Friday, January 8, 2010

People!! need some advice with guys!?

i got a friend that i really love a lot, he's a really nice guy, but i only look at him as a friend, and he have started looking at me as something more. i dont know how to tell him i dont want to go out with him because i still want to be his friend, any ideas?People!! need some advice with guys!?
be honest about it


even if you have to tell him that he needs to stay away from you.


and it will never happen that way except a friendship.





cuz some guys just dont get it.





also DO NOT SAY ';LOVE'; in your conversation about anything around him too.People!! need some advice with guys!?
Start asking him straight out if he likes you (even though you may know he does) and when he says yes say something like i really like you too, but more as just a friend than anything else. If he deny's liking you then i wouldnt know where to go from there, but he should understand.


I'm sorry i couldn't give better advice (i know its not that great) but what you describe is something that's hard to do, i'm rootin for you though, good luck!
Just be honest with him. Tell him that you value his friendship so much that you wouldn't want to chance ruining it by changing it to something more. Tell him you love the friendship you two have established and need him to be your friend right on.
Can you be a friend with benefits? Everybody wins!

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