well be and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and school went out a week ago.. and he's only called me once since we've been out.. I'm crazy about him. but when we are on the phone i get the feeling like he doesn't care about me. and I'm tired of always picking up the pieces like always having to call him.. what should i do? should we end it?15 year old girl who needs guy advice please help?
Do you sometimes wonder why everyone is looking at you at a party. It's because you're the only one with s hit on you're face.15 year old girl who needs guy advice please help?
dear dont listen to any of the guys because they could not tell you what to do because they have not been through this situation. i on the other hand have been in this situation and it was a horrible feeling. (1) whatever you do you should not try to be something your not, that does not help the situation. (2) dont let him push you into anything you dont want to do such as lust. (3) if he is acting distant just ask him about it. (4) just remember that if you two do break up it will only be because he has not matured enough to be ready for this relationship. (5) try a diffrent approach to this relationship, mabe asking him what he is feeling. (6) try hinting that you want this relationship to work out and you would like to see him more. (7) ask him to call you for a change. (8) hang out as just friends for a day or so to actually get to know eachother. (9) talk about the stuff he wants to talk about. (10) just have a fun time when he's around you, if your relationship isn't going where you'd like it to go just be happy that you still have that relationship. well i hope these work out for you and i really hope everything will work out for you and him.
Well, ask yourself why you're crazy about him. Is it because...
Looks?
Popularity?
Personality?
If it's because of one of the first two, then end your relationship. If it's the last, then ask yourself...
Does he only act like he likes me around his friends? If this is true, FRICKIN DUMP HIM, GIRL!
Is he just plain horrible at starting conversations? If he is, then you're just a little too worried.
Is he one of those guys that only goes out with girls to be seen going out with girls, do you know what i mean??? Once again, dump him if it's a yes.
I can't tell you anything for sure, but i hope that this helped!
I truely think that you should end it. Your still young and younger guys like to mess around and have freedom so he might not be into the whole committment thing especially being that it is summer. I have been in very similar situation and i liked him so much that i ignored the warning signs like the ones your describing and he just ended up breaking up with me. Hope everything works out for you :]
If he is too lazy or too disinterested to even call you often during the time you have been out of school, then that should be the sign for you to end it. Either he'll just say ok and then you'll know he didn't really care, or maybe he'll change. Either way, you should just tell him.
End it honey..... it sounds like what happened to my best friend and she was crying her head off when HE ended it with her-- i mean you shouldn't have to guess if someone still likes you, if there looks like there is something wrong then 99.9% of the time there is..... call him, then dump him.
Well what you really should do is tell him you want to meet up with him somewhere private, and talk to him about it, and if he as an attitude about you should just be like ';if you don't want to be with me just say so'; if he doesn't just let him go.
hey darl, I know what your goin thru...
Get some stubborn streak in u. I recommend u make him put effort in.
if your always the one calling him, wait till he calls u. Try making him jelous... but a bit of fear in him that he could lose u. If he makes not change or does not recognise he could lose u, i think u should break up wit him. Find someone who makes an effort and appreciates ur time .
And do the person who advised her to put out... GO **** URSELF.
Dont lower urself to sex. You deserve someone who will love and appreciate u for the person u are not ur body n the sex u could give.
it sounds like something else could be on his mind, ask him if everything is okay, he might have some sort of family problems or something. Next time why don't you call him and organise to go out somewhere for a fun day? hope it works out!
I would talk to him about it. Just call him and talk to him about it in a serious tone. Don't freak him out but just let your attitude tell him that you want to fix this. Couples have problems, you just have to communicate
Bring the problem out to him. Tell him how you feel. How the hell is he suppose to know that you feel like he doesn't care on the phone. Don't end it so soon. Your relationship might have potential.
yea id say so you're 15, at that age you should try and find someone who truly cherishes you and respects you. i guess that holds true for any age...
He sounds way to preoccupied with his other stuff, your not a priority right now end it
no dont end it call him tell him how u feel that he just dosnt care about you and that ur tired of it see how he responds n work from there
May just want to hang out with mates till school is back.
he doesnt sound interested...end it
have you put out if not, then i suggest that you do or he'll lose interest
Thursday, December 31, 2009
For Guys only, need your advice?
When your talking to a girl for only about a few weeks, and its not serious ( your not boyfriend/girlfriend) yet, just dating. If you do like the girl, 1. if you have intercourse, does that usually change things (meaning, do you feel different about her, bad or good? 2. how long or what does the girl have to do or show you for you to want the girl to be your girlfriend?For Guys only, need your advice?
If you don't even know that he is interested in you then why are you having sex? I thought a girl losing her virginity at 14 was bad enough, but this is ridiculous, I think that the sex would feel much better when you know that the person you're having it with is in love with you for you and not for what's below your waist. You don't want to end up losing your virginity to someone who just wanted to exploit you do you now?
Jesus Christ, learn to control yourself and leave your shorts on until you know that that the guy you're having sex with is someone you spent your entire life with and until you realize that he is just as committed to you. No wonder so many girls regret losing their virginity to guys who just only exploit them and love them for what's below their waist.
Sex should mean that you are signing a pact with him that you want to spend your life with him, not just harvest pleasure and go after another. This ruins the idea of how sacred and pleasurable it is to lose your virginity to a partner rather then some guy who will just hit it and leave it. This is why I'm glad I have kept my virginity from my ex when I found out she was pregnant by someone else, I would have burned my eyes out otherwise.
If you don't even know that he is interested in you then why are you having sex? I thought a girl losing her virginity at 14 was bad enough, but this is ridiculous, I think that the sex would feel much better when you know that the person you're having it with is in love with you for you and not for what's below your waist. You don't want to end up losing your virginity to someone who just wanted to exploit you do you now?
Jesus Christ, learn to control yourself and leave your shorts on until you know that that the guy you're having sex with is someone you spent your entire life with and until you realize that he is just as committed to you. No wonder so many girls regret losing their virginity to guys who just only exploit them and love them for what's below their waist.
Sex should mean that you are signing a pact with him that you want to spend your life with him, not just harvest pleasure and go after another. This ruins the idea of how sacred and pleasurable it is to lose your virginity to a partner rather then some guy who will just hit it and leave it. This is why I'm glad I have kept my virginity from my ex when I found out she was pregnant by someone else, I would have burned my eyes out otherwise.
Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
i need andive on guys. im 14 and ive nevr had a boyfriend. i need one plz help!!!Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
dont worry, the right guy will come ur way. its
not like if u dont have one, ur gonna die :)
im 14 too but i heard some people never had
one till they were like 16 or something.
dont worry - just be patient.Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
Don't be obsessive over guys. It's not a healthy habit to get into. Just start off by being friends with someone. Be yourself and guys will like you for who you are.
dont worry, the right guy will come ur way. its
not like if u dont have one, ur gonna die :)
im 14 too but i heard some people never had
one till they were like 16 or something.
dont worry - just be patient.Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
Don't be obsessive over guys. It's not a healthy habit to get into. Just start off by being friends with someone. Be yourself and guys will like you for who you are.
Need advice again (guys only)?
ok so i dumped my bf to go to my bestfriend as my bf, so i spent the night at his house(were neighbors) and told him and he said he liked me so now he is my bf, .........we wanted to get more comfy w/eachother so we saw eachother nude....................................鈥?were playing around and he started to get really red and sweaty.......................so we just went to bed................now everytime i see him he acts different he ussually gets red and stuff he always wants to hug and stuff WHY is he acting like this and how can i stop it cause we really like eachother but.........he's different nowNeed advice again (guys only)?
What age are you????
You had only just broken up with one guy and u let another guy see you naked already? Something not right there!
Take things slow-This guy is obviously shy but really likes you. He is acting different because hes embaressed-Just act normal and he will get over it soon enough.
You say u think he wants something from you? Dont do anything your not comfortable with or old enough for!Need advice again (guys only)?
FUC K u whore, you ugly prickhead
he turned red because you r so ugly and fat
go sucka cow and leave that poor guy alone, he musthave been so scared......poor little guy
well duh he's going to be different now.
he's seen you without clothes...
...you didn't do anything then...
...he's a typical teenage guy...
...and he wants to get his hands on you.
trust me, it'll only get worse from here. you give in to one thing he asks for (hug, kiss, etc.) he'll ask for more until it gets to the point he's begging you for sex, as i saw in your other question. of course you want to do it, doesnt everyone? but please please please dont, there are too many risks, and you havent been together that long, you dont even know how long it will last. dont have sex with anyone until you know for a fact that you're staying together.
no, i'm not a guy like you asked for, but i'm a girl thats been in the same situation...except no ones ever seen me without clothes...
great job......
How old are you? You sound like you are 16.
Wow, you really need to learn to read people's body language. If he's turning red, he's obviously embarrassed about something (probably just because he's shy?)
Also, what's with the getting naked to get more comfy thing?? That is NOT normal... regardless of how old or young you guys are. No wonder he's embarrassed.
Here's a tip: TALK TO HIM! Ask him why he gets red. You were best friends, now you're ';more';... maybe he just doesn't quite know where you're at, and how he's supposed to act.
What age are you????
You had only just broken up with one guy and u let another guy see you naked already? Something not right there!
Take things slow-This guy is obviously shy but really likes you. He is acting different because hes embaressed-Just act normal and he will get over it soon enough.
You say u think he wants something from you? Dont do anything your not comfortable with or old enough for!Need advice again (guys only)?
FUC K u whore, you ugly prickhead
he turned red because you r so ugly and fat
go sucka cow and leave that poor guy alone, he musthave been so scared......poor little guy
well duh he's going to be different now.
he's seen you without clothes...
...you didn't do anything then...
...he's a typical teenage guy...
...and he wants to get his hands on you.
trust me, it'll only get worse from here. you give in to one thing he asks for (hug, kiss, etc.) he'll ask for more until it gets to the point he's begging you for sex, as i saw in your other question. of course you want to do it, doesnt everyone? but please please please dont, there are too many risks, and you havent been together that long, you dont even know how long it will last. dont have sex with anyone until you know for a fact that you're staying together.
no, i'm not a guy like you asked for, but i'm a girl thats been in the same situation...except no ones ever seen me without clothes...
great job......
How old are you? You sound like you are 16.
Wow, you really need to learn to read people's body language. If he's turning red, he's obviously embarrassed about something (probably just because he's shy?)
Also, what's with the getting naked to get more comfy thing?? That is NOT normal... regardless of how old or young you guys are. No wonder he's embarrassed.
Here's a tip: TALK TO HIM! Ask him why he gets red. You were best friends, now you're ';more';... maybe he just doesn't quite know where you're at, and how he's supposed to act.
Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
Okay, lets say that you know this teenage girl, and she tells you that she is so deeply in love with you... Would you:
o1. Give her the speech, you know ';I think you're great, so maybe in a full years etc, etc';
o2. Tell her parents.
o3. Ignore her.
Or something else?Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
Called my husband and asked (he's 25), and he said, ';Well, first I'm married, so ewww. Second, even if I weren't married, I'd tell her that was just way to old and she needs someone her won age. Then, I'd avoid her like the plague. I'm not letting some hormonal teenager get me into any trouble!';
My husband's a smart man.Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
most guys would just try to get into their pants, unless they're into guys.
i have the situation alot with my lil sisters friends. i usually ignore them or i explain to them its just impossible for us to be together and im sorry.
girls under 18 are what you call jail bait
off limits.
i would say that's cute but i think you should find someone your own age. But i think you're confusing love with a crush. Bottom line your a child and I'm a man. Don't be in a rush to do adult things because they have adult consequences.
a man 16 and over can go to jail for having sex with a girl under 16 in most states.
you can get pregnant or get VD or worse
slow down and enjoy being a child
Haha I just called my brother and asked him this question. Here's his answer and he's 21 turning 22 this year.
Probably tell her I was too old for her and that she should try and find guys her own age. Then I'd probably just try and keep my distance from her.
Sorry Jen,
Unfortunately you will just have to wait until college or so until society and your family will accept dating with somebody a little bit older than you. All I can say is don't put the ';crush'; pressure on him and make him uncomfortable, it's just not to be, even if it feels so right inside.
Take your time and enjoy youthbeauty cosmetics
o1. Give her the speech, you know ';I think you're great, so maybe in a full years etc, etc';
o2. Tell her parents.
o3. Ignore her.
Or something else?Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
Called my husband and asked (he's 25), and he said, ';Well, first I'm married, so ewww. Second, even if I weren't married, I'd tell her that was just way to old and she needs someone her won age. Then, I'd avoid her like the plague. I'm not letting some hormonal teenager get me into any trouble!';
My husband's a smart man.Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
most guys would just try to get into their pants, unless they're into guys.
i have the situation alot with my lil sisters friends. i usually ignore them or i explain to them its just impossible for us to be together and im sorry.
girls under 18 are what you call jail bait
off limits.
i would say that's cute but i think you should find someone your own age. But i think you're confusing love with a crush. Bottom line your a child and I'm a man. Don't be in a rush to do adult things because they have adult consequences.
a man 16 and over can go to jail for having sex with a girl under 16 in most states.
you can get pregnant or get VD or worse
slow down and enjoy being a child
Haha I just called my brother and asked him this question. Here's his answer and he's 21 turning 22 this year.
Probably tell her I was too old for her and that she should try and find guys her own age. Then I'd probably just try and keep my distance from her.
Sorry Jen,
Unfortunately you will just have to wait until college or so until society and your family will accept dating with somebody a little bit older than you. All I can say is don't put the ';crush'; pressure on him and make him uncomfortable, it's just not to be, even if it feels so right inside.
Take your time and enjoy youth
HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
we dated for 2 yrs but argued a lot.he mentioned marriage.i dumped him out of nowhere.5 months later,we tried to make it work again but break up.i force myself to see other guys,but can't stop thinking of my x.he moves on and starts a new relationship.after a month,he gets in a huge fight with her/tells me he's going to dump her/uses me for sex/next day changes his mind.this shook me bc he's not the type to cheat.she dumps him for other reasons.i later find out from the girl that they never had sex.during this,i meet a guy that's ok,but still not as great as my x.my x sees a new girl but spends way more time with me than her.she ended up going for her x anyway.2 weeks later,my x puts my pics on his dorm wall/wants to hold hands.we makeout.i still love him but am afraid.i tell him i only want 2 b friensd with benefits.he confesses that he wants a relationship/says that he won't have sex with me otherwise.i hesitate/he is hurt/ignores me.later,i agree to give him another chance.
ADVICE?HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
You really need to lose this guy and start all over, there is still too much drama there, and it isn't good. I know it's hard to do but you need to start all over and when you see yourself again in a situation like that, you should allready know it's not a good thing. Get out and start a life with your self and maybe soon a new prince will be involved in you life.HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
you're a lost cause...
ADVICE?HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
You really need to lose this guy and start all over, there is still too much drama there, and it isn't good. I know it's hard to do but you need to start all over and when you see yourself again in a situation like that, you should allready know it's not a good thing. Get out and start a life with your self and maybe soon a new prince will be involved in you life.HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
you're a lost cause...
Help/Advice with guys...?
I'm 16, female, and never been kissed and I've never had a boyfriend. I consider myself fairly attractive, but I am pretty shy. It takes me almost a whole school year to talk to a guy. I really want to have some guy friends at least. Any advice???Help/Advice with guys...?
Don't avoid eye contact, don't look away when you make eye contact. Those are things that very shy and self conscious women do, even as adults.
My current girl is like that, she's 27, and she swears she's had a crush on me for a couple of years, yet she would tense up, avoid eye contact, and turn away when I would go near her.
Go talk to guys by asking for the homework, etc.Help/Advice with guys...?
I believe the usual method is to hang around your older brother or male cousin who has friends about your age, or hang around with your girl friend that seems to have more than one boy friend. Does that ring any bells?
dont worrie about it. My cousin is 16 and never been kissed. and, maybe you should get some friends that you feel really confordable around and they make you laugh and you can act silly around them and that will help you become more outgoing.
Don't avoid eye contact, don't look away when you make eye contact. Those are things that very shy and self conscious women do, even as adults.
My current girl is like that, she's 27, and she swears she's had a crush on me for a couple of years, yet she would tense up, avoid eye contact, and turn away when I would go near her.
Go talk to guys by asking for the homework, etc.Help/Advice with guys...?
I believe the usual method is to hang around your older brother or male cousin who has friends about your age, or hang around with your girl friend that seems to have more than one boy friend. Does that ring any bells?
dont worrie about it. My cousin is 16 and never been kissed. and, maybe you should get some friends that you feel really confordable around and they make you laugh and you can act silly around them and that will help you become more outgoing.
15 year old girl who needs guy advice please help?
well be and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and school went out a week ago.. and he's only called me once since we've been out.. I'm crazy about him. but when we are on the phone i get the feeling like he doesn't care about me. and I'm tired of always picking up the pieces like always having to call him.. what should i do? should we end it?15 year old girl who needs guy advice please help?
Do you sometimes wonder why everyone is looking at you at a party. It's because you're the only one with s hit on you're face.15 year old girl who needs guy advice please help?
dear dont listen to any of the guys because they could not tell you what to do because they have not been through this situation. i on the other hand have been in this situation and it was a horrible feeling. (1) whatever you do you should not try to be something your not, that does not help the situation. (2) dont let him push you into anything you dont want to do such as lust. (3) if he is acting distant just ask him about it. (4) just remember that if you two do break up it will only be because he has not matured enough to be ready for this relationship. (5) try a diffrent approach to this relationship, mabe asking him what he is feeling. (6) try hinting that you want this relationship to work out and you would like to see him more. (7) ask him to call you for a change. (8) hang out as just friends for a day or so to actually get to know eachother. (9) talk about the stuff he wants to talk about. (10) just have a fun time when he's around you, if your relationship isn't going where you'd like it to go just be happy that you still have that relationship. well i hope these work out for you and i really hope everything will work out for you and him.
Well, ask yourself why you're crazy about him. Is it because...
Looks?
Popularity?
Personality?
If it's because of one of the first two, then end your relationship. If it's the last, then ask yourself...
Does he only act like he likes me around his friends? If this is true, FRICKIN DUMP HIM, GIRL!
Is he just plain horrible at starting conversations? If he is, then you're just a little too worried.
Is he one of those guys that only goes out with girls to be seen going out with girls, do you know what i mean??? Once again, dump him if it's a yes.
I can't tell you anything for sure, but i hope that this helped!
I truely think that you should end it. Your still young and younger guys like to mess around and have freedom so he might not be into the whole committment thing especially being that it is summer. I have been in very similar situation and i liked him so much that i ignored the warning signs like the ones your describing and he just ended up breaking up with me. Hope everything works out for you :]
If he is too lazy or too disinterested to even call you often during the time you have been out of school, then that should be the sign for you to end it. Either he'll just say ok and then you'll know he didn't really care, or maybe he'll change. Either way, you should just tell him.
End it honey..... it sounds like what happened to my best friend and she was crying her head off when HE ended it with her-- i mean you shouldn't have to guess if someone still likes you, if there looks like there is something wrong then 99.9% of the time there is..... call him, then dump him.
Well what you really should do is tell him you want to meet up with him somewhere private, and talk to him about it, and if he as an attitude about you should just be like ';if you don't want to be with me just say so'; if he doesn't just let him go.
hey darl, I know what your goin thru...
Get some stubborn streak in u. I recommend u make him put effort in.
if your always the one calling him, wait till he calls u. Try making him jelous... but a bit of fear in him that he could lose u. If he makes not change or does not recognise he could lose u, i think u should break up wit him. Find someone who makes an effort and appreciates ur time .
And do the person who advised her to put out... GO **** URSELF.
Dont lower urself to sex. You deserve someone who will love and appreciate u for the person u are not ur body n the sex u could give.
it sounds like something else could be on his mind, ask him if everything is okay, he might have some sort of family problems or something. Next time why don't you call him and organise to go out somewhere for a fun day? hope it works out!
I would talk to him about it. Just call him and talk to him about it in a serious tone. Don't freak him out but just let your attitude tell him that you want to fix this. Couples have problems, you just have to communicate
Bring the problem out to him. Tell him how you feel. How the hell is he suppose to know that you feel like he doesn't care on the phone. Don't end it so soon. Your relationship might have potential.
yea id say so you're 15, at that age you should try and find someone who truly cherishes you and respects you. i guess that holds true for any age...
He sounds way to preoccupied with his other stuff, your not a priority right now end it
no dont end it call him tell him how u feel that he just dosnt care about you and that ur tired of it see how he responds n work from there
May just want to hang out with mates till school is back.
he doesnt sound interested...end it
have you put out if not, then i suggest that you do or he'll lose interest
Do you sometimes wonder why everyone is looking at you at a party. It's because you're the only one with s hit on you're face.15 year old girl who needs guy advice please help?
dear dont listen to any of the guys because they could not tell you what to do because they have not been through this situation. i on the other hand have been in this situation and it was a horrible feeling. (1) whatever you do you should not try to be something your not, that does not help the situation. (2) dont let him push you into anything you dont want to do such as lust. (3) if he is acting distant just ask him about it. (4) just remember that if you two do break up it will only be because he has not matured enough to be ready for this relationship. (5) try a diffrent approach to this relationship, mabe asking him what he is feeling. (6) try hinting that you want this relationship to work out and you would like to see him more. (7) ask him to call you for a change. (8) hang out as just friends for a day or so to actually get to know eachother. (9) talk about the stuff he wants to talk about. (10) just have a fun time when he's around you, if your relationship isn't going where you'd like it to go just be happy that you still have that relationship. well i hope these work out for you and i really hope everything will work out for you and him.
Well, ask yourself why you're crazy about him. Is it because...
Looks?
Popularity?
Personality?
If it's because of one of the first two, then end your relationship. If it's the last, then ask yourself...
Does he only act like he likes me around his friends? If this is true, FRICKIN DUMP HIM, GIRL!
Is he just plain horrible at starting conversations? If he is, then you're just a little too worried.
Is he one of those guys that only goes out with girls to be seen going out with girls, do you know what i mean??? Once again, dump him if it's a yes.
I can't tell you anything for sure, but i hope that this helped!
I truely think that you should end it. Your still young and younger guys like to mess around and have freedom so he might not be into the whole committment thing especially being that it is summer. I have been in very similar situation and i liked him so much that i ignored the warning signs like the ones your describing and he just ended up breaking up with me. Hope everything works out for you :]
If he is too lazy or too disinterested to even call you often during the time you have been out of school, then that should be the sign for you to end it. Either he'll just say ok and then you'll know he didn't really care, or maybe he'll change. Either way, you should just tell him.
End it honey..... it sounds like what happened to my best friend and she was crying her head off when HE ended it with her-- i mean you shouldn't have to guess if someone still likes you, if there looks like there is something wrong then 99.9% of the time there is..... call him, then dump him.
Well what you really should do is tell him you want to meet up with him somewhere private, and talk to him about it, and if he as an attitude about you should just be like ';if you don't want to be with me just say so'; if he doesn't just let him go.
hey darl, I know what your goin thru...
Get some stubborn streak in u. I recommend u make him put effort in.
if your always the one calling him, wait till he calls u. Try making him jelous... but a bit of fear in him that he could lose u. If he makes not change or does not recognise he could lose u, i think u should break up wit him. Find someone who makes an effort and appreciates ur time .
And do the person who advised her to put out... GO **** URSELF.
Dont lower urself to sex. You deserve someone who will love and appreciate u for the person u are not ur body n the sex u could give.
it sounds like something else could be on his mind, ask him if everything is okay, he might have some sort of family problems or something. Next time why don't you call him and organise to go out somewhere for a fun day? hope it works out!
I would talk to him about it. Just call him and talk to him about it in a serious tone. Don't freak him out but just let your attitude tell him that you want to fix this. Couples have problems, you just have to communicate
Bring the problem out to him. Tell him how you feel. How the hell is he suppose to know that you feel like he doesn't care on the phone. Don't end it so soon. Your relationship might have potential.
yea id say so you're 15, at that age you should try and find someone who truly cherishes you and respects you. i guess that holds true for any age...
He sounds way to preoccupied with his other stuff, your not a priority right now end it
no dont end it call him tell him how u feel that he just dosnt care about you and that ur tired of it see how he responds n work from there
May just want to hang out with mates till school is back.
he doesnt sound interested...end it
have you put out if not, then i suggest that you do or he'll lose interest
For Guys only, need your advice?
When your talking to a girl for only about a few weeks, and its not serious ( your not boyfriend/girlfriend) yet, just dating. If you do like the girl, 1. if you have intercourse, does that usually change things (meaning, do you feel different about her, bad or good? 2. how long or what does the girl have to do or show you for you to want the girl to be your girlfriend?For Guys only, need your advice?
If you don't even know that he is interested in you then why are you having sex? I thought a girl losing her virginity at 14 was bad enough, but this is ridiculous, I think that the sex would feel much better when you know that the person you're having it with is in love with you for you and not for what's below your waist. You don't want to end up losing your virginity to someone who just wanted to exploit you do you now?
Jesus Christ, learn to control yourself and leave your shorts on until you know that that the guy you're having sex with is someone you spent your entire life with and until you realize that he is just as committed to you. No wonder so many girls regret losing their virginity to guys who just only exploit them and love them for what's below their waist.
Sex should mean that you are signing a pact with him that you want to spend your life with him, not just harvest pleasure and go after another. This ruins the idea of how sacred and pleasurable it is to lose your virginity to a partner rather then some guy who will just hit it and leave it. This is why I'm glad I have kept my virginity from my ex when I found out she was pregnant by someone else, I would have burned my eyes out otherwise.
If you don't even know that he is interested in you then why are you having sex? I thought a girl losing her virginity at 14 was bad enough, but this is ridiculous, I think that the sex would feel much better when you know that the person you're having it with is in love with you for you and not for what's below your waist. You don't want to end up losing your virginity to someone who just wanted to exploit you do you now?
Jesus Christ, learn to control yourself and leave your shorts on until you know that that the guy you're having sex with is someone you spent your entire life with and until you realize that he is just as committed to you. No wonder so many girls regret losing their virginity to guys who just only exploit them and love them for what's below their waist.
Sex should mean that you are signing a pact with him that you want to spend your life with him, not just harvest pleasure and go after another. This ruins the idea of how sacred and pleasurable it is to lose your virginity to a partner rather then some guy who will just hit it and leave it. This is why I'm glad I have kept my virginity from my ex when I found out she was pregnant by someone else, I would have burned my eyes out otherwise.
Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
i need andive on guys. im 14 and ive nevr had a boyfriend. i need one plz help!!!Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
dont worry, the right guy will come ur way. its
not like if u dont have one, ur gonna die :)
im 14 too but i heard some people never had
one till they were like 16 or something.
dont worry - just be patient.Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
Don't be obsessive over guys. It's not a healthy habit to get into. Just start off by being friends with someone. Be yourself and guys will like you for who you are.
dont worry, the right guy will come ur way. its
not like if u dont have one, ur gonna die :)
im 14 too but i heard some people never had
one till they were like 16 or something.
dont worry - just be patient.Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
Don't be obsessive over guys. It's not a healthy habit to get into. Just start off by being friends with someone. Be yourself and guys will like you for who you are.
Need advice again (guys only)?
ok so i dumped my bf to go to my bestfriend as my bf, so i spent the night at his house(were neighbors) and told him and he said he liked me so now he is my bf, .........we wanted to get more comfy w/eachother so we saw eachother nude....................................鈥?were playing around and he started to get really red and sweaty.......................so we just went to bed................now everytime i see him he acts different he ussually gets red and stuff he always wants to hug and stuff WHY is he acting like this and how can i stop it cause we really like eachother but.........he's different nowNeed advice again (guys only)?
What age are you????
You had only just broken up with one guy and u let another guy see you naked already? Something not right there!
Take things slow-This guy is obviously shy but really likes you. He is acting different because hes embaressed-Just act normal and he will get over it soon enough.
You say u think he wants something from you? Dont do anything your not comfortable with or old enough for!Need advice again (guys only)?
FUC K u whore, you ugly prickhead
he turned red because you r so ugly and fat
go sucka cow and leave that poor guy alone, he musthave been so scared......poor little guy
well duh he's going to be different now.
he's seen you without clothes...
...you didn't do anything then...
...he's a typical teenage guy...
...and he wants to get his hands on you.
trust me, it'll only get worse from here. you give in to one thing he asks for (hug, kiss, etc.) he'll ask for more until it gets to the point he's begging you for sex, as i saw in your other question. of course you want to do it, doesnt everyone? but please please please dont, there are too many risks, and you havent been together that long, you dont even know how long it will last. dont have sex with anyone until you know for a fact that you're staying together.
no, i'm not a guy like you asked for, but i'm a girl thats been in the same situation...except no ones ever seen me without clothes...
great job......
How old are you? You sound like you are 16.
Wow, you really need to learn to read people's body language. If he's turning red, he's obviously embarrassed about something (probably just because he's shy?)
Also, what's with the getting naked to get more comfy thing?? That is NOT normal... regardless of how old or young you guys are. No wonder he's embarrassed.
Here's a tip: TALK TO HIM! Ask him why he gets red. You were best friends, now you're ';more';... maybe he just doesn't quite know where you're at, and how he's supposed to act.beauty cosmetics
What age are you????
You had only just broken up with one guy and u let another guy see you naked already? Something not right there!
Take things slow-This guy is obviously shy but really likes you. He is acting different because hes embaressed-Just act normal and he will get over it soon enough.
You say u think he wants something from you? Dont do anything your not comfortable with or old enough for!Need advice again (guys only)?
FUC K u whore, you ugly prickhead
he turned red because you r so ugly and fat
go sucka cow and leave that poor guy alone, he musthave been so scared......poor little guy
well duh he's going to be different now.
he's seen you without clothes...
...you didn't do anything then...
...he's a typical teenage guy...
...and he wants to get his hands on you.
trust me, it'll only get worse from here. you give in to one thing he asks for (hug, kiss, etc.) he'll ask for more until it gets to the point he's begging you for sex, as i saw in your other question. of course you want to do it, doesnt everyone? but please please please dont, there are too many risks, and you havent been together that long, you dont even know how long it will last. dont have sex with anyone until you know for a fact that you're staying together.
no, i'm not a guy like you asked for, but i'm a girl thats been in the same situation...except no ones ever seen me without clothes...
great job......
How old are you? You sound like you are 16.
Wow, you really need to learn to read people's body language. If he's turning red, he's obviously embarrassed about something (probably just because he's shy?)
Also, what's with the getting naked to get more comfy thing?? That is NOT normal... regardless of how old or young you guys are. No wonder he's embarrassed.
Here's a tip: TALK TO HIM! Ask him why he gets red. You were best friends, now you're ';more';... maybe he just doesn't quite know where you're at, and how he's supposed to act.
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There is this guy that i was interested in and i went up to him one day and told him that i was interested. Well he told me that he was interested to and was thinking about talking to me but he had a girlfriend and that he doesn't want to cheat on her. He also told me that if the situation was different he would definitely talk to me. The reason why i have some doubts is because he is my friend on myspace and his page says he is single and there is not one picture of a girl on his profile. So i was wondering if he is lyingNEED ADVICE from guys and girls (10 pts)?
Well for one just becase there is no picture or it says he is single doesn't mean anything becase he could just not be the clingy type or have his world revlded around this ';girl';
However if he is really interested in you he would break it off and try new things because every guy knows that the girls they are with now don't mean ****. I don't know how old you are but your life is full or seconds and moments and people so don't get stuck on one thing. I'm sure other people are looking at you that are to shy to say something. I am 16 and have experienced this and trust me. He doesn't have the feelings there for you. Atleast not enough, let him go and be friends play hard to get; if he texts you reply 1 hour later or really slow each time or if he ask what your doing or something be like your not lucky enough to know. Or if he doesn't text you all week/weekend and says something like you havn't texted me in a while say well you havn't texted me. Keep the ball in your court.
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Whether he is lying or not, I would feel like I had everything I needed to know about him. If he is lying then he's just not interested and was trying to say it nicely. If he is not lying then he's not available now but maybe he will be if he breaks up with his girlfriend. I think some people keep the single status to let people know they're not in a committed relationship- in which case if he likes to hang on to the single status online while he currently has a girlfriend that tells you something about what you could possibly expect from him if you were dating. On the other hand maybe the relationship is just new and he hasn't added all of the pics and updated the status yet.
Best Wishes!
more than likely he is out with the girl and not at home always fixing his myspace page. as far as not having a picture she might not want him to put her picture on his space for all to see. it might be a new relationship or she may be shy. many reasons for not having the picture on there.
if he says he is involved why do you want to pursue him. if he goes out with you he is cheating on her. do you want a man that will cheat on his gf?
Not all people change their status on their page or have pics up so that might not mean he's lying. You really can't do anything because he already said he's involved with someone right now. Regardless if it's true or if he's lying, he obviously doesn't want a relationship with you right now. Just move on and find someone else.
umm..i think dat would hardly b the case of lying
cuz usually dont lie abt these kind of things wen it cums getting involved wid another girl..but i think there could b sumother reason for not stating that hes in a relationship..sumting personnal mayb..
maybe he was... or maybe his gf didn't want pics of herself up on myspace. Maybe they made an agreement of somesort... Maybe he did break up with her... If not... he was probably lieing. I would just confront him and ask him... if he doesnt answer he's not worth it.
He may post his relationship status as single because maybe you're not the only girl he's trying to go after? His relationship may be very private or fairly new. It sounds like a waste of your time though. You'll find something better!
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i would confront him about that thing on myspace and make him tell the truth; but make sure he knows its ok to be honest you wont get mad
might be lying..but the real talk should be about why he doesnt wanna cheat..thats a straight pu$$y right there,,
Damn. That's tricky. Well if you ever see him around with a girl, then you'll know for sure.
maybe he is lying, but it could be that he never got around to changing anything on his profile. not rly sure : /
Well for one just becase there is no picture or it says he is single doesn't mean anything becase he could just not be the clingy type or have his world revlded around this ';girl';
However if he is really interested in you he would break it off and try new things because every guy knows that the girls they are with now don't mean ****. I don't know how old you are but your life is full or seconds and moments and people so don't get stuck on one thing. I'm sure other people are looking at you that are to shy to say something. I am 16 and have experienced this and trust me. He doesn't have the feelings there for you. Atleast not enough, let him go and be friends play hard to get; if he texts you reply 1 hour later or really slow each time or if he ask what your doing or something be like your not lucky enough to know. Or if he doesn't text you all week/weekend and says something like you havn't texted me in a while say well you havn't texted me. Keep the ball in your court.
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Whether he is lying or not, I would feel like I had everything I needed to know about him. If he is lying then he's just not interested and was trying to say it nicely. If he is not lying then he's not available now but maybe he will be if he breaks up with his girlfriend. I think some people keep the single status to let people know they're not in a committed relationship- in which case if he likes to hang on to the single status online while he currently has a girlfriend that tells you something about what you could possibly expect from him if you were dating. On the other hand maybe the relationship is just new and he hasn't added all of the pics and updated the status yet.
Best Wishes!
more than likely he is out with the girl and not at home always fixing his myspace page. as far as not having a picture she might not want him to put her picture on his space for all to see. it might be a new relationship or she may be shy. many reasons for not having the picture on there.
if he says he is involved why do you want to pursue him. if he goes out with you he is cheating on her. do you want a man that will cheat on his gf?
Not all people change their status on their page or have pics up so that might not mean he's lying. You really can't do anything because he already said he's involved with someone right now. Regardless if it's true or if he's lying, he obviously doesn't want a relationship with you right now. Just move on and find someone else.
umm..i think dat would hardly b the case of lying
cuz usually dont lie abt these kind of things wen it cums getting involved wid another girl..but i think there could b sumother reason for not stating that hes in a relationship..sumting personnal mayb..
maybe he was... or maybe his gf didn't want pics of herself up on myspace. Maybe they made an agreement of somesort... Maybe he did break up with her... If not... he was probably lieing. I would just confront him and ask him... if he doesnt answer he's not worth it.
He may post his relationship status as single because maybe you're not the only girl he's trying to go after? His relationship may be very private or fairly new. It sounds like a waste of your time though. You'll find something better!
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i would confront him about that thing on myspace and make him tell the truth; but make sure he knows its ok to be honest you wont get mad
might be lying..but the real talk should be about why he doesnt wanna cheat..thats a straight pu$$y right there,,
Damn. That's tricky. Well if you ever see him around with a girl, then you'll know for sure.
maybe he is lying, but it could be that he never got around to changing anything on his profile. not rly sure : /
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i want to impress a boy i like but how! any advice im 11 yrs oldNEED ADVICE FROM GUYS! and girls too?
Smile a lot and be nice.
Smile a lot and be nice.
Some advice from guys?
Well there's this guy I really like, and he's caught me staring at him many times. But I'm terrified of making a move or talking to him, because I freeze up every time I see him lol. Also I'm extremely quiet and I hardly ever speak. If you're a guy, what's the first thing that comes to your mind if you see a girl staring at you?Some advice from guys?
When I find a girl staring at me first I wonder if my hair is messed up or if I spilled something on my shirt (i get self-conscious). After checking that and finding that everything is ok I check to see if she looks again. If she looks and smiles... well that's a good sign. You should try doing that if you want to give him a hint. Smile at him when you make eye contact.
Even if you think you're just average he may think you're beautiful. It's hard to judge our own appearances really so don't be hard on yourself. Not every man in the world has the same idea of beauty.Some advice from guys?
Please God I hope I don't nut
Aw sh*t
I'm about to nutttt.........
If he catches you he Knows you are interested if he stares back then he is probably interested to. Smile at him and see if he smiles back if he does than yuo should approach him if he half smiles and turns, move on.
well first of all, you know she likes you. theres not really any other reason for girls to be starring at you. in most cases its nice cause know who ever the boy is, they can maybe aact on there feelings toward you if they like you
I couldn't tell you what i think if a girl was staring at me, haven't had the experience. But i can tell you what it means if he's shooting glances at you, or at least a possibility. He may like you. I know i kept doing that to the girl i like, just try to sneak a glance. If you like him, get to know him, talk with him sometimes. Or skip it and ask him out. I'm shy usually too. I managed to ask the girl i like out, and i'm living with the no...better to have tried and failed than not to have tried though, neh?
When I find a girl staring at me first I wonder if my hair is messed up or if I spilled something on my shirt (i get self-conscious). After checking that and finding that everything is ok I check to see if she looks again. If she looks and smiles... well that's a good sign. You should try doing that if you want to give him a hint. Smile at him when you make eye contact.
Even if you think you're just average he may think you're beautiful. It's hard to judge our own appearances really so don't be hard on yourself. Not every man in the world has the same idea of beauty.Some advice from guys?
Please God I hope I don't nut
Aw sh*t
I'm about to nutttt.........
If he catches you he Knows you are interested if he stares back then he is probably interested to. Smile at him and see if he smiles back if he does than yuo should approach him if he half smiles and turns, move on.
well first of all, you know she likes you. theres not really any other reason for girls to be starring at you. in most cases its nice cause know who ever the boy is, they can maybe aact on there feelings toward you if they like you
I couldn't tell you what i think if a girl was staring at me, haven't had the experience. But i can tell you what it means if he's shooting glances at you, or at least a possibility. He may like you. I know i kept doing that to the girl i like, just try to sneak a glance. If you like him, get to know him, talk with him sometimes. Or skip it and ask him out. I'm shy usually too. I managed to ask the girl i like out, and i'm living with the no...better to have tried and failed than not to have tried though, neh?
Plz advice me guys?
guys i know a man in 30's,professional and settled but he had a very bad experience in his recent past.his exgal frd cheated on him very badly and they used to live toghter for few yrs,and they moved to this country togther but she cheated on him in this country so now he is living all alone.on the very 1st day when we saw each other he wanted to take it further with me and i was taking very slow .but in 3rd meeting we kissed so i thought now he knows my answer';yes';to his purposal but the thing is we r not in touch very much .he never text me or call me ,its only me who text msg him every 3weeks but when we meet ,we meet like vey good frds or more than that.i don't know y he never try to keep in touch with me.AND he can't handle ';no';at all.he get mad about it. so why he is acting like that.SO GUYS it it b'coz he is involved in ex gal frd or don't want another relationship ?Plz advice me guys?
he doesn't want to get serious with you just in case his exgf comes back. forget about himPlz advice me guys?
You are his booty call. He has another girl, or his ex girl is still his real girl. He just comes to you to burn off his frustrations. If he really was into you he would be calling you all the time.
Forget him and move on.
When a person is truly in love with you, you usually don't have to wonder if they are or not.
Maybe the fact that you are always ringing and contacting him makes him feel reassured and in control.....
The fact that you mention that he can't handle ';No'; and gets mad is a concern because he may have anger and resentment built up because of his past relationship and may end up taking it out on you or the next person he gets involved with.
I can't really say exactly why he is acting like that, however from personal experience, my advise would be to not get involved with him.
He has issues from the past that he hasn't dealt with yet and if you do get involved, the chances of it working out will most likely be very slim.
Good luck.
Chi Chi x.
he doesn't want to get serious with you just in case his exgf comes back. forget about himPlz advice me guys?
You are his booty call. He has another girl, or his ex girl is still his real girl. He just comes to you to burn off his frustrations. If he really was into you he would be calling you all the time.
Forget him and move on.
When a person is truly in love with you, you usually don't have to wonder if they are or not.
Maybe the fact that you are always ringing and contacting him makes him feel reassured and in control.....
The fact that you mention that he can't handle ';No'; and gets mad is a concern because he may have anger and resentment built up because of his past relationship and may end up taking it out on you or the next person he gets involved with.
I can't really say exactly why he is acting like that, however from personal experience, my advise would be to not get involved with him.
He has issues from the past that he hasn't dealt with yet and if you do get involved, the chances of it working out will most likely be very slim.
Good luck.
Chi Chi x.
Hey guys need ur advice on corruption in india!?
i actually don't need the ways to stop corruption ............but i want to know that how corruption is being fought against by the youth........the actual topic is....'; corruption; your no counts';.........pleeezz help ...............thanx in advance............Hey guys need ur advice on corruption in india!?
NO way !Hey guys need ur advice on corruption in india!?
Tendency of a person to influence and/or speed up things in his favour breeds corruption. When their is a demand for a service their will be be a service provider.
Reduce the demand or increase the penalty on the service so high that the risk does not make sense.
Even in the most corrupt countries the private sector has less corruption because the risk premium is higher.
NO way !Hey guys need ur advice on corruption in india!?
Tendency of a person to influence and/or speed up things in his favour breeds corruption. When their is a demand for a service their will be be a service provider.
Reduce the demand or increase the penalty on the service so high that the risk does not make sense.
Even in the most corrupt countries the private sector has less corruption because the risk premium is higher.
I need help n advice from guys, but a girls perspective 2?
i just wanted to know how can i become the guy all the girls want in school, im good lookin, n i have always been popular, but i just never had the girls round me, especially now that im going to high school, i need to know how can i be the guy everyone wants?I need help n advice from guys, but a girls perspective 2?
Okay well this worked for me, just be nice to everyone and when you do have a girl make sure you make them laugh, they love that. Also make sure you work out a little and have a nice body, they love that too! But more than anything just remember to be yourself and have confidence, women can sense confidence and if you have it they will be all around you. Don't try too hard because women can tell if you are trying to hard, just be yourself. Good LuckI need help n advice from guys, but a girls perspective 2?
im in da same situation get involved in extra curriculars dats wat im bout 2 do
let yourself be outgoing and funny....i like a boy thats does that
have confidence. Dont try to be someone you're not. Girls love confident guys, it helps them be secure sometimes. And be easy to talk to , smile
Go to this website:
www.sosuave.com
It has tons of info to get you hooked up with the ladies, and yes it actually works!!!!
And Remember, ALWAYS BE COCKY AND FUNNY around the ladies, and they will love your nuts!
Good Luck
no idea...i dont have that problem
You'll always be a big fish in a small sea in primary school but once in highschool your a little fish in big water. If you want to be liked join tons of groups and after school activities so that you are known by almost everyone....this will give you the opportunity to be around more girls and you will get tons of dates. But remember not every girl is going to want you....that's logical.
Are u popular because you're a jack@ss? Guys will promote your popularity for that but it just doesn't win the girls. Be nice, talk to them, hear what they say and remember it. Impress them by caring. give them compliments once in a while. Be willing to be in a relationship, don't break up unless you have a good reason... you know. Talk to all ladies, pretty and not so pretty. It will build your reputation up in no time. Girls will kill to have you.
why? I am a sophmore in High school. I am the geek. I am the girl who no one really likes but wants help with their school work. Just be who you are. It doesn't matter how you act or what you say unless its really what you would say or do. some time you will find a girl that will like you for you!
are you nice?
just be yourself...
try to be funny and original... I could always relate to guys better if they made me laugh a bit...
Be yourself and you will find someone. You shouldn't care what others want.
Have you tried AXE?
That's easy, just be the great friend that is easy to talk to. Kind of like a great big brother with the gentle female side. Always have time for the hello that says, hey how you doin? Be interesting. Mention you like shopping and you'll be an instant magnet especially if you need advice for style! Yikes, I best stop there, don't want to create a monster! Lol! I think you'll do fine, just be humble and a wonderful gentleman, however great humour is so great! Have fun, wishing you many friendships and great memories by the time graduation comes along. Wow, by that time you's all will need more than one table to sit at...have a blast!
ask one grl out, and maybe it will make others jealous. you never know, there maybe lots of grlz out there who have a crush on you and would get jealous if you went out with one.
1:get a job so you have money
2: get a cool car
3: Act, like you care
4: learn to dance
5: talk like you have plans for the future with your life
listen to what girls have to say keep your eyes on her FACE and dont be mean to her when your friends that are guys are around.
1: Learn to dance (I'm not kidding)
2: Learn to flirt
3: Learn to really look at her and care about what she feels (vs. what does
it mean to you)
be their friend. yeah i know thats not what you want but if you become friends with them and show little sexual interest in them they appreciate having a guy friend who doesnt think about sex all the time. never gossip or insult others because friend #1 might be friends with jerk #1 and you dont know. then you become jerk #2. colone is also important. have a girl ';friend'; help you find one that smells good on you. our own body scent changes the smell of the colone, get help with this one. find something that people can notice about you every time the see you, like a necklace, hair style, etc. then change it or do something different that makes people notice, girls are more likely to comment on the change, just dont forget to compliment them to, after, all they like that. /%26lt;:}
Learn to flirt. That always works in high school.
Read ';Initmate Connections,'; by Dr. David Burns, and you will know.
Well, don't be shy, cause you said you have the otheer things like looks, popularity, are you smart?
Be nice to ALL the girls. (Even if they are ugly.) That is the best way to do it. Because in the end, those girls that are ugly freshman year could end up HOT sophmore year. Be in sports, too. That usually works if you are the star football player, even girls from other schools will want you.
make sure you keep your self well groomed, and shower everyday. Girls don't like guys who are sloppy or stink
make more lady friends
be charming
be polite
gentlemany...hold doors open, offer your hand, walk them to class...
have u seen john tucker must die b/c john is the prime example
anyways - make eye contact and smile a lot, start conversations with girls (they could be intimidated), flirt a lot
do things you like to do....the girls in those sports will find you
You can not be the guy that all of the girls want , because almost every girl wants something different
be yourself and flirt with girls only dont be too much of a jerk
1. Don't act like a dork
2. Wear brand names
3. Don't act stuck up
4. Learn to flirt
5. Talk to a girl like if she was the only one
6. Learn to be able to handle school, girls, friends, etc.
7. Be yourself
8. Don't be an open book
9. Learn to have sex- you need to know how to be good because girls do talk.
10. Don't be an a.ss.
11. I know that you want girls around you but I would not recommend you to because man if I was a dude I would have girls like crazy and I would not date anyone from school so they will not know how I was this. Understand what I am trying to say!beauty cosmetics
Okay well this worked for me, just be nice to everyone and when you do have a girl make sure you make them laugh, they love that. Also make sure you work out a little and have a nice body, they love that too! But more than anything just remember to be yourself and have confidence, women can sense confidence and if you have it they will be all around you. Don't try too hard because women can tell if you are trying to hard, just be yourself. Good LuckI need help n advice from guys, but a girls perspective 2?
im in da same situation get involved in extra curriculars dats wat im bout 2 do
let yourself be outgoing and funny....i like a boy thats does that
have confidence. Dont try to be someone you're not. Girls love confident guys, it helps them be secure sometimes. And be easy to talk to , smile
Go to this website:
www.sosuave.com
It has tons of info to get you hooked up with the ladies, and yes it actually works!!!!
And Remember, ALWAYS BE COCKY AND FUNNY around the ladies, and they will love your nuts!
Good Luck
no idea...i dont have that problem
You'll always be a big fish in a small sea in primary school but once in highschool your a little fish in big water. If you want to be liked join tons of groups and after school activities so that you are known by almost everyone....this will give you the opportunity to be around more girls and you will get tons of dates. But remember not every girl is going to want you....that's logical.
Are u popular because you're a jack@ss? Guys will promote your popularity for that but it just doesn't win the girls. Be nice, talk to them, hear what they say and remember it. Impress them by caring. give them compliments once in a while. Be willing to be in a relationship, don't break up unless you have a good reason... you know. Talk to all ladies, pretty and not so pretty. It will build your reputation up in no time. Girls will kill to have you.
why? I am a sophmore in High school. I am the geek. I am the girl who no one really likes but wants help with their school work. Just be who you are. It doesn't matter how you act or what you say unless its really what you would say or do. some time you will find a girl that will like you for you!
are you nice?
just be yourself...
try to be funny and original... I could always relate to guys better if they made me laugh a bit...
Be yourself and you will find someone. You shouldn't care what others want.
Have you tried AXE?
That's easy, just be the great friend that is easy to talk to. Kind of like a great big brother with the gentle female side. Always have time for the hello that says, hey how you doin? Be interesting. Mention you like shopping and you'll be an instant magnet especially if you need advice for style! Yikes, I best stop there, don't want to create a monster! Lol! I think you'll do fine, just be humble and a wonderful gentleman, however great humour is so great! Have fun, wishing you many friendships and great memories by the time graduation comes along. Wow, by that time you's all will need more than one table to sit at...have a blast!
ask one grl out, and maybe it will make others jealous. you never know, there maybe lots of grlz out there who have a crush on you and would get jealous if you went out with one.
1:get a job so you have money
2: get a cool car
3: Act, like you care
4: learn to dance
5: talk like you have plans for the future with your life
listen to what girls have to say keep your eyes on her FACE and dont be mean to her when your friends that are guys are around.
1: Learn to dance (I'm not kidding)
2: Learn to flirt
3: Learn to really look at her and care about what she feels (vs. what does
it mean to you)
be their friend. yeah i know thats not what you want but if you become friends with them and show little sexual interest in them they appreciate having a guy friend who doesnt think about sex all the time. never gossip or insult others because friend #1 might be friends with jerk #1 and you dont know. then you become jerk #2. colone is also important. have a girl ';friend'; help you find one that smells good on you. our own body scent changes the smell of the colone, get help with this one. find something that people can notice about you every time the see you, like a necklace, hair style, etc. then change it or do something different that makes people notice, girls are more likely to comment on the change, just dont forget to compliment them to, after, all they like that. /%26lt;:}
Learn to flirt. That always works in high school.
Read ';Initmate Connections,'; by Dr. David Burns, and you will know.
Well, don't be shy, cause you said you have the otheer things like looks, popularity, are you smart?
Be nice to ALL the girls. (Even if they are ugly.) That is the best way to do it. Because in the end, those girls that are ugly freshman year could end up HOT sophmore year. Be in sports, too. That usually works if you are the star football player, even girls from other schools will want you.
make sure you keep your self well groomed, and shower everyday. Girls don't like guys who are sloppy or stink
make more lady friends
be charming
be polite
gentlemany...hold doors open, offer your hand, walk them to class...
have u seen john tucker must die b/c john is the prime example
anyways - make eye contact and smile a lot, start conversations with girls (they could be intimidated), flirt a lot
do things you like to do....the girls in those sports will find you
You can not be the guy that all of the girls want , because almost every girl wants something different
be yourself and flirt with girls only dont be too much of a jerk
1. Don't act like a dork
2. Wear brand names
3. Don't act stuck up
4. Learn to flirt
5. Talk to a girl like if she was the only one
6. Learn to be able to handle school, girls, friends, etc.
7. Be yourself
8. Don't be an open book
9. Learn to have sex- you need to know how to be good because girls do talk.
10. Don't be an a.ss.
11. I know that you want girls around you but I would not recommend you to because man if I was a dude I would have girls like crazy and I would not date anyone from school so they will not know how I was this. Understand what I am trying to say!
For ladies or mature advice giving guys?
i've hit a snag in the love bin and i need to talk it over with someone not like attached or anything but just to shake me out of this funk i'm in i just need a third interactive perspective about my previous questionFor ladies or mature advice giving guys?
Since our avatars are twins, I'd be happy to help out. Feel free to email...For ladies or mature advice giving guys?
I'm still here for you sweetie.
I understand how you feel. I am about 5 years older than you are and I've never had a real bf. I have learned, especially in the last year, that life takes a lot of patience. The longer you wait, the more you will appreciate it. It will be ok, your time to find tru love will come. Good luck, take care.
Since our avatars are twins, I'd be happy to help out. Feel free to email...For ladies or mature advice giving guys?
I'm still here for you sweetie.
I understand how you feel. I am about 5 years older than you are and I've never had a real bf. I have learned, especially in the last year, that life takes a lot of patience. The longer you wait, the more you will appreciate it. It will be ok, your time to find tru love will come. Good luck, take care.
Can any of you GUYS give me some advice? thanks so much?
He said he loves me and wants to be with me but something i been doing lately is driving him alway, and he feels like hes forcing him self to love me. He said he doesnt know what it is and i dont know what it is. But i want to fix it and he said if i can then fix it because he wanys too be with me. My mom said to just give him his space and act like i dont care. I love him so much and dont want to lose him. What should I do?Can any of you GUYS give me some advice? thanks so much?
I'm confused... If he 'loves' u and u 'love' him then what's the problem? I believe true love is choosing to love someone. Check your motives, and try to get behind his. Is he really ';forcing'; himself to love you or do you guys just need a break for a while. It sounds like you feel a little smothered.Can any of you GUYS give me some advice? thanks so much?
What was the question???
I'm confused... If he 'loves' u and u 'love' him then what's the problem? I believe true love is choosing to love someone. Check your motives, and try to get behind his. Is he really ';forcing'; himself to love you or do you guys just need a break for a while. It sounds like you feel a little smothered.Can any of you GUYS give me some advice? thanks so much?
What was the question???
Hey i need some advice 2 guys keep coming 2 my house at 12am wanting me 2 come out i want them 2 go away help?
Tell them to go away, call the cops, and if that doesn't work, do what I did to some annoying guys,lol, tell them you're gay.LOLHey i need some advice 2 guys keep coming 2 my house at 12am wanting me 2 come out i want them 2 go away help?
911, Massachusetts state police So Boston, Trooper O'Sullivan, this call is recorded, What is the emergency ...
Sounds like a plan to me....Hey i need some advice 2 guys keep coming 2 my house at 12am wanting me 2 come out i want them 2 go away help?
Call 2 police 2 kick 2 guys *** and 2 tell the 2 guys not 2 come back.
First off, DO NOT open the door for them. If they keep bugging you, call the police, OR do this. . . The next time they come around, tell them you will be out shortly, BUT do not go out. Call the police, and stall them.
tell them or call the police.
Ignore them don't answer the door. Tell them to F*** Off, call the cops.
If you tell us the truth as to why they are coming around we can offer better advice.
911, Massachusetts state police So Boston, Trooper O'Sullivan, this call is recorded, What is the emergency ...
Sounds like a plan to me....Hey i need some advice 2 guys keep coming 2 my house at 12am wanting me 2 come out i want them 2 go away help?
Call 2 police 2 kick 2 guys *** and 2 tell the 2 guys not 2 come back.
First off, DO NOT open the door for them. If they keep bugging you, call the police, OR do this. . . The next time they come around, tell them you will be out shortly, BUT do not go out. Call the police, and stall them.
tell them or call the police.
Ignore them don't answer the door. Tell them to F*** Off, call the cops.
If you tell us the truth as to why they are coming around we can offer better advice.
I really need break up advice!! Girls AND Guys please answer?
I Just broke up with my bf of 8 and 1/2 months. How can i get over him but still be friends.
Guys how do you get over being dumped by a girl. He is tsill head over heels for me what can i do to make him feel better.
We both want to stay friends.
Please help me.I really need break up advice!! Girls AND Guys please answer?
Hey dancing chic,
If you broke up with him you had a good reason. Take it from someone older you really can never just stay friends.
JenI really need break up advice!! Girls AND Guys please answer?
Breaking up is subject to the Geneva Conventions which stipulate you be honest, be brief, and be gone.
You have to tell him to his face, and tell him the reason. ';I don't have feelings for you.'; is a good reason, for which you do NOT have to make apology or explain at length. You are also not to be cruel or insulting or hurtful. Wish him well, say goodbye, and leave.
It is likely that you will be friends with a gulf between you from then on. While I have carried torches for some of the ladies I have known I did not seek their company after the breakups. Indeed, I felt better with distance.
You can always continue to be friends, just apologize and make sure he apologizes as well. Tell him you don't want to stop being his friend and make sure its not awkward. Act like you were always friends, and just go with the flow. If he still has feelings for you, tell him its best if you guys are just friends.
best of luck :]
well i can tell you this much..
as much as people say ';after we break up , we'll still be friends';
it's much harder then it sounds. especially since he has feelings for you still. you guys can remain civilized, and on talking terms, but as far as friends goes, that is extremely difficult. especially right after the break up
I personally believe that friends after an 8 month relationship just won't work. If you want to be able to move on at all, you have to cut the cord. The more you talk to him, the more you are going to wish you didn't break up with him.
Let him move on in his own time.
i usually dont talk to them for a while. then end up missing the friendship part. now im friends with all my Exs.
best thing you ca do right now is give him space, not flaunt that youre dating other guys in front of him, and dont give him hope of you two getting back together anytime soon.
hun its as easy as this, if you want him to get over you and move on with both your lives,you can't be friends.there's too much history in 8 and a half months:)
Just say listen you are still a really good friend to me and i like you as a friend but i don't like you that way.
Stay as friends and then go out with somebody else so you don't think about it
Guys how do you get over being dumped by a girl. He is tsill head over heels for me what can i do to make him feel better.
We both want to stay friends.
Please help me.I really need break up advice!! Girls AND Guys please answer?
Hey dancing chic,
If you broke up with him you had a good reason. Take it from someone older you really can never just stay friends.
JenI really need break up advice!! Girls AND Guys please answer?
Breaking up is subject to the Geneva Conventions which stipulate you be honest, be brief, and be gone.
You have to tell him to his face, and tell him the reason. ';I don't have feelings for you.'; is a good reason, for which you do NOT have to make apology or explain at length. You are also not to be cruel or insulting or hurtful. Wish him well, say goodbye, and leave.
It is likely that you will be friends with a gulf between you from then on. While I have carried torches for some of the ladies I have known I did not seek their company after the breakups. Indeed, I felt better with distance.
You can always continue to be friends, just apologize and make sure he apologizes as well. Tell him you don't want to stop being his friend and make sure its not awkward. Act like you were always friends, and just go with the flow. If he still has feelings for you, tell him its best if you guys are just friends.
best of luck :]
well i can tell you this much..
as much as people say ';after we break up , we'll still be friends';
it's much harder then it sounds. especially since he has feelings for you still. you guys can remain civilized, and on talking terms, but as far as friends goes, that is extremely difficult. especially right after the break up
I personally believe that friends after an 8 month relationship just won't work. If you want to be able to move on at all, you have to cut the cord. The more you talk to him, the more you are going to wish you didn't break up with him.
Let him move on in his own time.
i usually dont talk to them for a while. then end up missing the friendship part. now im friends with all my Exs.
best thing you ca do right now is give him space, not flaunt that youre dating other guys in front of him, and dont give him hope of you two getting back together anytime soon.
hun its as easy as this, if you want him to get over you and move on with both your lives,you can't be friends.there's too much history in 8 and a half months:)
Just say listen you are still a really good friend to me and i like you as a friend but i don't like you that way.
Stay as friends and then go out with somebody else so you don't think about it
Ladies I need SERIOUS advice Please.? GUYS can you help here?
My husband can act so sweet and charming and nice...but when I apporach him with my feelings he often puts the me down or disregards them, he has cursed at me, yells when angry and has acted out in anger....I have this REALLY bad habit of constaly asking him if he loves me, if he'd rather be with someome else, and asking him if their is anything wrong (such as do you like another girl) etc...but this is because of how he treats me. He says it makes him VERY FRUSRTATED in this realtionship to be asked the same questions EVERYDAY. He says he loves me but how I I just beleive him and stop asking the questions?Ladies I need SERIOUS advice Please.? GUYS can you help here?
If u have to keep asking him the same questions over and over then u probably don't trust him and he's feeling frustrated because he ';thinks'; u should know it by now.
As far as his anger is concerned, it sounds like he has anger management issues and probably needs to take anger management classes.Ladies I need SERIOUS advice Please.? GUYS can you help here?
You have a self esteem issues and he has anger management problems. Ain't nothing gonna work unless you both deal with this and make some changes. Start by working on yourself....go get some counseling. Spend some time away from him...go away with some girlfriends....get some power and control over yourself.
What Kenneth said -- Prozac. Then you won't give a sh*t whether or not he loves you.
BTW, my husband is the same way -- treats me like he hates me, then can't understand why I doubt his love. (???)
first of all you need to realize that even though you think you're worried about how he feels, its really you that is having the hard time loving you! It's your own doubts and insecurity.....get happy and healthy with YOU and be secure in who YOU are. He can tell you yes everyday and you still wouldn't beleive it!!! The fact is, even if you had the most secure marriage in the world, there's still no guarantee it won't change. He could profess undying love and leave your *** the next week.....you need to still be ok with YOU and know you will be ok with or without him.
LOVE YOURSELF - and get the ';Self-Esteem Workbook';!!!! STOP asking him you're driving him away! He's probably got such a short fuse cause you nag him about silly things that he just explodes on you even in minor issues. Guys build resentment too. Lay off, don't whine, stop being needy and clingy - I guarantee when you go to him with a ';REAL'; issue he'll be a different guy. GOOD LUCK
You have a very complicated relationship. He seems verbally abusive...but you seem like you have some serious self esteem issues. I don't know what kind of advice anyone in here can give you. I'd say you need counseling. Him too. Good luck.
I think you both should go to a doctor and get some medication to help your moods, Also ask the doctor for advice, Or what you should do.
OK, this is easy. First, you are insecure about your relationship either because you are an insecure person or because your husband is not behaving in a loving way and giving you a reason to feel loved by him. A man shouldn't have to say ';I love'; you for his wife to know that: his actions will show the love - he will be respectful, romantic (this means listening to his wife when she comes home from work for about 15-minutes - giving his undivided attention) and he will support her, regardless how stupid her ideas may be! That is how a man shows his love for his wife. He should never yell at her or treat her in any disrespectful manner. By the same token, a woman should never nag her husband by asking the same question each and every day - over and over again. News flash!!!!!! If he didn't answer you the first time, assuming he is not hard of hearing, then he is not going to answer you the next twenty times either. Nagging is enough to drive any man or woman crazy.
Leave him alone and stop looking for reassurances. When he raises his voice or treats you disrespectgully, calmly explain to him that you are not going to tolerate that behavior anymore and then walk away from him.
Question: do you love and like yourself? If you do, then love your husband and give him some ';air'; so that he can love you back.
First, I'd stop asking. Remember, actions speak louder than words. If he treats you as though he loves you - he loves you. If he treats you like garbage - he feels you are garbage.
Second, he should never - ever put you down or curse at you. This is unacceptable and you need to tell him this rather than asking him if he loves you.
Third, sounds like you have a low self-esteem. I'd recommend you talk with a counselor or therapist. They will help you get your self-esteem back.
Listen! Before you can do anything with your marriage you need to get yourself in order. Please know that you are worth it, you do deserve to have your feelings and thoughts heard, and your not wrong for having the feelings that your having. You deserve to be respected by your husband, and everyone around you for that matter. Go talk to a professional, seriously...see what you can do about helping to re-discover who you are.....My guess is, that right now your not sure who you are... and the person you see yourself to be is not a good one. No one can change your perception , but there are people who can help guide you to a place where you can gain back some of the power in your life and your marriage. I've been here trust me,do it, go talk to
some one....I'll be praying for you.. :)
prozac
I too vote for marriage counseling, but additionally you need individual counseling for your lack of self esteem. The message you are sending to your husband is you doubt his word, and day after day of you doing this is driving a wedge between you and him.
You have to have serious issues with trust as well. The only way to keep your marriage is to get some serious help and get it fast.
First of all, let me say that although I'm a woman, I'd get sick and tired of someone asking me if I cared about them. I'd think that they were some snivelling insecure neurotic with no self esteem and I'd start to question what I ever saw in them in the first place. You need to get into counseling and stop engaging in negative behaviors.
Second of all, if he acts out in anger, belittles you, curses you and yells, then he's got anger management problems.
Most domestic violence shelters offer free and low cost counseling even if he never hit you but just intimidates you or he's acted inappropriatedly while angry.
GET COUNSELING! And quit asking the same questions every day.
to me you both sound too young to be getting this serious. The do you love me questions come from your lack of experience and confidence in yourself. His anger is from stress and frustration he may not be mentally ready for a long commitment you are not either. I'm betting your both under 28. It's a part of growing up you can work on it together it's HARD to build a marriage it don't just happen. It takes great effort and personal growth. Maybe get some therapy together if you have not already DO NOT ADD KIDS! You toss a kid in this situation every ones stress and unhappiness's increases you ruin another life besides your own.
I think you need to go to marriage counseling to work through the issues both of you have. He should not be treating you this way! Not for any reason!
you might want to consider counseling for yourself for your self esteem. i used to have the same problem. i would think...why does my man want to be with me, when he can be with anyone else? well...the point is, if he wanted to be with someone else, then he'd be with someone else. so take it for what it is...he's with you, the two of you are married now, and if you keep nagging him the way you are, your relationship can't last. all relationships are based on trust and honesty...but obviousely you are not trusting him to be honest when he tells you that there's nobody else and that he loves you.
you need to go and raise YOUR self-esteem. think higher of yourself...for me now, i think...yup, i got my husband on lock...because no other woman can give it to him the way i can...and it's true. for him, there's noone else but me for him and vice versa. we love eachother UNCONDITIONALLY. ( i'm about 25 pounds bigger than what i used to be after the children) but hey....he thinks i'm fabulous and he just cant get enough of me...and i've stopped harrassing him about...are you sure you love me? are you sure i'm the one you want to be with? they'll start to doubt how WE fell about them.
Get some serious counseling. You may also get a copy of the book by Gary Chapman entitled'; The Five Love Languages'; and read it together. You both may need to figure out, which love you both need and want. As Dr. Chapman advises, your ';love tanks'; may be empty of one or more of the languages, and not necessarily the sexual intercourse love language. It's easy reading, and I should have read the men's version twenty-years ago!
A lot of us guys just don't like to show emotion, and when you ask us if they love you sometimes we get irritated because, in our mind, we don't have to tell you that we love you all the time for it to be true; if we tell you once, it's usually still true every other time you ask us. The reason that it seems like some of us are always angry is that ange, frustration, etfc. are the only emotions some of us feel comfortable showing strongly and becasue of that, it stands out the most, even though we do feel other emotions. Also, as you admit, a bad habit to repeatedly ask us because (at least when we're telling the truth) it makes it seem like you want to hear what you want to hear what you believe instead of the truth. Trust is something that has to be earned and if he genuinely hasn't earned your trust yet then that's something the two of you need to sit down together and work out between yourselves because most likely noone else is going to be able to help you with that. That's all the advice I can think of to give you. I hope it helps.
from a guys view, there is nothing wrong with asking if he loves u or the reasons why. he should know that u love him and if he asked u the same u would give him an answer.. i asked my lady one day why she loved me instead of giving me an answer she bit my head off and it hurt
You are human and need reassurance that you are loved and needed. You are not being unreasonable, just human. I don't know you but I love you.
If u have to keep asking him the same questions over and over then u probably don't trust him and he's feeling frustrated because he ';thinks'; u should know it by now.
As far as his anger is concerned, it sounds like he has anger management issues and probably needs to take anger management classes.Ladies I need SERIOUS advice Please.? GUYS can you help here?
You have a self esteem issues and he has anger management problems. Ain't nothing gonna work unless you both deal with this and make some changes. Start by working on yourself....go get some counseling. Spend some time away from him...go away with some girlfriends....get some power and control over yourself.
What Kenneth said -- Prozac. Then you won't give a sh*t whether or not he loves you.
BTW, my husband is the same way -- treats me like he hates me, then can't understand why I doubt his love. (???)
first of all you need to realize that even though you think you're worried about how he feels, its really you that is having the hard time loving you! It's your own doubts and insecurity.....get happy and healthy with YOU and be secure in who YOU are. He can tell you yes everyday and you still wouldn't beleive it!!! The fact is, even if you had the most secure marriage in the world, there's still no guarantee it won't change. He could profess undying love and leave your *** the next week.....you need to still be ok with YOU and know you will be ok with or without him.
LOVE YOURSELF - and get the ';Self-Esteem Workbook';!!!! STOP asking him you're driving him away! He's probably got such a short fuse cause you nag him about silly things that he just explodes on you even in minor issues. Guys build resentment too. Lay off, don't whine, stop being needy and clingy - I guarantee when you go to him with a ';REAL'; issue he'll be a different guy. GOOD LUCK
You have a very complicated relationship. He seems verbally abusive...but you seem like you have some serious self esteem issues. I don't know what kind of advice anyone in here can give you. I'd say you need counseling. Him too. Good luck.
I think you both should go to a doctor and get some medication to help your moods, Also ask the doctor for advice, Or what you should do.
OK, this is easy. First, you are insecure about your relationship either because you are an insecure person or because your husband is not behaving in a loving way and giving you a reason to feel loved by him. A man shouldn't have to say ';I love'; you for his wife to know that: his actions will show the love - he will be respectful, romantic (this means listening to his wife when she comes home from work for about 15-minutes - giving his undivided attention) and he will support her, regardless how stupid her ideas may be! That is how a man shows his love for his wife. He should never yell at her or treat her in any disrespectful manner. By the same token, a woman should never nag her husband by asking the same question each and every day - over and over again. News flash!!!!!! If he didn't answer you the first time, assuming he is not hard of hearing, then he is not going to answer you the next twenty times either. Nagging is enough to drive any man or woman crazy.
Leave him alone and stop looking for reassurances. When he raises his voice or treats you disrespectgully, calmly explain to him that you are not going to tolerate that behavior anymore and then walk away from him.
Question: do you love and like yourself? If you do, then love your husband and give him some ';air'; so that he can love you back.
First, I'd stop asking. Remember, actions speak louder than words. If he treats you as though he loves you - he loves you. If he treats you like garbage - he feels you are garbage.
Second, he should never - ever put you down or curse at you. This is unacceptable and you need to tell him this rather than asking him if he loves you.
Third, sounds like you have a low self-esteem. I'd recommend you talk with a counselor or therapist. They will help you get your self-esteem back.
Listen! Before you can do anything with your marriage you need to get yourself in order. Please know that you are worth it, you do deserve to have your feelings and thoughts heard, and your not wrong for having the feelings that your having. You deserve to be respected by your husband, and everyone around you for that matter. Go talk to a professional, seriously...see what you can do about helping to re-discover who you are.....My guess is, that right now your not sure who you are... and the person you see yourself to be is not a good one. No one can change your perception , but there are people who can help guide you to a place where you can gain back some of the power in your life and your marriage. I've been here trust me,do it, go talk to
some one....I'll be praying for you.. :)
prozac
I too vote for marriage counseling, but additionally you need individual counseling for your lack of self esteem. The message you are sending to your husband is you doubt his word, and day after day of you doing this is driving a wedge between you and him.
You have to have serious issues with trust as well. The only way to keep your marriage is to get some serious help and get it fast.
First of all, let me say that although I'm a woman, I'd get sick and tired of someone asking me if I cared about them. I'd think that they were some snivelling insecure neurotic with no self esteem and I'd start to question what I ever saw in them in the first place. You need to get into counseling and stop engaging in negative behaviors.
Second of all, if he acts out in anger, belittles you, curses you and yells, then he's got anger management problems.
Most domestic violence shelters offer free and low cost counseling even if he never hit you but just intimidates you or he's acted inappropriatedly while angry.
GET COUNSELING! And quit asking the same questions every day.
to me you both sound too young to be getting this serious. The do you love me questions come from your lack of experience and confidence in yourself. His anger is from stress and frustration he may not be mentally ready for a long commitment you are not either. I'm betting your both under 28. It's a part of growing up you can work on it together it's HARD to build a marriage it don't just happen. It takes great effort and personal growth. Maybe get some therapy together if you have not already DO NOT ADD KIDS! You toss a kid in this situation every ones stress and unhappiness's increases you ruin another life besides your own.
I think you need to go to marriage counseling to work through the issues both of you have. He should not be treating you this way! Not for any reason!
you might want to consider counseling for yourself for your self esteem. i used to have the same problem. i would think...why does my man want to be with me, when he can be with anyone else? well...the point is, if he wanted to be with someone else, then he'd be with someone else. so take it for what it is...he's with you, the two of you are married now, and if you keep nagging him the way you are, your relationship can't last. all relationships are based on trust and honesty...but obviousely you are not trusting him to be honest when he tells you that there's nobody else and that he loves you.
you need to go and raise YOUR self-esteem. think higher of yourself...for me now, i think...yup, i got my husband on lock...because no other woman can give it to him the way i can...and it's true. for him, there's noone else but me for him and vice versa. we love eachother UNCONDITIONALLY. ( i'm about 25 pounds bigger than what i used to be after the children) but hey....he thinks i'm fabulous and he just cant get enough of me...and i've stopped harrassing him about...are you sure you love me? are you sure i'm the one you want to be with? they'll start to doubt how WE fell about them.
Get some serious counseling. You may also get a copy of the book by Gary Chapman entitled'; The Five Love Languages'; and read it together. You both may need to figure out, which love you both need and want. As Dr. Chapman advises, your ';love tanks'; may be empty of one or more of the languages, and not necessarily the sexual intercourse love language. It's easy reading, and I should have read the men's version twenty-years ago!
A lot of us guys just don't like to show emotion, and when you ask us if they love you sometimes we get irritated because, in our mind, we don't have to tell you that we love you all the time for it to be true; if we tell you once, it's usually still true every other time you ask us. The reason that it seems like some of us are always angry is that ange, frustration, etfc. are the only emotions some of us feel comfortable showing strongly and becasue of that, it stands out the most, even though we do feel other emotions. Also, as you admit, a bad habit to repeatedly ask us because (at least when we're telling the truth) it makes it seem like you want to hear what you want to hear what you believe instead of the truth. Trust is something that has to be earned and if he genuinely hasn't earned your trust yet then that's something the two of you need to sit down together and work out between yourselves because most likely noone else is going to be able to help you with that. That's all the advice I can think of to give you. I hope it helps.
from a guys view, there is nothing wrong with asking if he loves u or the reasons why. he should know that u love him and if he asked u the same u would give him an answer.. i asked my lady one day why she loved me instead of giving me an answer she bit my head off and it hurt
You are human and need reassurance that you are loved and needed. You are not being unreasonable, just human. I don't know you but I love you.
I need advice on guys?
I hung out with the guy a few days ago and he flirted w/ me a lot and now i hardly see him or talk to him. when we do talk i always start the conversation (esp. on messengers) and i don't know if he just does not like me or what the deal is. He said all he did this weekend was hang out w/ friends and i told him that if he wanted to hang out afterwards to call me but he never did and then we would talk on messenger later that night. I'm just confused what should i do or what should i be thinking?I need advice on guys?
he cud be playing hard to get.. and its obviously working cause your thinking about him....... just relax, leave him come to you.I need advice on guys?
Is he shy? Does he always act like that around other people? Maybe that is the reason that he is like that with you...
But after being with you that day he might not find you attractive to him, more so annoying...Why don't you just keep cool and don't contact with him couple days and than see if he will get in touch with you first, if he does, than there is something going on, if not, well, than you can move on...
leave him alone. if he was really interested he would of called.
it sounds to me like he just was playing you. he just wanted to flirt that one time and thats it. ignor him... it sounds like the best for now. dont take this ';relationship'; farther than it should go.beauty cosmetics
he cud be playing hard to get.. and its obviously working cause your thinking about him....... just relax, leave him come to you.I need advice on guys?
Is he shy? Does he always act like that around other people? Maybe that is the reason that he is like that with you...
But after being with you that day he might not find you attractive to him, more so annoying...Why don't you just keep cool and don't contact with him couple days and than see if he will get in touch with you first, if he does, than there is something going on, if not, well, than you can move on...
leave him alone. if he was really interested he would of called.
it sounds to me like he just was playing you. he just wanted to flirt that one time and thats it. ignor him... it sounds like the best for now. dont take this ';relationship'; farther than it should go.
I need advice from guys?
I REALLY like this boy in my class but I don't know if he likes me. He always makes me laugh, got me as a friend on myspace, chose my jersey to wear for PE even when he could have chosen one of his friends, and today, he kept leaning sort of near me when we were looking for books to read. I need to know if there's a chance he might like me. Please give me some advice. Thanks! %26lt;3I need advice from guys?
Just be straight forward as possible. I know it's hard, but it's probably the most relieving feeling. Just ask him out to a movie and a dinner and see what happens. There seems to be a chance that he likes you. When he looks at you, see if his eyes are dilated, which means the pupils (the black part of the eyes become larger) this is usually an uncontrollable sign of attraction. Everyone's eyes dilate more at night, so see if his does it during the day. But, like I said, it's always easier to be straight forward by asking him out. That way, you learn to overcome rejection and have a chance to let a relationship grow.
BESTI need advice from guys?
I can't say very well, because i don't have a degree in this, and i don't know either you or your friend, but i'd say go for it. It sounds like he may like you.
When you have a great opportunity like selecting books, strike up a conversation and keep it going. You seem to have similar interests, use them to talk about and maybe to question him about.
there is a chance
yeah it seems that way huh
He seems to be interested with you.. Try asking him if you are interested in making relationship with him..
I gave my jersey to the girl i liked a year before we ended up getting together, it was for the powderpuff game (That's a girl vs girl football game incase you don't know.) I had a GF at the time. she threw a fit. long story short i married her. all good from there. (She still has the Jersey and i wouldn't ask for it back for anything.)
Just be straight forward as possible. I know it's hard, but it's probably the most relieving feeling. Just ask him out to a movie and a dinner and see what happens. There seems to be a chance that he likes you. When he looks at you, see if his eyes are dilated, which means the pupils (the black part of the eyes become larger) this is usually an uncontrollable sign of attraction. Everyone's eyes dilate more at night, so see if his does it during the day. But, like I said, it's always easier to be straight forward by asking him out. That way, you learn to overcome rejection and have a chance to let a relationship grow.
BESTI need advice from guys?
I can't say very well, because i don't have a degree in this, and i don't know either you or your friend, but i'd say go for it. It sounds like he may like you.
When you have a great opportunity like selecting books, strike up a conversation and keep it going. You seem to have similar interests, use them to talk about and maybe to question him about.
there is a chance
yeah it seems that way huh
He seems to be interested with you.. Try asking him if you are interested in making relationship with him..
I gave my jersey to the girl i liked a year before we ended up getting together, it was for the powderpuff game (That's a girl vs girl football game incase you don't know.) I had a GF at the time. she threw a fit. long story short i married her. all good from there. (She still has the Jersey and i wouldn't ask for it back for anything.)
For ladies or mature advice giving guys?
i've hit a snag in the love bin and i need to talk it over with someone not like attached or anything but just to shake me out of this funk i'm in i just need a third interactive perspective about my previous questionFor ladies or mature advice giving guys?
Since our avatars are twins, I'd be happy to help out. Feel free to email...For ladies or mature advice giving guys?
I'm still here for you sweetie.
I understand how you feel. I am about 5 years older than you are and I've never had a real bf. I have learned, especially in the last year, that life takes a lot of patience. The longer you wait, the more you will appreciate it. It will be ok, your time to find tru love will come. Good luck, take care.
Since our avatars are twins, I'd be happy to help out. Feel free to email...For ladies or mature advice giving guys?
I'm still here for you sweetie.
I understand how you feel. I am about 5 years older than you are and I've never had a real bf. I have learned, especially in the last year, that life takes a lot of patience. The longer you wait, the more you will appreciate it. It will be ok, your time to find tru love will come. Good luck, take care.
Can any of you GUYS give me some advice? thanks so much?
He said he loves me and wants to be with me but something i been doing lately is driving him alway, and he feels like hes forcing him self to love me. He said he doesnt know what it is and i dont know what it is. But i want to fix it and he said if i can then fix it because he wanys too be with me. My mom said to just give him his space and act like i dont care. I love him so much and dont want to lose him. What should I do?Can any of you GUYS give me some advice? thanks so much?
I'm confused... If he 'loves' u and u 'love' him then what's the problem? I believe true love is choosing to love someone. Check your motives, and try to get behind his. Is he really ';forcing'; himself to love you or do you guys just need a break for a while. It sounds like you feel a little smothered.Can any of you GUYS give me some advice? thanks so much?
What was the question???
I'm confused... If he 'loves' u and u 'love' him then what's the problem? I believe true love is choosing to love someone. Check your motives, and try to get behind his. Is he really ';forcing'; himself to love you or do you guys just need a break for a while. It sounds like you feel a little smothered.Can any of you GUYS give me some advice? thanks so much?
What was the question???
Hey i need some advice 2 guys keep coming 2 my house at 12am wanting me 2 come out i want them 2 go away help?
Tell them to go away, call the cops, and if that doesn't work, do what I did to some annoying guys,lol, tell them you're gay.LOLHey i need some advice 2 guys keep coming 2 my house at 12am wanting me 2 come out i want them 2 go away help?
911, Massachusetts state police So Boston, Trooper O'Sullivan, this call is recorded, What is the emergency ...
Sounds like a plan to me....Hey i need some advice 2 guys keep coming 2 my house at 12am wanting me 2 come out i want them 2 go away help?
Call 2 police 2 kick 2 guys *** and 2 tell the 2 guys not 2 come back.
First off, DO NOT open the door for them. If they keep bugging you, call the police, OR do this. . . The next time they come around, tell them you will be out shortly, BUT do not go out. Call the police, and stall them.
tell them or call the police.
Ignore them don't answer the door. Tell them to F*** Off, call the cops.
If you tell us the truth as to why they are coming around we can offer better advice.
911, Massachusetts state police So Boston, Trooper O'Sullivan, this call is recorded, What is the emergency ...
Sounds like a plan to me....Hey i need some advice 2 guys keep coming 2 my house at 12am wanting me 2 come out i want them 2 go away help?
Call 2 police 2 kick 2 guys *** and 2 tell the 2 guys not 2 come back.
First off, DO NOT open the door for them. If they keep bugging you, call the police, OR do this. . . The next time they come around, tell them you will be out shortly, BUT do not go out. Call the police, and stall them.
tell them or call the police.
Ignore them don't answer the door. Tell them to F*** Off, call the cops.
If you tell us the truth as to why they are coming around we can offer better advice.
I really need break up advice!! Girls AND Guys please answer?
I Just broke up with my bf of 8 and 1/2 months. How can i get over him but still be friends.
Guys how do you get over being dumped by a girl. He is tsill head over heels for me what can i do to make him feel better.
We both want to stay friends.
Please help me.I really need break up advice!! Girls AND Guys please answer?
Hey dancing chic,
If you broke up with him you had a good reason. Take it from someone older you really can never just stay friends.
JenI really need break up advice!! Girls AND Guys please answer?
Breaking up is subject to the Geneva Conventions which stipulate you be honest, be brief, and be gone.
You have to tell him to his face, and tell him the reason. ';I don't have feelings for you.'; is a good reason, for which you do NOT have to make apology or explain at length. You are also not to be cruel or insulting or hurtful. Wish him well, say goodbye, and leave.
It is likely that you will be friends with a gulf between you from then on. While I have carried torches for some of the ladies I have known I did not seek their company after the breakups. Indeed, I felt better with distance.
You can always continue to be friends, just apologize and make sure he apologizes as well. Tell him you don't want to stop being his friend and make sure its not awkward. Act like you were always friends, and just go with the flow. If he still has feelings for you, tell him its best if you guys are just friends.
best of luck :]
well i can tell you this much..
as much as people say ';after we break up , we'll still be friends';
it's much harder then it sounds. especially since he has feelings for you still. you guys can remain civilized, and on talking terms, but as far as friends goes, that is extremely difficult. especially right after the break up
I personally believe that friends after an 8 month relationship just won't work. If you want to be able to move on at all, you have to cut the cord. The more you talk to him, the more you are going to wish you didn't break up with him.
Let him move on in his own time.
i usually dont talk to them for a while. then end up missing the friendship part. now im friends with all my Exs.
best thing you ca do right now is give him space, not flaunt that youre dating other guys in front of him, and dont give him hope of you two getting back together anytime soon.
hun its as easy as this, if you want him to get over you and move on with both your lives,you can't be friends.there's too much history in 8 and a half months:)
Just say listen you are still a really good friend to me and i like you as a friend but i don't like you that way.
Stay as friends and then go out with somebody else so you don't think about it
Guys how do you get over being dumped by a girl. He is tsill head over heels for me what can i do to make him feel better.
We both want to stay friends.
Please help me.I really need break up advice!! Girls AND Guys please answer?
Hey dancing chic,
If you broke up with him you had a good reason. Take it from someone older you really can never just stay friends.
JenI really need break up advice!! Girls AND Guys please answer?
Breaking up is subject to the Geneva Conventions which stipulate you be honest, be brief, and be gone.
You have to tell him to his face, and tell him the reason. ';I don't have feelings for you.'; is a good reason, for which you do NOT have to make apology or explain at length. You are also not to be cruel or insulting or hurtful. Wish him well, say goodbye, and leave.
It is likely that you will be friends with a gulf between you from then on. While I have carried torches for some of the ladies I have known I did not seek their company after the breakups. Indeed, I felt better with distance.
You can always continue to be friends, just apologize and make sure he apologizes as well. Tell him you don't want to stop being his friend and make sure its not awkward. Act like you were always friends, and just go with the flow. If he still has feelings for you, tell him its best if you guys are just friends.
best of luck :]
well i can tell you this much..
as much as people say ';after we break up , we'll still be friends';
it's much harder then it sounds. especially since he has feelings for you still. you guys can remain civilized, and on talking terms, but as far as friends goes, that is extremely difficult. especially right after the break up
I personally believe that friends after an 8 month relationship just won't work. If you want to be able to move on at all, you have to cut the cord. The more you talk to him, the more you are going to wish you didn't break up with him.
Let him move on in his own time.
i usually dont talk to them for a while. then end up missing the friendship part. now im friends with all my Exs.
best thing you ca do right now is give him space, not flaunt that youre dating other guys in front of him, and dont give him hope of you two getting back together anytime soon.
hun its as easy as this, if you want him to get over you and move on with both your lives,you can't be friends.there's too much history in 8 and a half months:)
Just say listen you are still a really good friend to me and i like you as a friend but i don't like you that way.
Stay as friends and then go out with somebody else so you don't think about it
Ladies I need SERIOUS advice Please.? GUYS can you help here?
My husband can act so sweet and charming and nice...but when I apporach him with my feelings he often puts the me down or disregards them, he has cursed at me, yells when angry and has acted out in anger....I have this REALLY bad habit of constaly asking him if he loves me, if he'd rather be with someome else, and asking him if their is anything wrong (such as do you like another girl) etc...but this is because of how he treats me. He says it makes him VERY FRUSRTATED in this realtionship to be asked the same questions EVERYDAY. He says he loves me but how I I just beleive him and stop asking the questions?Ladies I need SERIOUS advice Please.? GUYS can you help here?
If u have to keep asking him the same questions over and over then u probably don't trust him and he's feeling frustrated because he ';thinks'; u should know it by now.
As far as his anger is concerned, it sounds like he has anger management issues and probably needs to take anger management classes.Ladies I need SERIOUS advice Please.? GUYS can you help here?
You have a self esteem issues and he has anger management problems. Ain't nothing gonna work unless you both deal with this and make some changes. Start by working on yourself....go get some counseling. Spend some time away from him...go away with some girlfriends....get some power and control over yourself.
What Kenneth said -- Prozac. Then you won't give a sh*t whether or not he loves you.
BTW, my husband is the same way -- treats me like he hates me, then can't understand why I doubt his love. (???)
first of all you need to realize that even though you think you're worried about how he feels, its really you that is having the hard time loving you! It's your own doubts and insecurity.....get happy and healthy with YOU and be secure in who YOU are. He can tell you yes everyday and you still wouldn't beleive it!!! The fact is, even if you had the most secure marriage in the world, there's still no guarantee it won't change. He could profess undying love and leave your *** the next week.....you need to still be ok with YOU and know you will be ok with or without him.
LOVE YOURSELF - and get the ';Self-Esteem Workbook';!!!! STOP asking him you're driving him away! He's probably got such a short fuse cause you nag him about silly things that he just explodes on you even in minor issues. Guys build resentment too. Lay off, don't whine, stop being needy and clingy - I guarantee when you go to him with a ';REAL'; issue he'll be a different guy. GOOD LUCK
You have a very complicated relationship. He seems verbally abusive...but you seem like you have some serious self esteem issues. I don't know what kind of advice anyone in here can give you. I'd say you need counseling. Him too. Good luck.
I think you both should go to a doctor and get some medication to help your moods, Also ask the doctor for advice, Or what you should do.
OK, this is easy. First, you are insecure about your relationship either because you are an insecure person or because your husband is not behaving in a loving way and giving you a reason to feel loved by him. A man shouldn't have to say ';I love'; you for his wife to know that: his actions will show the love - he will be respectful, romantic (this means listening to his wife when she comes home from work for about 15-minutes - giving his undivided attention) and he will support her, regardless how stupid her ideas may be! That is how a man shows his love for his wife. He should never yell at her or treat her in any disrespectful manner. By the same token, a woman should never nag her husband by asking the same question each and every day - over and over again. News flash!!!!!! If he didn't answer you the first time, assuming he is not hard of hearing, then he is not going to answer you the next twenty times either. Nagging is enough to drive any man or woman crazy.
Leave him alone and stop looking for reassurances. When he raises his voice or treats you disrespectgully, calmly explain to him that you are not going to tolerate that behavior anymore and then walk away from him.
Question: do you love and like yourself? If you do, then love your husband and give him some ';air'; so that he can love you back.
First, I'd stop asking. Remember, actions speak louder than words. If he treats you as though he loves you - he loves you. If he treats you like garbage - he feels you are garbage.
Second, he should never - ever put you down or curse at you. This is unacceptable and you need to tell him this rather than asking him if he loves you.
Third, sounds like you have a low self-esteem. I'd recommend you talk with a counselor or therapist. They will help you get your self-esteem back.
Listen! Before you can do anything with your marriage you need to get yourself in order. Please know that you are worth it, you do deserve to have your feelings and thoughts heard, and your not wrong for having the feelings that your having. You deserve to be respected by your husband, and everyone around you for that matter. Go talk to a professional, seriously...see what you can do about helping to re-discover who you are.....My guess is, that right now your not sure who you are... and the person you see yourself to be is not a good one. No one can change your perception , but there are people who can help guide you to a place where you can gain back some of the power in your life and your marriage. I've been here trust me,do it, go talk to
some one....I'll be praying for you.. :)
prozac
I too vote for marriage counseling, but additionally you need individual counseling for your lack of self esteem. The message you are sending to your husband is you doubt his word, and day after day of you doing this is driving a wedge between you and him.
You have to have serious issues with trust as well. The only way to keep your marriage is to get some serious help and get it fast.
First of all, let me say that although I'm a woman, I'd get sick and tired of someone asking me if I cared about them. I'd think that they were some snivelling insecure neurotic with no self esteem and I'd start to question what I ever saw in them in the first place. You need to get into counseling and stop engaging in negative behaviors.
Second of all, if he acts out in anger, belittles you, curses you and yells, then he's got anger management problems.
Most domestic violence shelters offer free and low cost counseling even if he never hit you but just intimidates you or he's acted inappropriatedly while angry.
GET COUNSELING! And quit asking the same questions every day.
to me you both sound too young to be getting this serious. The do you love me questions come from your lack of experience and confidence in yourself. His anger is from stress and frustration he may not be mentally ready for a long commitment you are not either. I'm betting your both under 28. It's a part of growing up you can work on it together it's HARD to build a marriage it don't just happen. It takes great effort and personal growth. Maybe get some therapy together if you have not already DO NOT ADD KIDS! You toss a kid in this situation every ones stress and unhappiness's increases you ruin another life besides your own.
I think you need to go to marriage counseling to work through the issues both of you have. He should not be treating you this way! Not for any reason!
you might want to consider counseling for yourself for your self esteem. i used to have the same problem. i would think...why does my man want to be with me, when he can be with anyone else? well...the point is, if he wanted to be with someone else, then he'd be with someone else. so take it for what it is...he's with you, the two of you are married now, and if you keep nagging him the way you are, your relationship can't last. all relationships are based on trust and honesty...but obviousely you are not trusting him to be honest when he tells you that there's nobody else and that he loves you.
you need to go and raise YOUR self-esteem. think higher of yourself...for me now, i think...yup, i got my husband on lock...because no other woman can give it to him the way i can...and it's true. for him, there's noone else but me for him and vice versa. we love eachother UNCONDITIONALLY. ( i'm about 25 pounds bigger than what i used to be after the children) but hey....he thinks i'm fabulous and he just cant get enough of me...and i've stopped harrassing him about...are you sure you love me? are you sure i'm the one you want to be with? they'll start to doubt how WE fell about them.
Get some serious counseling. You may also get a copy of the book by Gary Chapman entitled'; The Five Love Languages'; and read it together. You both may need to figure out, which love you both need and want. As Dr. Chapman advises, your ';love tanks'; may be empty of one or more of the languages, and not necessarily the sexual intercourse love language. It's easy reading, and I should have read the men's version twenty-years ago!
A lot of us guys just don't like to show emotion, and when you ask us if they love you sometimes we get irritated because, in our mind, we don't have to tell you that we love you all the time for it to be true; if we tell you once, it's usually still true every other time you ask us. The reason that it seems like some of us are always angry is that ange, frustration, etfc. are the only emotions some of us feel comfortable showing strongly and becasue of that, it stands out the most, even though we do feel other emotions. Also, as you admit, a bad habit to repeatedly ask us because (at least when we're telling the truth) it makes it seem like you want to hear what you want to hear what you believe instead of the truth. Trust is something that has to be earned and if he genuinely hasn't earned your trust yet then that's something the two of you need to sit down together and work out between yourselves because most likely noone else is going to be able to help you with that. That's all the advice I can think of to give you. I hope it helps.
from a guys view, there is nothing wrong with asking if he loves u or the reasons why. he should know that u love him and if he asked u the same u would give him an answer.. i asked my lady one day why she loved me instead of giving me an answer she bit my head off and it hurt
You are human and need reassurance that you are loved and needed. You are not being unreasonable, just human. I don't know you but I love you.beauty cosmetics
If u have to keep asking him the same questions over and over then u probably don't trust him and he's feeling frustrated because he ';thinks'; u should know it by now.
As far as his anger is concerned, it sounds like he has anger management issues and probably needs to take anger management classes.Ladies I need SERIOUS advice Please.? GUYS can you help here?
You have a self esteem issues and he has anger management problems. Ain't nothing gonna work unless you both deal with this and make some changes. Start by working on yourself....go get some counseling. Spend some time away from him...go away with some girlfriends....get some power and control over yourself.
What Kenneth said -- Prozac. Then you won't give a sh*t whether or not he loves you.
BTW, my husband is the same way -- treats me like he hates me, then can't understand why I doubt his love. (???)
first of all you need to realize that even though you think you're worried about how he feels, its really you that is having the hard time loving you! It's your own doubts and insecurity.....get happy and healthy with YOU and be secure in who YOU are. He can tell you yes everyday and you still wouldn't beleive it!!! The fact is, even if you had the most secure marriage in the world, there's still no guarantee it won't change. He could profess undying love and leave your *** the next week.....you need to still be ok with YOU and know you will be ok with or without him.
LOVE YOURSELF - and get the ';Self-Esteem Workbook';!!!! STOP asking him you're driving him away! He's probably got such a short fuse cause you nag him about silly things that he just explodes on you even in minor issues. Guys build resentment too. Lay off, don't whine, stop being needy and clingy - I guarantee when you go to him with a ';REAL'; issue he'll be a different guy. GOOD LUCK
You have a very complicated relationship. He seems verbally abusive...but you seem like you have some serious self esteem issues. I don't know what kind of advice anyone in here can give you. I'd say you need counseling. Him too. Good luck.
I think you both should go to a doctor and get some medication to help your moods, Also ask the doctor for advice, Or what you should do.
OK, this is easy. First, you are insecure about your relationship either because you are an insecure person or because your husband is not behaving in a loving way and giving you a reason to feel loved by him. A man shouldn't have to say ';I love'; you for his wife to know that: his actions will show the love - he will be respectful, romantic (this means listening to his wife when she comes home from work for about 15-minutes - giving his undivided attention) and he will support her, regardless how stupid her ideas may be! That is how a man shows his love for his wife. He should never yell at her or treat her in any disrespectful manner. By the same token, a woman should never nag her husband by asking the same question each and every day - over and over again. News flash!!!!!! If he didn't answer you the first time, assuming he is not hard of hearing, then he is not going to answer you the next twenty times either. Nagging is enough to drive any man or woman crazy.
Leave him alone and stop looking for reassurances. When he raises his voice or treats you disrespectgully, calmly explain to him that you are not going to tolerate that behavior anymore and then walk away from him.
Question: do you love and like yourself? If you do, then love your husband and give him some ';air'; so that he can love you back.
First, I'd stop asking. Remember, actions speak louder than words. If he treats you as though he loves you - he loves you. If he treats you like garbage - he feels you are garbage.
Second, he should never - ever put you down or curse at you. This is unacceptable and you need to tell him this rather than asking him if he loves you.
Third, sounds like you have a low self-esteem. I'd recommend you talk with a counselor or therapist. They will help you get your self-esteem back.
Listen! Before you can do anything with your marriage you need to get yourself in order. Please know that you are worth it, you do deserve to have your feelings and thoughts heard, and your not wrong for having the feelings that your having. You deserve to be respected by your husband, and everyone around you for that matter. Go talk to a professional, seriously...see what you can do about helping to re-discover who you are.....My guess is, that right now your not sure who you are... and the person you see yourself to be is not a good one. No one can change your perception , but there are people who can help guide you to a place where you can gain back some of the power in your life and your marriage. I've been here trust me,do it, go talk to
some one....I'll be praying for you.. :)
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I too vote for marriage counseling, but additionally you need individual counseling for your lack of self esteem. The message you are sending to your husband is you doubt his word, and day after day of you doing this is driving a wedge between you and him.
You have to have serious issues with trust as well. The only way to keep your marriage is to get some serious help and get it fast.
First of all, let me say that although I'm a woman, I'd get sick and tired of someone asking me if I cared about them. I'd think that they were some snivelling insecure neurotic with no self esteem and I'd start to question what I ever saw in them in the first place. You need to get into counseling and stop engaging in negative behaviors.
Second of all, if he acts out in anger, belittles you, curses you and yells, then he's got anger management problems.
Most domestic violence shelters offer free and low cost counseling even if he never hit you but just intimidates you or he's acted inappropriatedly while angry.
GET COUNSELING! And quit asking the same questions every day.
to me you both sound too young to be getting this serious. The do you love me questions come from your lack of experience and confidence in yourself. His anger is from stress and frustration he may not be mentally ready for a long commitment you are not either. I'm betting your both under 28. It's a part of growing up you can work on it together it's HARD to build a marriage it don't just happen. It takes great effort and personal growth. Maybe get some therapy together if you have not already DO NOT ADD KIDS! You toss a kid in this situation every ones stress and unhappiness's increases you ruin another life besides your own.
I think you need to go to marriage counseling to work through the issues both of you have. He should not be treating you this way! Not for any reason!
you might want to consider counseling for yourself for your self esteem. i used to have the same problem. i would think...why does my man want to be with me, when he can be with anyone else? well...the point is, if he wanted to be with someone else, then he'd be with someone else. so take it for what it is...he's with you, the two of you are married now, and if you keep nagging him the way you are, your relationship can't last. all relationships are based on trust and honesty...but obviousely you are not trusting him to be honest when he tells you that there's nobody else and that he loves you.
you need to go and raise YOUR self-esteem. think higher of yourself...for me now, i think...yup, i got my husband on lock...because no other woman can give it to him the way i can...and it's true. for him, there's noone else but me for him and vice versa. we love eachother UNCONDITIONALLY. ( i'm about 25 pounds bigger than what i used to be after the children) but hey....he thinks i'm fabulous and he just cant get enough of me...and i've stopped harrassing him about...are you sure you love me? are you sure i'm the one you want to be with? they'll start to doubt how WE fell about them.
Get some serious counseling. You may also get a copy of the book by Gary Chapman entitled'; The Five Love Languages'; and read it together. You both may need to figure out, which love you both need and want. As Dr. Chapman advises, your ';love tanks'; may be empty of one or more of the languages, and not necessarily the sexual intercourse love language. It's easy reading, and I should have read the men's version twenty-years ago!
A lot of us guys just don't like to show emotion, and when you ask us if they love you sometimes we get irritated because, in our mind, we don't have to tell you that we love you all the time for it to be true; if we tell you once, it's usually still true every other time you ask us. The reason that it seems like some of us are always angry is that ange, frustration, etfc. are the only emotions some of us feel comfortable showing strongly and becasue of that, it stands out the most, even though we do feel other emotions. Also, as you admit, a bad habit to repeatedly ask us because (at least when we're telling the truth) it makes it seem like you want to hear what you want to hear what you believe instead of the truth. Trust is something that has to be earned and if he genuinely hasn't earned your trust yet then that's something the two of you need to sit down together and work out between yourselves because most likely noone else is going to be able to help you with that. That's all the advice I can think of to give you. I hope it helps.
from a guys view, there is nothing wrong with asking if he loves u or the reasons why. he should know that u love him and if he asked u the same u would give him an answer.. i asked my lady one day why she loved me instead of giving me an answer she bit my head off and it hurt
You are human and need reassurance that you are loved and needed. You are not being unreasonable, just human. I don't know you but I love you.
I need advice about guys at my school.?
There is a guy who follows me around everywhere. All my friends say he really likes me. Even his friends say so. He is nice, but he's like an older brother, not really boyfriend status. The other who I actually like, is 5' 1''. and I'm 5' 9''. We have tons in common, and are friends. What do I do? Thanks.I need advice about guys at my school.?
just go for the guy you like tell them both how you feel, and don't string them along, height shouldn't matter where the heart is concerned. Besides you sound like a kid and being that you are the guy is bound to get taller, its just that girls grow faster than boys at a certain age
just go for the guy you like tell them both how you feel, and don't string them along, height shouldn't matter where the heart is concerned. Besides you sound like a kid and being that you are the guy is bound to get taller, its just that girls grow faster than boys at a certain age
I need advice on guys?
I hung out with the guy a few days ago and he flirted w/ me a lot and now i hardly see him or talk to him. when we do talk i always start the conversation (esp. on messengers) and i don't know if he just does not like me or what the deal is. He said all he did this weekend was hang out w/ friends and i told him that if he wanted to hang out afterwards to call me but he never did and then we would talk on messenger later that night. I'm just confused what should i do or what should i be thinking?I need advice on guys?
he cud be playing hard to get.. and its obviously working cause your thinking about him....... just relax, leave him come to you.I need advice on guys?
Is he shy? Does he always act like that around other people? Maybe that is the reason that he is like that with you...
But after being with you that day he might not find you attractive to him, more so annoying...Why don't you just keep cool and don't contact with him couple days and than see if he will get in touch with you first, if he does, than there is something going on, if not, well, than you can move on...
leave him alone. if he was really interested he would of called.
it sounds to me like he just was playing you. he just wanted to flirt that one time and thats it. ignor him... it sounds like the best for now. dont take this ';relationship'; farther than it should go.
he cud be playing hard to get.. and its obviously working cause your thinking about him....... just relax, leave him come to you.I need advice on guys?
Is he shy? Does he always act like that around other people? Maybe that is the reason that he is like that with you...
But after being with you that day he might not find you attractive to him, more so annoying...Why don't you just keep cool and don't contact with him couple days and than see if he will get in touch with you first, if he does, than there is something going on, if not, well, than you can move on...
leave him alone. if he was really interested he would of called.
it sounds to me like he just was playing you. he just wanted to flirt that one time and thats it. ignor him... it sounds like the best for now. dont take this ';relationship'; farther than it should go.
I need advice from guys?
I REALLY like this boy in my class but I don't know if he likes me. He always makes me laugh, got me as a friend on myspace, chose my jersey to wear for PE even when he could have chosen one of his friends, and today, he kept leaning sort of near me when we were looking for books to read. I need to know if there's a chance he might like me. Please give me some advice. Thanks! %26lt;3I need advice from guys?
Just be straight forward as possible. I know it's hard, but it's probably the most relieving feeling. Just ask him out to a movie and a dinner and see what happens. There seems to be a chance that he likes you. When he looks at you, see if his eyes are dilated, which means the pupils (the black part of the eyes become larger) this is usually an uncontrollable sign of attraction. Everyone's eyes dilate more at night, so see if his does it during the day. But, like I said, it's always easier to be straight forward by asking him out. That way, you learn to overcome rejection and have a chance to let a relationship grow.
BESTI need advice from guys?
I can't say very well, because i don't have a degree in this, and i don't know either you or your friend, but i'd say go for it. It sounds like he may like you.
When you have a great opportunity like selecting books, strike up a conversation and keep it going. You seem to have similar interests, use them to talk about and maybe to question him about.
there is a chance
yeah it seems that way huh
He seems to be interested with you.. Try asking him if you are interested in making relationship with him..
I gave my jersey to the girl i liked a year before we ended up getting together, it was for the powderpuff game (That's a girl vs girl football game incase you don't know.) I had a GF at the time. she threw a fit. long story short i married her. all good from there. (She still has the Jersey and i wouldn't ask for it back for anything.)
Just be straight forward as possible. I know it's hard, but it's probably the most relieving feeling. Just ask him out to a movie and a dinner and see what happens. There seems to be a chance that he likes you. When he looks at you, see if his eyes are dilated, which means the pupils (the black part of the eyes become larger) this is usually an uncontrollable sign of attraction. Everyone's eyes dilate more at night, so see if his does it during the day. But, like I said, it's always easier to be straight forward by asking him out. That way, you learn to overcome rejection and have a chance to let a relationship grow.
BESTI need advice from guys?
I can't say very well, because i don't have a degree in this, and i don't know either you or your friend, but i'd say go for it. It sounds like he may like you.
When you have a great opportunity like selecting books, strike up a conversation and keep it going. You seem to have similar interests, use them to talk about and maybe to question him about.
there is a chance
yeah it seems that way huh
He seems to be interested with you.. Try asking him if you are interested in making relationship with him..
I gave my jersey to the girl i liked a year before we ended up getting together, it was for the powderpuff game (That's a girl vs girl football game incase you don't know.) I had a GF at the time. she threw a fit. long story short i married her. all good from there. (She still has the Jersey and i wouldn't ask for it back for anything.)
Help! Need advice from guys and girls.?
i just met this guy and we talked for 20 minutes or so. then he got my screenname from the guy that we're both friends with and he talked to me online for 3 hours telling me im beautiful and that we should hang out. then he called me later on at night and we talked for like 5 minutes. hes really hot and i would love to get to know him but i cant tell if hes just messing with my mind or not.Help! Need advice from guys and girls.?
i dont think that you should ask his friend, because there is always a chance that he will lie for his friend...what friend wouldn't?
my best advice is not to rush into things, chill out with him and get to know him, if you like the way he acts around you, observe what he's like when he's with other people. if you like him, give him a chance.
if he really likes you, he will w8 and not want to rush into things, but if u notice that he wants to rush, then yeah, he just wants someone to mess around with.
PS, dont date him just because he's hot.Help! Need advice from guys and girls.?
It could be either or...You can just ask also. Be up front you have the right to kno.
if you are interested ... you should set up a group hang out ... that way you can get to know him better, but still have others around so its not as one-to-one.
sometimes people are different on the phone than in person, so take your time and get to know him in person, starting with a group and then proceeding to more intimate dates if that's what you choose. just take your time and go slow, rushing is never a good idea.
risk big win big. Go for it!
ummm seems fishy, you should ask your friend about him and his past relationships, find out if he is for real ya know? the last thing you probably need is to have to deal with a player. but hey, we dont know anything about him, so it's up to you to make your own desicions
at this point you have known him for a few days so why would he be messing with your mind? what would he possibly be getting out of it?
If you like him just because he's hot your asking to get hurt. If hes a nice guy and you think you could not only date him but be his best friend, then go for it.
Never meet people in person that you met online. I wouldn't ever give them my phone # either.
Follow your instincts - If you already have a doubt - then there is good reason to be doubting him already.
Probably Not, just ask your friend.
Ask your friend. He should tell you what type of guy he is and what he's looking for. :)
You'll never know unless you get to know him. Just don't do anything you'd regret if he does turn out to be playing with you. Get to know him on a friend level - if you are honest with yourself about what is going on (instead of what you want) then you will be able to tell what his real intentions are.
You can't go into this assuming he is playing games or messing with you. Especially because, it seems pretty clear he is not playing games, he's put him self out there risking rejection.
Why don't you try just doing what you want instead of trying to figure out how to play the situation?
Rejection won't be any worse than loosing him because you never let him know you were interested?
dont jump in so fast take as much time as you need. If hes gonna wait then hes worth it and hes not messing with your mind. but if hes impatient and in a hurry cut him off dont compromise its all about your safety(mind%26amp;body).
most likely just messing with ur mind. especialy if hes under 25 years old.. im sorry but thats just how most guys are. i'd stay away from them untill u kno for sure they r ready to settle down.
He's not messing with your mind, definitely give him a chance since he's cute and being so open and generous with you.
Hes messign wiv your mind, hes prob laughign wiv his friends about u etc behidn your back. Don;t fall for the player trap gyal. Remeber don;t hate the game , hate the player.
sounds to me like he's more confident when it's not on the phone or face to face...thats a good thing...means hes not a player
The guy is interested in you, he's not messing with you. Most guys don't want to waste their time messing with womens mind, they to too confusing anyways.
he isnt messing with ur mind he want to be with you give him a chance you never know what it might lead to
Why would he want to mess with your mind? If he is, then he is taking alot of his time to do it so I really don't think that is the case. Go with the flow but dont put yourself way out there until you are sure and 100% comfortable with the situation. Right now you are not....l
jeez he sounds desperate as hell. avoid
he's not messing with your mind. maybe desperate? i think he likes you. u should hang out with him..
I dont think he is messing with your mind, he just seems really interested in you, thats cool. What you want to make sure that you dont take your panties down too soon to make sure he is not messing with you. If there is loads of attraction give him a juicy kiss!
It sounds like he really likes you since he has spent so much talking to you. I don't think he would wasted 3 hours talking to you if he wasn't interested. You could always talk to your friend to find out what kind of person he is and what he really thinks about you.
Just make sure he's not a predator. But it sounds like a guy who really likes you. A guy just messing with your mind wouldn't go through all that to talk to you. This guy is for real.
Ask him.
Just call him and ask, ';What are we?';
Don't be nervous, and if you are jsut take a deep breath. It's the only way!
Best wishes,
-A
by the sound of it chances r he is not messing with ur mind because he did talk to u for a long time he kinda seems like he like u but u might want to hold back just a tad bit just in case.Til he ask u out atleast but u need to hint to him that u want to get to no him more too
why would he waste 3 hours just to mess around?
Well go out with him, but don't give in to him if he wants some booty. If you guys go out and have fun with no strings attatched chances are he is in it for you. Go slow, and don't let him pressure you into anything that you feel uncomfortable doing. That will tell you what he is really up to!!!
Then hang out with him but don't give it up too fast. Find out if he's really into you or just blowing smoke
i dont think that you should ask his friend, because there is always a chance that he will lie for his friend...what friend wouldn't?
my best advice is not to rush into things, chill out with him and get to know him, if you like the way he acts around you, observe what he's like when he's with other people. if you like him, give him a chance.
if he really likes you, he will w8 and not want to rush into things, but if u notice that he wants to rush, then yeah, he just wants someone to mess around with.
PS, dont date him just because he's hot.Help! Need advice from guys and girls.?
It could be either or...You can just ask also. Be up front you have the right to kno.
if you are interested ... you should set up a group hang out ... that way you can get to know him better, but still have others around so its not as one-to-one.
sometimes people are different on the phone than in person, so take your time and get to know him in person, starting with a group and then proceeding to more intimate dates if that's what you choose. just take your time and go slow, rushing is never a good idea.
risk big win big. Go for it!
ummm seems fishy, you should ask your friend about him and his past relationships, find out if he is for real ya know? the last thing you probably need is to have to deal with a player. but hey, we dont know anything about him, so it's up to you to make your own desicions
at this point you have known him for a few days so why would he be messing with your mind? what would he possibly be getting out of it?
If you like him just because he's hot your asking to get hurt. If hes a nice guy and you think you could not only date him but be his best friend, then go for it.
Never meet people in person that you met online. I wouldn't ever give them my phone # either.
Follow your instincts - If you already have a doubt - then there is good reason to be doubting him already.
Probably Not, just ask your friend.
Ask your friend. He should tell you what type of guy he is and what he's looking for. :)
You'll never know unless you get to know him. Just don't do anything you'd regret if he does turn out to be playing with you. Get to know him on a friend level - if you are honest with yourself about what is going on (instead of what you want) then you will be able to tell what his real intentions are.
You can't go into this assuming he is playing games or messing with you. Especially because, it seems pretty clear he is not playing games, he's put him self out there risking rejection.
Why don't you try just doing what you want instead of trying to figure out how to play the situation?
Rejection won't be any worse than loosing him because you never let him know you were interested?
dont jump in so fast take as much time as you need. If hes gonna wait then hes worth it and hes not messing with your mind. but if hes impatient and in a hurry cut him off dont compromise its all about your safety(mind%26amp;body).
most likely just messing with ur mind. especialy if hes under 25 years old.. im sorry but thats just how most guys are. i'd stay away from them untill u kno for sure they r ready to settle down.
He's not messing with your mind, definitely give him a chance since he's cute and being so open and generous with you.
Hes messign wiv your mind, hes prob laughign wiv his friends about u etc behidn your back. Don;t fall for the player trap gyal. Remeber don;t hate the game , hate the player.
sounds to me like he's more confident when it's not on the phone or face to face...thats a good thing...means hes not a player
The guy is interested in you, he's not messing with you. Most guys don't want to waste their time messing with womens mind, they to too confusing anyways.
he isnt messing with ur mind he want to be with you give him a chance you never know what it might lead to
Why would he want to mess with your mind? If he is, then he is taking alot of his time to do it so I really don't think that is the case. Go with the flow but dont put yourself way out there until you are sure and 100% comfortable with the situation. Right now you are not....l
jeez he sounds desperate as hell. avoid
he's not messing with your mind. maybe desperate? i think he likes you. u should hang out with him..
I dont think he is messing with your mind, he just seems really interested in you, thats cool. What you want to make sure that you dont take your panties down too soon to make sure he is not messing with you. If there is loads of attraction give him a juicy kiss!
It sounds like he really likes you since he has spent so much talking to you. I don't think he would wasted 3 hours talking to you if he wasn't interested. You could always talk to your friend to find out what kind of person he is and what he really thinks about you.
Just make sure he's not a predator. But it sounds like a guy who really likes you. A guy just messing with your mind wouldn't go through all that to talk to you. This guy is for real.
Ask him.
Just call him and ask, ';What are we?';
Don't be nervous, and if you are jsut take a deep breath. It's the only way!
Best wishes,
-A
by the sound of it chances r he is not messing with ur mind because he did talk to u for a long time he kinda seems like he like u but u might want to hold back just a tad bit just in case.Til he ask u out atleast but u need to hint to him that u want to get to no him more too
why would he waste 3 hours just to mess around?
Well go out with him, but don't give in to him if he wants some booty. If you guys go out and have fun with no strings attatched chances are he is in it for you. Go slow, and don't let him pressure you into anything that you feel uncomfortable doing. That will tell you what he is really up to!!!
Then hang out with him but don't give it up too fast. Find out if he's really into you or just blowing smoke
Help need advice about guys?
yeah this guy in school, we don't talk that much but he kinda knows that I like him, but like he kinda ignores me when hes around me and only talks to other people, but sometimes he looks at me like for 5 seconds or so....but dosen't say anything. What does it mean?! i like him but i don't know like what to say, I've talked to him a few times but it was always about general stuff....what should I do?Help need advice about guys?
he knows that you like him, so he's shy...which could mean that it makes it uncomfortable, or that he likes you also, especially if he looks at you and look away, when you turn to him. work up the courage to talk to him, even if its about nothing major. the more you talk, the more interested he'll get...and if that doesnt happen, maybe you'll become friends, which is the 2nd best thing.
good luck!
he knows that you like him, so he's shy...which could mean that it makes it uncomfortable, or that he likes you also, especially if he looks at you and look away, when you turn to him. work up the courage to talk to him, even if its about nothing major. the more you talk, the more interested he'll get...and if that doesnt happen, maybe you'll become friends, which is the 2nd best thing.
good luck!
Advice about guys...?
I'm still in highschool. A senior. There are a couple of guys that are always looking at me when they think I'm not looking. I've just noticed this within the last couple of weeks. It doesn't bother me as much as I would think it should. I was just wondering if I should say something to one or both of them.Advice about guys...?
give them friendly smile..something friendly and approachable so they kno its safe..then which ever approaches u first go for it if u dont like that one wait for the one u likemakeup tips
give them friendly smile..something friendly and approachable so they kno its safe..then which ever approaches u first go for it if u dont like that one wait for the one u like
Guys please help advice please?
guys do looks really matter all that to guys i mean do you have to be thin .i like this guy and hes tall and like thin average i am not i woulnt say im thin but i dont think im really big either ,how do you approach that with a guy i mean lets say its a blind date how or should this come up . i mean i have my curves you know . all the guys i dated have been thinner then me always.Guys please help advice please?
Looks shouldn't matter. And if you come across a guy who thinks looks are a major factor then do not intermingle with him, he is obviously shallow and no woman deserves that. If he makes you self conscious about yourself then forget it, he obviously doesn't respect who you are and doesn't like you either. Sorry to be so blunt but, the truth sometimes hurts.Guys please help advice please?
Looks are a factor, but I've dated girls almost entirely on personality. If you're fun, outgoing, and not a loser that drags out the last word of her sentence and acts like a pansey, then I'd date her.
well all you need to do is put dowm the big mac and ask him trying not to get him stuck in your rolls while your at it
Looks shouldn't matter. And if you come across a guy who thinks looks are a major factor then do not intermingle with him, he is obviously shallow and no woman deserves that. If he makes you self conscious about yourself then forget it, he obviously doesn't respect who you are and doesn't like you either. Sorry to be so blunt but, the truth sometimes hurts.Guys please help advice please?
Looks are a factor, but I've dated girls almost entirely on personality. If you're fun, outgoing, and not a loser that drags out the last word of her sentence and acts like a pansey, then I'd date her.
well all you need to do is put dowm the big mac and ask him trying not to get him stuck in your rolls while your at it
Advice from guys ASAP!?
Ok, so i've been getting pretty close to one of my guy friends. like on the bus on the way home from school, we'll talk about anything and everything. and for most of the time while we're talking, he's got his hand on my thigh or upper leg. does this mean he likes me? he seems to always find a way to touch me, like having his arm around my shoulders. opinions??Advice from guys ASAP!?
Hott,
I'm sure he likes you fine, but whether he has strong feelings of infatuation and affection are completely different than if he has feelings of physical attraction, which he clearly has.
So - the answer is yes, he's physically attracted. Does it mean anything? Maybe not. You can't make that conclusion from this evidence considering that when guys are teenagers (I was one once. I know how it is), our libidos are off the chart.
Advice: Be careful. Don't get used. If he really, really likes you - he'll respect you as well.
- KevinAdvice from guys ASAP!?
It sure does, means he likes you and in a physical sense.
You should be careful, as he may want to go further than you want too.
So unless you like his touching you on the thighs, and want him to go higher, better let him know now, that you aren't that kind of girl.
But if you like his touch, you better think twice, about going further. At your ages, it can lead to one big load of trouble, down the road for you.
yea he def likes you...maybe show that you like him back?
Hott,
I'm sure he likes you fine, but whether he has strong feelings of infatuation and affection are completely different than if he has feelings of physical attraction, which he clearly has.
So - the answer is yes, he's physically attracted. Does it mean anything? Maybe not. You can't make that conclusion from this evidence considering that when guys are teenagers (I was one once. I know how it is), our libidos are off the chart.
Advice: Be careful. Don't get used. If he really, really likes you - he'll respect you as well.
- KevinAdvice from guys ASAP!?
It sure does, means he likes you and in a physical sense.
You should be careful, as he may want to go further than you want too.
So unless you like his touching you on the thighs, and want him to go higher, better let him know now, that you aren't that kind of girl.
But if you like his touch, you better think twice, about going further. At your ages, it can lead to one big load of trouble, down the road for you.
yea he def likes you...maybe show that you like him back?
Advice qwick guys and girls?
ok i like this guy he told my bff he liked me and he was going to ask me out on friday buutt his xx came up to me and said you should not go out with himm cuz she stll likes him and now i wanna write him a love letter but idk wht to say ?????Advice qwick guys and girls?
She's his ex for some reason or another. So, you should go ahead and do it and not worry about his ex. If she's still hung up on him, too bad for her.Advice qwick guys and girls?
Tell him in person.
Don't write a letter, just talk to him.
screw his ex and just do it!
ya im with her screw the ex fight 4 wat u want
dont write a love letter, its cheesy, dont get a friend, cuz its lame, tell him in person, cuz u just roll tht way
Tell him what you feel for him, and tell him that you cant go ut with him because your friend still likes him. Say exactly what you wrote here. Hell understand, and you wont be hurting your friend either. Plus if you go out with him,,, He likes YOU not your friend, so he could understand. Love letters kill everything%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;from experience. Dont do it.
hold off on it, then.
why not just write some stuff down for your own self (about him, of course) to clarify your mind and your thoughts? then when you have something you like (or makes sense to you that you want to say to him), transfer that to a note that you can work on.
as for his ex....of course she's going to try to dissuade you from dating him if he asks you out, but if he's going to ask YOU out, he's not asking HER...is he? (boy, talk about shooting HER theory all to pieces....)
Love letter are always hard. So do yourself a favor and stop giving yourself drepression or stress by wanting to write him this letter. I would just go talk to him and tell him what I feel about him. Yeah it may be shy but it's the best way to get what you wanted through. So grab that hammer and go break that ice....
OMG, idk, my bff, jill!
are you kidding me? are you 12?
you should talk to him. if you're gonna get into a relationship, you should always start out right
just out right and tell him how you feel then you can go from there then and see what ever happens for the both of you
tell her to learn tro love someone else, for her special someone has already another special girl
If he likes you, and he and his ex are not together. Then he is open Game. If she is a friend of yours then the situation may be different and you may be stepping on toes, but oter than that who cares if she still likes him. Thats her issue not yours.
go for it everything isnt fair in love learn to live wid it and take from it what u can
She's his ex for some reason or another. So, you should go ahead and do it and not worry about his ex. If she's still hung up on him, too bad for her.Advice qwick guys and girls?
Tell him in person.
Don't write a letter, just talk to him.
screw his ex and just do it!
ya im with her screw the ex fight 4 wat u want
dont write a love letter, its cheesy, dont get a friend, cuz its lame, tell him in person, cuz u just roll tht way
Tell him what you feel for him, and tell him that you cant go ut with him because your friend still likes him. Say exactly what you wrote here. Hell understand, and you wont be hurting your friend either. Plus if you go out with him,,, He likes YOU not your friend, so he could understand. Love letters kill everything%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;from experience. Dont do it.
hold off on it, then.
why not just write some stuff down for your own self (about him, of course) to clarify your mind and your thoughts? then when you have something you like (or makes sense to you that you want to say to him), transfer that to a note that you can work on.
as for his ex....of course she's going to try to dissuade you from dating him if he asks you out, but if he's going to ask YOU out, he's not asking HER...is he? (boy, talk about shooting HER theory all to pieces....)
Love letter are always hard. So do yourself a favor and stop giving yourself drepression or stress by wanting to write him this letter. I would just go talk to him and tell him what I feel about him. Yeah it may be shy but it's the best way to get what you wanted through. So grab that hammer and go break that ice....
OMG, idk, my bff, jill!
are you kidding me? are you 12?
you should talk to him. if you're gonna get into a relationship, you should always start out right
just out right and tell him how you feel then you can go from there then and see what ever happens for the both of you
tell her to learn tro love someone else, for her special someone has already another special girl
If he likes you, and he and his ex are not together. Then he is open Game. If she is a friend of yours then the situation may be different and you may be stepping on toes, but oter than that who cares if she still likes him. Thats her issue not yours.
go for it everything isnt fair in love learn to live wid it and take from it what u can
Advice on guys????
there's this guy who i always think about when im not occupied. the only person i can talk to about my fellings to is my cousin, but for now shes camping. can anyone give me some ideas on how to occupy myself without useing electronics???Advice on guys????
You can do what ever you like to do. Some possible activities include jogging, swimming, reading, drawing, etc.
Best of luck to you.Advice on guys????
exercise or go out with other friends
You can do what ever you like to do. Some possible activities include jogging, swimming, reading, drawing, etc.
Best of luck to you.Advice on guys????
exercise or go out with other friends
Advice from guys..?
what makes you like a girl? like how should i flirt with a guy to make him like me?Advice from guys..?
Umm to get a guy, you should be original, when I met my girlfriend, I thought that she was really original. Don't play dumb and try to be funny but not over the top.Advice from guys..?
first off, dont act like a ho. if you are looking for a nice bf who will really love you that is a turn- off. i hate it when a nice girl from a nice home acts like a ho so she can get a date friday night. that isnt necessary! act like a nice girl and you will have more customers i promise you. my gf is a beautiful redhead and she is pretty and smart and she is not a ho in any way. i am so much more attracted to her than i am to a s***. there is no comparison. anyways on to the next question. make lots of eye contact, smile when he sees you, and treat him different from the others. it is hard for me in the beginning to flirt with a girl because i dont usually know her and i am afraid of being rejected. im sure you girls feel the same way about us guys. just get to know him and when you feel confident tell him how you feel. thats how its worked for me, every time.
Umm to get a guy, you should be original, when I met my girlfriend, I thought that she was really original. Don't play dumb and try to be funny but not over the top.Advice from guys..?
first off, dont act like a ho. if you are looking for a nice bf who will really love you that is a turn- off. i hate it when a nice girl from a nice home acts like a ho so she can get a date friday night. that isnt necessary! act like a nice girl and you will have more customers i promise you. my gf is a beautiful redhead and she is pretty and smart and she is not a ho in any way. i am so much more attracted to her than i am to a s***. there is no comparison. anyways on to the next question. make lots of eye contact, smile when he sees you, and treat him different from the others. it is hard for me in the beginning to flirt with a girl because i dont usually know her and i am afraid of being rejected. im sure you girls feel the same way about us guys. just get to know him and when you feel confident tell him how you feel. thats how its worked for me, every time.
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