Help! Need advice from guys and girls.?

i just met this guy and we talked for 20 minutes or so. then he got my screenname from the guy that we're both friends with and he talked to me online for 3 hours telling me im beautiful and that we should hang out. then he called me later on at night and we talked for like 5 minutes. hes really hot and i would love to get to know him but i cant tell if hes just messing with my mind or not.Help! Need advice from guys and girls.?
i dont think that you should ask his friend, because there is always a chance that he will lie for his friend...what friend wouldn't?





my best advice is not to rush into things, chill out with him and get to know him, if you like the way he acts around you, observe what he's like when he's with other people. if you like him, give him a chance.





if he really likes you, he will w8 and not want to rush into things, but if u notice that he wants to rush, then yeah, he just wants someone to mess around with.





PS, dont date him just because he's hot.Help! Need advice from guys and girls.?
It could be either or...You can just ask also. Be up front you have the right to kno.
if you are interested ... you should set up a group hang out ... that way you can get to know him better, but still have others around so its not as one-to-one.


sometimes people are different on the phone than in person, so take your time and get to know him in person, starting with a group and then proceeding to more intimate dates if that's what you choose. just take your time and go slow, rushing is never a good idea.
risk big win big. Go for it!
ummm seems fishy, you should ask your friend about him and his past relationships, find out if he is for real ya know? the last thing you probably need is to have to deal with a player. but hey, we dont know anything about him, so it's up to you to make your own desicions
at this point you have known him for a few days so why would he be messing with your mind? what would he possibly be getting out of it?
If you like him just because he's hot your asking to get hurt. If hes a nice guy and you think you could not only date him but be his best friend, then go for it.
Never meet people in person that you met online. I wouldn't ever give them my phone # either.
Follow your instincts - If you already have a doubt - then there is good reason to be doubting him already.
Probably Not, just ask your friend.
Ask your friend. He should tell you what type of guy he is and what he's looking for. :)
You'll never know unless you get to know him. Just don't do anything you'd regret if he does turn out to be playing with you. Get to know him on a friend level - if you are honest with yourself about what is going on (instead of what you want) then you will be able to tell what his real intentions are.
You can't go into this assuming he is playing games or messing with you. Especially because, it seems pretty clear he is not playing games, he's put him self out there risking rejection.





Why don't you try just doing what you want instead of trying to figure out how to play the situation?





Rejection won't be any worse than loosing him because you never let him know you were interested?
dont jump in so fast take as much time as you need. If hes gonna wait then hes worth it and hes not messing with your mind. but if hes impatient and in a hurry cut him off dont compromise its all about your safety(mind%26amp;body).
most likely just messing with ur mind. especialy if hes under 25 years old.. im sorry but thats just how most guys are. i'd stay away from them untill u kno for sure they r ready to settle down.
He's not messing with your mind, definitely give him a chance since he's cute and being so open and generous with you.
Hes messign wiv your mind, hes prob laughign wiv his friends about u etc behidn your back. Don;t fall for the player trap gyal. Remeber don;t hate the game , hate the player.
sounds to me like he's more confident when it's not on the phone or face to face...thats a good thing...means hes not a player
The guy is interested in you, he's not messing with you. Most guys don't want to waste their time messing with womens mind, they to too confusing anyways.
he isnt messing with ur mind he want to be with you give him a chance you never know what it might lead to
Why would he want to mess with your mind? If he is, then he is taking alot of his time to do it so I really don't think that is the case. Go with the flow but dont put yourself way out there until you are sure and 100% comfortable with the situation. Right now you are not....l
jeez he sounds desperate as hell. avoid
he's not messing with your mind. maybe desperate? i think he likes you. u should hang out with him..
I dont think he is messing with your mind, he just seems really interested in you, thats cool. What you want to make sure that you dont take your panties down too soon to make sure he is not messing with you. If there is loads of attraction give him a juicy kiss!
It sounds like he really likes you since he has spent so much talking to you. I don't think he would wasted 3 hours talking to you if he wasn't interested. You could always talk to your friend to find out what kind of person he is and what he really thinks about you.
Just make sure he's not a predator. But it sounds like a guy who really likes you. A guy just messing with your mind wouldn't go through all that to talk to you. This guy is for real.
Ask him.





Just call him and ask, ';What are we?';





Don't be nervous, and if you are jsut take a deep breath. It's the only way!





Best wishes,


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by the sound of it chances r he is not messing with ur mind because he did talk to u for a long time he kinda seems like he like u but u might want to hold back just a tad bit just in case.Til he ask u out atleast but u need to hint to him that u want to get to no him more too
why would he waste 3 hours just to mess around?
Well go out with him, but don't give in to him if he wants some booty. If you guys go out and have fun with no strings attatched chances are he is in it for you. Go slow, and don't let him pressure you into anything that you feel uncomfortable doing. That will tell you what he is really up to!!!
Then hang out with him but don't give it up too fast. Find out if he's really into you or just blowing smoke