Advice from guys?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and 1/2 years.Hes 22 and im 18.Right now though we live in different states.We chat online and talk on mic becuase its free.We like to maturbate together sometimes.But recently even though I was being extra carefull, I almost got caught by my mom(it was 2 am i didnt think she would be around).Anyway so i decided im not going to masturbate anymore.Thing is that he wants to.How can i tell him no effectively without hurting his feelings?I told him he could do it by himself but he doesnt want to do that.So how should i handle this?Thanks for the answers.Advice from guys?
2 1/2 yrs. He'll definitely understand if you tell him what happened. I think that the fact both of you are doing this together is sweet. :] You can even talk about alternative things to do to change it up a bit.Advice from guys?
If he is doing it with you before marriage how many other women is he doing it with as well. I'm sorry but this seems like something that is going to find you hitched up with men that will be unfaithful to you.





Respect yourself and your body and tell him this must stop. If he is still faithful to you, then you might have the beginnings of a real relationship worth building a family on - otherwise you have nothing with him. Masturbation is something seldom stopped by marriage but becomes an addiction to many people married or otherwise.
Did u tell him what almost happened that ur mom almost caught u? If not then tell him, tell him you would do it but are afraid of getting caught, TELL HIM U LOVE HIM AND HOPE HE RESPECTS U ENOUGH TO RESPECT UR WISHES THAT U DONT WANT TO, hope ive been of help and if u want or need anymore advice, then feel free to email me ,
Just be straight.


Tell him you were caught by your mom playing vagina banjo, you were terribly embarrassed and don't want to do it anymore.








He will get over it.








When you are together in person than you can be intimate
Honestly, he will not just get over it.





Nothing you can do long distance is going to be as good as what you're planning to no longer do.
Who cares, masturbating is normal, just do it anyways.
just do it any ways you should go see him and jus have sex and he wont want to do that any more
Why would you stop?Just lock the damn door.
Once should not change what you've been doing.
go on and tell him what happend to you. he'll understand !