Thursday, December 31, 2009

Advice from guys, please...?

if a girl tells you they love you, what do you think? if you don't feel the same way, do you tell them, say it back anyway, just ignore it, or what? i've almost said i love you to my guy, but am afraid of his reaction, so i turn it into ';i'll see you later';Advice from guys, please...?
There is no 100% right answer to this. It depends on the guy, the degree of commitment in your relationship, his feelings and quite frankly what is good for one relationship is not always good for another. You should have a pretty good idea how he feels if you have dated for a while. Don't tell him you love him if you have only been out a few times, you will probably scare him if he does not feel the commitment yet.Advice from guys, please...?
Well its ok. see the one thing that you gotta worry about is that if you dont tell him...and he feels the same way..most guys try to avoid saying it cause they dont want to be the first one to say it......so have a conversation about it ....and slip it in


cause i think hes gonna do the same after you do....men dont like to be first at things they feel shy about so go for it.
I only say it if i mean it and most girls are the same i know some ppl lie and say it back just to make the other person feel good but not me. Any time i have said we both meant it and it just felt right if your unsure of his reaction my advice would be to give it some time because you might scare him away and make him think youre taking the relationship too seriously not saying its not serious it just might come off that way.
I only say it when i mean it and ive only said it once. If i didn't i wouldn't lie, even if it would hurt.
it depends on how long you have been going out to getter,and if you do say it. see for a respond maybe he's ready for the next step . but are you ready.

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