24 Year old Virgin needs advice from guys?

Ive got a 28 year old guy friend i think he likes me we're even going out next week! I'm afraid to tell him I'm a virgin (he's had a lot of women)! Will he laugh at me or will he like it? Or am i jumping the gun should i wait to tell him for a while?24 Year old Virgin needs advice from guys?
I'm guessing you are female.


You, I hope, know him well enough to be able to determine the purpose he has for you.


I'm guessing that if yopu are a virgin, you want to be one....and if this guy has had many women before....and a high hit rate, so to speak, than I'm guessing that he ';likes'; you, to add to his collection of statistics.


Keep in public places, keep sober, watch he doesn't use date rape drugs....just be cautious......completely.


There are no men that can be trusted completely to understand you. So, see whether it is you....or whether you are another opportunity for him only that he is after.


It's a date....and silly brain, slack living, immoral people assume that a date, means sexual activity. Sorry to say, the world is full of those type of people...and our TV programmes are braimwashing us to think their slutty way.


So, be careful. Trust him only a tiny bit. See what are his motives, and there's is no reason in the world to tell h im that you are a virgin, unless you find you need to use it as a weapon against any threatenning conduct. A date is COMPANY, it's not sex. It's only used as sex by people who don't know what to do on a date.


Do you want a mindless dill who can't figure out what to do on a date? If he is a gentleman, he'll assume you are a virgin, and treat you well, not the sluts he's dumped or been dumped by.24 Year old Virgin needs advice from guys?
Your basically agreeing to be dishonest from the get go and I don't know about your morals but I believe in being honest with people that I choose to date.-good luck Report Abuse

What the hell? He just hit jackpot.


Now he can't suck in bed. This is the equivalent to a Gold ticket to the Chocolate Factory.
well, l would tell him to be gentle, because it's going to hurt, and your going to bleed, so yes l would let him know.
on the first date --- dont worry about it





if he likes YOU then being a virgin or not will be a non event





dont bring it up -- its not really light dinner conversation :)
It's not something ya' want to bring up on the first date. If things start to heat up, then bring it up. If he's got any class, he won't freak out.
I'm not sure why you would have to tell him at all, especially during the first few dates. It's not like being a virgin makes you a bad person.





If you do reach a point where the relationship becomes intimate, and you are feeling nervous about it, then you might discuss your situation then. If he is a good man, he'll take things slow and make sure that you're comfortable.
just wait. if things start to get to heavy then just be like look i dont feel real comfortable right now cause ive never done it before. if hes a decent guy he'll understand and respect whatever decision you make. if he's not and laughs at you then he was never worth your time anyway!





good luck and have a good date!
Why say anything!!! Just be yourself have fun....Go with the flow..... If sex happens then tell him after or during....
Go with ';ice hcky rulz'; Her answer if the best advice.
tell him sooner rather than later- I went out with this girl once...we talked online and on the phone for a couple of months, then we went out a few times, we started to get intimate and she told me she was a virgin- I never saw her again- not b/c i just wanted sex but b/c I felt decieved by her- I would not of cared that she was a virgin if I would have known from the get go- but to hide it- that's the wrong move.
if the subject comes up then you should just tell him. its a little embarassing and everything but if he is your friend then it shouldn't really matter...when i find out if someone is a virgin its just a fact to me. i don't really like it or dislike it, it just is....i'm usually a little surprised though
This is the exact same situation I was in. I'm 28 and...


We actually watched 'The 40 year old virgin' the first night out. She told me afterwards and everything was okay. Don't worry about it.
yes tell him.he will not laugh.he will want to lay you
If you are a Virgin, you are a novelty. Even though men like to have sex with women, when they realize you are a virgin, it adds even more to the mystique. You automatically rise to the top of the cream and instantly become a real challenge. A man will dine and wine you and will pay LOTS of ATTENTION to you, of course if you are a looker, all for one thing. And you know what that is.
if u tell him that that might tell him that u want it but guys like virgins so i dont know what to say