Friday, January 8, 2010

Advice Please! Guys and Girls?

My roommate is anti relationship. He just likes to have sex with no strings attached. A girl approached him and said ';All you need to know is I'm over 18.'; They exchanged numbers. He called her yesterday and left a voicemail and let her know he was available today in the am hours. He texted her today and asked ';are you in class?';





He wants to know what the best way to approach her to get her to get her to meet up without the impression that he is interested in her more than just a good lay, because she DID approach him and that's all he would want and he is sure she knows.





He just wants to know how you would seal the deal considering she hasn't responded and she is the one who initiated the entire thing.





Thank You---- ElleAdvice Please! Guys and Girls?
Is this a roommate on a college campus? Because this guy seems like he's anti-education as well. He might as well save his tuition for some porn or something after the women catch up with him and his pathetic games. It might be the only thing to pass away his time.





Find a new roommate please!Advice Please! Guys and Girls?
he has already down all he should. she approached him, she knows the deal, next move is up to her. all he has to do is sit back and wait. then enjoy.
shes playing hard to get or simply hasn't checked her phone.
Why are you asking for him?





He should be asking.





My advice is to





make love, not sex





Wait till he is in love.
tl;dr
I'm not sure I 100% understand what you are asking. But:





If I was the girl in the situation, I would PREFER he just say ';I just want to have fun and hook up, if you know what I mean. I don't want anymore than that.'; Because when I was in college I used to have fun hooking up with guys once in a while. But it used to really piss me off when they would try and come off all sweet and pretent they were into me. They thought that was what I wanted to hear. So rather than them just being honest, they would tell these ellaborate stories of how much they liked me, then would ignore me after we hooked up. It caused way more stress than necessary.





But yeah, the guy needs to be totally 100% honest straight off the bat. His chances of getting what he wants are higher, and he won't have to deal with unnecessary drama. Believe me, I know there are girls out there who would PREFER this. The stereotype that girls are not into that is stupid.

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