up on the internet....
    There are a couple of good books...one I recommend is:





    The Art of Kissing, by William Cane. Not only does it offer unique suggestions..its a quick and fun read.





    Fun for those who have kissed too!

    Guys and girls advice please?

    started seeing someone and he wants me to give him oral but i've never done it before i want to but scared of doing it wrong, he said he won't push me i want to give him what he needs cause he gives me what i need. any advice?Guys and girls advice please?
    Don't give it to him on demand





    It's something you do as the mood takes you





    and when you really want to





    You don't have to worry about doing anything wrong





    It won't bite you, but it might go off unexpectedly





    There are good ways to do it and bad





    If he grabs hold of your head and forces you, that will be the end of any pleasure for you





    If you move down his body and take it gently in your hand, stroke it for a while, get to grips with it and then try a few licks, while he lies back and enjoys the pleasure your giving him, that's a good way to start getting used to the idea before taking him completely into your mouth





    Start down at the base, then work up the sides, then lick around the head, where it's most sensitive and then go back to the base again and tease him. Make him wait. Use your hands at the same time and look straight into his eyes, that will tell you everything you need to know that you are doing a fantastic job





    After a while, you will be able to tell by the sounds he's making, that you are driving him absolutely nuts





    He's said he won't push you so you know can trust him. If he should *** in your mouth, it's best to swallow immediately, but you will have to decide about that for yourself. If he really is giving you what you need, he won't have any hesitation to kiss you and give you a long lingering French kiss with lots of tongues, straight away and that's very important for you








    There is plenty of free porn available on the net to see how it's done. (redtube.com) But much better to learn for yourself with someone you care about





    Enjoy





    : )s





    ps: You may have heard of 'Deep Throat' that's strictly for the experts, don't even attempt itGuys and girls advice please?
    Okay first, he shouldn't ask you for that. DON'T DO IT. He give you what you need but you can also give him what he needs without having to do oral. You're scared of doing it wrong? Don't even think about it. You just started and you don't know if that's the real him. Think about your actions. But all in all don't do it. It's early, and there are many other ways to give him what he ';needs'; oral and all that junk is never really an answer.
    Generally if you are down there, he is not going to be complaining. But one rule you should stick to is no teeth: no biting and keep your teeth covered with your lips/tongue.





    i think the main thing is that he communicates with you. If he knows that you haven't done it before, he will be happy to tell you what he wants
    Just dont use your teeth. Go slow, and you dont need to jam it all in your mouth. If your gagging, or need to take a breather, then just focus on the tip and use your hand. You dont need to get him off either. Just do it for awhile as foreplay and then get down to sex.
    But the thing is ..he doesn't 'need' it ...he may have said that to ake you do something you my or may not feel comfortable doing..the bottom line is that it's up to you though my personal opinion is that everyone should wait until marriage for sex.
    just go for it if it is bad or you do something wrong he will let you know so you do it better next time, just ask him. he wont dump you or anything for bad oral.
    Well if you want to just relax your throat muscles and use your tongue. NO TEETH (OUCH!). Put your hands on his stomache and thighs and rub them.
    treat his penis like a lollipop. rub his thighs with both hands while doing it.. swirl your tongue.. NO TEETH unless he likes that ;D
    Ask him what he likes and just get him to talk you through it.
    be gentle, don't use your teeth and just remember he will be grateful no matter what you do! ;-)
    just lilllllllliiiiiickkkkk him like a lollipop hehe
    Loooooooose, is what your ganna be
    Make him go down on you first
    Uh... and you just started seeing this guy?
    dont do that, its dirty as....you will lose your self respect afterwards.
    u just met him and oral already wow
    just go for it


    best of luck
    you just met him..





    check if he has herpes?

    Signs a Taurus guy is interested? (Advice Taurus guys?)?

    Hey there!





    Alright, I like this guy and he's a Taurus. We hang out in the same group, etc and I was just wondering how to tell if he's interested or not?? Thank you.





    Just looking for a list of signs..





    Have a good one! :)Signs a Taurus guy is interested? (Advice Taurus guys?)?
    when he likes you he will try and make convo with you and he will also pay special attention to everything you say, taurus guys tell their buddies when he is into a girl so if you in the same group and your also close to one of them try asking. if you dont want to do that sit close to him and look him in the eyes and smile a lot. he is slow to move but once he does he is fierce and wonderful.Signs a Taurus guy is interested? (Advice Taurus guys?)?
    He will totally overwhelm you, tell you that you are the love of his life, tell you he cried in his mother's arms when he was 13 years old, asking if anyone would ever love him. He will make a huge stink out of it and maybe even hold a parade in your honor. Oh, you will know when he's in love...just as you will know when he's had his fill. When he gets you where he wants you, you'll suddenly become the most repulsive, evil woman on earth in his eyes. I'd steer clear of this guy. Taurus men can be pretty difficult.
    Okay, there will be signs: maybe he makes an effort to talk to you, get a phone number/email, maybe he makes you a birthday card, or even a portrait (lol I did that!), maybe a short story, maybe something else. Usually a gift and usually it's obvious they like spending time with you, or getting to know you.





    I just wrote a massive detail about Taurus (and this lady's question has a few things mentioned of what her Taurus does)





    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    Shy at first, then they will let you know if they get the green light from you.
    A Taurus if he like you YOU will know it ! and everyone else too

    What does this mean???? [[i need girl's advice, but if any guys can help then thx!]]?

    There's this guy I like in my 6th period chorus class and I really like him. He's in a higher grade but numbers don't matter to me. And, when we were getting down from the stands, he caught me. But, he also looked at me in a way that says I like you. But, all guys do that, right??? I really want to know! And, if he does like me then I would like some advice on what to do, please!What does this mean???? [[i need girl's advice, but if any guys can help then thx!]]?
    ok so do it like this...you guys have a class together...ask him some things about the class to start off with...then move up to bigger and better things such as start asking questions about him...by then you should be able to figure it out or you might even be able to just come out and ask him by then...What does this mean???? [[i need girl's advice, but if any guys can help then thx!]]?
    There we're guys in high school i was too nervous to tell how I felt. I waited around for the longest time for them to make the first move and it never happened. I would go for it. The worst thing he could no is say he doesn't like you the same way, then you can always find another hot guy. ;-)
    go for it girl! go up to him and say that you like him and are hopin he likes you too. say that age doesnt n=matter and i want to get to know you more are you free sometime?
    ';All guys do that';? No. If there was eye contact it meant something.
    He may have been just doing the right thing when he stopped your fall. If nothing else, you may have made a good friend! And may... it will bloom into something more later!





    Good luck to you!
    Go ahead and tell him you like him. Just because he looks at you doesn't mean he likes you.
    not all ';looks'; are properly interpreted correct. i would suggest being his friend.





    you know what, i have looked at women so many times in my life and in so many ways. they may interpret it nicely or rudely, even sexually.. but am the only one who knew why, how and what type of ';check'; i gave.





    if you have some common friend, find a way to get u introduced. if not, i am sure there are many ways to start a conversation given a proper timing, place and company.





    go ahead. plan you move. it would be a nice experience to meet him, know him.. and eventually (and sweetly, maybe) to let him show his true feelings.
    Why would you think he liked you because he caught you and maybe gave you an expression of ';are you okay?'; or ';close one, you almost ate it';? I think that you are looking too far into this event.





    If he starts to flirt with you then obviously he likes you but just catching someone before they fall...just means he's nice.
    not all guys do that but chances are he might like you. talk to him and get to know him. give it a little time and if things seem to be going good talk to him and find out if he likes you. it never hurts to ask and it'll take a load off your mind if you do
    no, because you look at him so he looks back in the way that say:'; does it has something on my face';


    Not all guys look the way I like you(unless they want their girlfriend kill them). You are over imagination, little girl :)


    Well, the only way you can do is ask him. or make a signal that you like him... start conversation, ask to go out, appear when he play sport( if he does)... something like that~ be creative.
    get his cell phone number and text him.. if you don't have a cell phone, IM him online.. or talk to him on myspace.. it's so much easier flirting texting or on IM.. because then you could just like, huh?? i'm not flirting with you if he isn't interested!!! good luck girl!! that stuff always worked for me! my boyfriend and i met at a bar (well so many underage paople went there it wasn't really like a bar lol) but at the end of the night he was like what's your number? i put the wrong number in his phone (i was drinking oops) but a few days later got his number from my friend, (he ws her age so she knew him) i texted him that night (he didn't have text so he called) the next day he got text messaging added to his phone.. a month later we were dating.. 2 years later, we live together and have a 1 yr old..





    good luck!!!!!!
    Be friends first.
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  • GIRLS COME AND GIVE SOME ADVICE ON GUYs!!?

    He is a year younger than me. I have him in one of my classes and i am the manager for the basketball team. I love hanging out with him! Should I just wait till he asks me out or should I just go for it? I cannot ask him out because I would be to scared. So how do I give him clues that I like him? thanks! and dont be mean when you answer =)GIRLS COME AND GIVE SOME ADVICE ON GUYs!!?
    well, if you don't give him any clues, there's an 100%chance nothin' will happen. If you go for it, then there's a 50/50 chance, right? I know exactly how you feel...trust me. There was a guy i liked, and i was really scared to ask him out..... for you and this guy, i'd say just like be his friend and be really nice to him....kind of flirt, you know? hope this helps, and good luck!GIRLS COME AND GIVE SOME ADVICE ON GUYs!!?
    FLIRT
    Spend time with him, be friendly and talk to him. See what happens.
    Sorry but you will end up in a lot of trouble and with a lot of heart ache. Outside's opinion looking in - find someone more suited for you.
    Why are you asking the same exact question as someone else?!

    Hey girlz i need some advice!! (About guys...)?

    I REALLY REALLY REALLY like this boy. He's not cute ot popular, buthe's INCREDIBLY sweet (and he likes me!). How do i tell him (by myself) that i like him, without getting teased.Hey girlz i need some advice!! (About guys...)?
    FINALLY! SOME WHO DOESNT CARE ABOUT LOOKS!! a star for you!!! and who cares about ppl, your you not them so as long as it makes you happy go for it!!!Hey girlz i need some advice!! (About guys...)?
    tell him that to meet somewhere private and talk to him. That way no1 knows that you told him.
    aww cute writing notes is the easiest way ..but also talking through myspace or aim or anything like that would work also
    I know its really hard not to listen to what people might say, but if you honestly like this guy, and hope to eventually date, then you cant be scared of what people are going to say. Especially if you all go to school together, just think about it this way, some other girl might have a HOT man, but he probably doesnt treat her like she deserves, if this guy is really sweet, then hell make you feel like a true woman, and sooner or later all these other girls will begin to hate on you!! Trust me!! no matter how much crap they talk, its probaly cuz they wish they had a boyfriend who would treat them special
    Let them tease! You are a great person to like someone for who they are not because it is popular to do so! Pat yourself on the back and get along with your life.





    If other people who don't have a clue choose to ';tease'; you; just let them know that when their bf dumps them for someone better; YOU will still have a really great boyfriend!





    Big Huge Hugs!! Nana
    why would you care what other people think. If you arent willing to be with someone because you might get teased, you must not like them very much. Im guessing your in JR high.
    You should just tell him straight up how you feel. But be prepared for rejection. He may not like you back. But i think being honest is the best policy. Dont wry about what people think.





    PS - you shouldnt worry if hes not popular. You should like someone for whats on the inside. not what there status is. ;)
    ahhh..dont worry bout what everyone else says. just learn karate an kick their asses if they tease you.
    ask him to a movie or something if you say he likes you it wont be that hard. just hint around. sorry but its a guys point of view. just be your self...
    tell him in private..you know without ure friends or whoever will tease you..good luck!!





    Ps...


    hope i helpled...and ..if you could can you pick me as best answer..thxs i would appreciate t..=)
    if he said he likes you just go and say that you like him. i would do that.
    thats great! when other people tease u just say: ';ur just jealous u dont have a bf as sweet as mine'; or soemthing like that.





    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    Sorry I'm not a girl but you should hear this from a dude.





    I don't want a girl to tell me she likes me. Just hang around me, laugh at my jokes and show me





    :-D Best Wishez
    just take him aside at school and tell him how you really feel. if you really like him then your friends should understand and why should you care what anyone else thinks?
    well this may not be very good advice but it comes from what i know from experience. If you really like him and he likes you back just as much, you need to go for it and not care was anyone else says. If they tease you just say to yourself, it doesn't matter because i am happy and their insecurities don't matter at all. As long as your happy, what other people say shouldn't matter at. It's your life and not theirs so live it how you want, not how they want. So just live life to the fullest, never look back, and regret nothing.
    Here is the thing... You shouldnt worry what other will say, your the one thats going out with him. You need to make sure he is right for you and if you is your firends she be happy you found someone that makes you happy!! If they do not understand then they really dont care about!!





    You need to look out for number which is you because that is the only person who will do that!!!





    So if you like him pull him aside and tell him! You never know it could be great!!





    Goodluck!
    ifyou like him that much you shouldnt worry about what others will say. True love comes in the strangest places. I know cuz i just started college and my man is 29. We're in love that guy may just be your soul mate. dont pass it up.!!!!!!!

    Guys??? i need advice?

    im in 8thgrade and ive noticed that guys dont rly think im hott. wen other guys from other schools that r my age and older think im extremely hot so like whats up with this?? cause it like really bothers me wen they call me ugly and **** like that so it like causes me to be a totaly ***** back? i dont care wat they think its just kinda stupid?? So why r the guys like thatGuys??? i need advice?
    Don't worry about it.


    Judging by your spelling and grammar, you're too young to be worrying about boys.

    Could this be the best advice for guys?

    When it comes to girls:


    hit it and quit it


    Stick and move


    Hit and run


    lay pipe and leave


    set it and forget itCould this be the best advice for guys?
    Wow! that's so sad that you say that...Could this be the best advice for guys?
    no its not but some girls ask 4 it
    until you run out.





    i mean, it only works once
    Nope
    The answer to yur question is ';that's the stupidest advice for guys'; I HAVE EVER HEARD! Unless, you really don't like girls, then go for it, and soon you won't have to worry about girls anymore.
    only if you are a complete a$$hole
    NO!!!! Idiot, jerk. Too many already do that. That is not mature or respectful. The girl gets hurt worse, the girl already gets hurt not the guy! Your dumb, not us. I saw ur other q. Women are different, complex and have a different brain, u can't call us dumb. We care and we WORK for our relationship. So a guy who doesn't care and does nothing would be dumb, cuz how would he know?! nO BECAUSE YOU CANT PLAY WITH PEOPLE EMOTIONS. You are a jerk! ';dude you don't know how to treat a lady';... I am not a moron, he is. This is the truth.
    No - that is not good advice at all...
    grow up little boy.


    LITTLE BOYS SAY THOSE SAYINGS


    NOT MEN...
    Tag is, bag it and sell it to the butcher. Unless you want to invest some time and money into it. Then you should wine her, dine her, sixty nine her...then run.


    ';What did I do last night? Hey...Get outta my house!';
    Yes if you change one thing,





    While in prison -- then you bang anyone you want because your other male prisoners will not get pregnant.





    Otherwise you take the chance of reproducing, bet you can tell from all the answeres we're frightened at the thought.
    it COULD be, but not many guys out there are like that. Hell... I'm not even like that. My girlfriend loves me for who I am and that's all that matters
    I bet you're going to see alot of people answering this with whiney cries of ';NO! OMFG THATS SO @-HOLE-ISH OF YOU!!!'; and ';dude you don't know how to treat a lady';...





    Truth is, they're morons.





    Here's why.





    None of them can define for you what's right to do when it comes to the fairer sex. They're not the ones who ends up in your shoes when it comes to dealing with girls...


    Say, for instance, you don't want a relationship with a certain girl because you know this person to be overtly... flirtatious (a hoe lol). Do you really wanna start a relationship with her?


    No?


    I didn't think so. You two can have your fun without the strings and everything's fine.


    The only problem could come in if you incinuate more than there actually is...


    Don't tell the girl you're gunna marry her or anything.








    Truth is, it's your call, really. Sometimes it's best to hit 'n quit it. Or sometimes, you find a girl who plays halo, surfs, is a badass anime artist and models...


    And that's the gold.





    So ignore these @$$hats who start crying at the sound of this question. You do what you wanna do, and make your d@mn self happy.
    wow you must have a IQ of like 2. you are shallow.
    It's ';boys'; like you that make me glad I am with a real man
    nO BECAUSE YOU CANT PLAY WITH PEOPLE EMOTIONS

    Guys and girls advice time?

    Okay so my boy friend complains that i'm not the ';romantic type'; and the truth is i haven't done anything yet romantic but he hasn't either because he wants me to do it first? Can you plaease tell me something romantic to do for him? And no resturaunts, he wants something at home done and I just don't know what to do? Any suggestions please?Guys and girls advice time?
    Candle-lit dinner, with all the lights low, is always a plus. Candles cost maybe 10 dollars or so (depending on how nice they are), some roses for a center piece might cost about 15, and the meal will probably cost 15 (since it would be home made). Then pop in some romantic music, playing softly, and you have the most romantic home dinner ever.

    Will i seem to desperate? Guys i need ur advice?

    soo this guy and i kinda have a thing..he is going away and i was thinking of sending him a message to say have fun and we should make plans when he gets home. Does that seem to desperate?





    Please Help Me :)Will i seem to desperate? Guys i need ur advice?
    no ur all good id b fine with itWill i seem to desperate? Guys i need ur advice?
    nope, that is not desperate at all, he will like it if you do that
    No that is good!
    too desperate? no thats not at all i would say kool what would you like to do i i was you but if i was you i would probably say hey when you get back do you wanna get together for a cup of coffee or see a movie and get to know each other a little bite more?? I'm a sweet guy but thats just me thats what i would say if i was you
    not desperate. i would say something like ';have fun! lets get together when you get back!';
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  • Guys: I need advice about approaching this boy...help!?

    I'm interested in this guy at my high school, but I have no clue what-so-ever on how to talk to him! It's driving me crazy and I know I don't have forever. We don't really know each other so I don't know what I should say to him. What should I say, and how should I approach him?





    ThanksGuys: I need advice about approaching this boy...help!?
    just go up to him one day and be straight forward. say hi whats your name?


    goodluckk:]





    hope i hellpd :]Guys: I need advice about approaching this boy...help!?
    I am not a guy but I had the same problem in how I met my last boyfriend...I just started smiling at him in the hall and then he asked around and he got my number and called me and we went out on a date the next weekend be subtle but be cute and let him know you see him by smiling at him...unfortunately the relationship didn't last but we did have fun together!
    Old trick used in the 50's. While walking past him drop a arm load of books. Maybe if he is a gentleman he will stop to help you pick them up. Problem solved.
    Just walk up to him and say hi. If I was the guy that's what I'd prefer.
    wait until ur friend talk to him den join in

    I need some advice from guys?

    contact my e-mail and give me info on what guys like and how they like itI need some advice from guys?
    dmkillingworth@yahoo.com

    People!! need some advice with guys!?

    i got a friend that i really love a lot, he's a really nice guy, but i only look at him as a friend, and he have started looking at me as something more. i dont know how to tell him i dont want to go out with him because i still want to be his friend, any ideas?People!! need some advice with guys!?
    be honest about it


    even if you have to tell him that he needs to stay away from you.


    and it will never happen that way except a friendship.





    cuz some guys just dont get it.





    also DO NOT SAY ';LOVE'; in your conversation about anything around him too.People!! need some advice with guys!?
    Start asking him straight out if he likes you (even though you may know he does) and when he says yes say something like i really like you too, but more as just a friend than anything else. If he deny's liking you then i wouldnt know where to go from there, but he should understand.


    I'm sorry i couldn't give better advice (i know its not that great) but what you describe is something that's hard to do, i'm rootin for you though, good luck!
    Just be honest with him. Tell him that you value his friendship so much that you wouldn't want to chance ruining it by changing it to something more. Tell him you love the friendship you two have established and need him to be your friend right on.
    Can you be a friend with benefits? Everybody wins!

    Need advice on guys....?

    Ok well I'm not exactly the best looking or ';coolest'; girls in school.I've had one bf but he moved, and since then I'm treated like one of the guys. Like I used to dance with several guys at dances, but now I'm the one who get stuck setting them up with other girls. Help???Need advice on guys....?
    I'd start acting different and more girly and stop helping the guys get girls Express your self

    Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?

    Okay, lets say that you know this teenage girl, and she tells you that she is so deeply in love with you... Would you:





    o1. Give her the speech, you know ';I think you're great, so maybe in a full years etc, etc';





    o2. Tell her parents.





    o3. Ignore her.





    Or something else?Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
    Called my husband and asked (he's 25), and he said, ';Well, first I'm married, so ewww. Second, even if I weren't married, I'd tell her that was just way to old and she needs someone her won age. Then, I'd avoid her like the plague. I'm not letting some hormonal teenager get me into any trouble!';





    My husband's a smart man.Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
    most guys would just try to get into their pants, unless they're into guys.
    i have the situation alot with my lil sisters friends. i usually ignore them or i explain to them its just impossible for us to be together and im sorry.
    girls under 18 are what you call jail bait


    off limits.


    i would say that's cute but i think you should find someone your own age. But i think you're confusing love with a crush. Bottom line your a child and I'm a man. Don't be in a rush to do adult things because they have adult consequences.


    a man 16 and over can go to jail for having sex with a girl under 16 in most states.


    you can get pregnant or get VD or worse


    slow down and enjoy being a child
    Haha I just called my brother and asked him this question. Here's his answer and he's 21 turning 22 this year.


    Probably tell her I was too old for her and that she should try and find guys her own age. Then I'd probably just try and keep my distance from her.
    Sorry Jen,





    Unfortunately you will just have to wait until college or so until society and your family will accept dating with somebody a little bit older than you. All I can say is don't put the ';crush'; pressure on him and make him uncomfortable, it's just not to be, even if it feels so right inside.


    Take your time and enjoy youth

    HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??

    we dated for 2 yrs but argued a lot.he mentioned marriage.i dumped him out of nowhere.5 months later,we tried to make it work again but break up.i force myself to see other guys,but can't stop thinking of my x.he moves on and starts a new relationship.after a month,he gets in a huge fight with her/tells me he's going to dump her/uses me for sex/next day changes his mind.this shook me bc he's not the type to cheat.she dumps him for other reasons.i later find out from the girl that they never had sex.during this,i meet a guy that's ok,but still not as great as my x.my x sees a new girl but spends way more time with me than her.she ended up going for her x anyway.2 weeks later,my x puts my pics on his dorm wall/wants to hold hands.we makeout.i still love him but am afraid.i tell him i only want 2 b friensd with benefits.he confesses that he wants a relationship/says that he won't have sex with me otherwise.i hesitate/he is hurt/ignores me.later,i agree to give him another chance.


    ADVICE?HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
    You really need to lose this guy and start all over, there is still too much drama there, and it isn't good. I know it's hard to do but you need to start all over and when you see yourself again in a situation like that, you should allready know it's not a good thing. Get out and start a life with your self and maybe soon a new prince will be involved in you life.HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
    you're a lost cause...
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  • Help/Advice with guys...?

    I'm 16, female, and never been kissed and I've never had a boyfriend. I consider myself fairly attractive, but I am pretty shy. It takes me almost a whole school year to talk to a guy. I really want to have some guy friends at least. Any advice???Help/Advice with guys...?
    Don't avoid eye contact, don't look away when you make eye contact. Those are things that very shy and self conscious women do, even as adults.





    My current girl is like that, she's 27, and she swears she's had a crush on me for a couple of years, yet she would tense up, avoid eye contact, and turn away when I would go near her.





    Go talk to guys by asking for the homework, etc.Help/Advice with guys...?
    I believe the usual method is to hang around your older brother or male cousin who has friends about your age, or hang around with your girl friend that seems to have more than one boy friend. Does that ring any bells?
    dont worrie about it. My cousin is 16 and never been kissed. and, maybe you should get some friends that you feel really confordable around and they make you laugh and you can act silly around them and that will help you become more outgoing.