Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Turn a friends with benefits into a boyfriend?(GUYS ONLY. Females, advice not needed.)?

We fool around a lot, I'm TRYING to become his 'fantasy' girl, aha, so he'd like me a bit more.


He just got out of a very attached relationship, doesn't want one.


I can wait a few months, as we've only just recently met.


We hang out a bunch + I'm friends with a lot of his friends(how we met).


What should I do in the meantime to get him interested?Turn a friends with benefits into a boyfriend?(GUYS ONLY. Females, advice not needed.)?
Stop trying. Just be yourself. If it happens, it happens. Obviously, he's either enjoying his new-found freedom or was too burned to get back into another one for a while.Turn a friends with benefits into a boyfriend?(GUYS ONLY. Females, advice not needed.)?
You have two things going against you here. One, he's just coming out of a relationship. That can be overcome if your patient, but secondly, you have already started fooling around so the odds of this turning into a relationship are not strong. I'm not saying it can't happen though. If I were you I would cut out the fooling around for a while and see what developes. But watch out, you don't want to be a rebound girl.
just talk to him, flirt with him, and show him who you really are. if he likes you, he'll show it and you can go for it. dont rush it though
That's complicated...Since he likes another girl and just got off a relationship. Maybe you should do more girlfriend boyfriend stuff instead of just these ';benefits'; with him to show him you can be a nice girlfriend =/
The key is to run off the competition so you are the only girl left standing.

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