this probably sounds really stupid but im 14 and im kinda good looking, thats what im told anyway. im curvy and tall and i hav a pretty good tan. but anyway, ive actually never kissed a guy or had a boyfriend. i get asked out alot but not by the guys i like. i dont think im immature im just not very confident. do guys think im weird cause i havnt done anything??Advice please(guys only)?
no they don't think ur weird they just think ur hard to get and that good that u are hopefully waiting on the right boy for u to come along unlike some of these other girls who will talk to just about anybody. so u keep doin what u do best and thats looking good. juz dont get big headed about boys tellin u how u look.Advice please(guys only)?
I'm assuming you're a girl then? If you are, then I'd say, stay that way! And you ARE mature for not falling that easy to those guys. I don't think you're weird at all.
Weird? Think about this, if you HAVE done something, you can NEVER say I'm still 'clean' anymore. But if you HAVEN'T, imagine what a hero you can be to your future husband?
Consider this, if you bought an under-garment (something really personal) and have used it for years only to find out that it has actually been used before, how would you feel? Or, you know it HAS been used, would you have used it?
So, forget about what THEY think is what I'd say!
Oh, just for the record, I'm married now with a beautiful wife and a new-born baby girl.
Absolutely not.
Here's a secret...
Don't start hooking up with guys for as long as possible. The longer you wait the more irresistible you will become to them.
Plus don't make the mistake of getting with guys so young, or getting with alot of them. It may not seem like a big deal now. But your reputation will follow you for the rest of your young life.
Stay single, and wait for things to happen with a really nice, special guy.
And wait until you are older!
First of all at the ripe age of 14 you should have already of given at least 3 Hj's or a Bj of two! When i was 14 i knew girls who were making out with other girls let alone guys!! I think you just are a late bloomer and have to come out of your shell. My suggestions are to lift your confidence by hooking up with a couple ugly people male or female, you may decide this yourself. Once you confidence has sky rocketed you may then feel comfertable to give Hj's in public or even cross the anal boundaries!!! Good luck!
ohkay for a sec i thotught u were gay cuz when it sed guys only i thot it was a guy prblem and u sed u never had a boyfrend haha but yeah ohkkay haha
Ohkay U cant keep on waiting for the ONE guy to ask you out.. theres not a very good chance that could happen but go out with a few guys if uve nevrr had a boyfrend and want that guy to like u when he does u dont want to be all confused and have no experience so just go around with a few guys u never no u might actaully rly like them, and the guy that u like if ur frends with him try gettin closer to him just chilling with him.
Im also 14 and i like this girl and she's like my best frend her brother is my brothers frend yada yada but what sucks is that im too close to her like she see's me as i frend idk but she likes my best frend who doesnt like her and yada yada thats a nother story btu just take my advice ^_^
probably not. you're 14. things will happen naturally.
be confident about who you are. you don't have to even know who you are yet, but you do know this: ';i've never kissed a guy or had a boyfriend, and that's part of who i am right now.'; be sure of yourself. things will happen naturally and don't let anyone pressure you. you'll know when you're ready for the big first base.
Hun, if thats the way things worked then no girl would ever have a first anything :) it will come. i'm 15 and still waiting for my first kiss too. its sounds pretty stupid but you can't just make those things happen( well technically you can but it wouldn't be the same :P) good luck and just wait :)
No, Here are what might be the problem.
1)U might be intimidating.
2)They might think your dad is kind of protective (which intimidates them.
3)They might think you don't like going out yet.
4)If the guys u like won't come to you, go to them.
5)And maybe the guys that ask u out are worth dating. Try it out and get some expirience.
good grief.
i wish the world would stop thinking that teenagers are supposed to be dating.
high school/ junior high relationships are stupid.
not to be mean, but truthfully, if you're asking this question, you are absolutely NOT ready to have a boyfriend.
go enjoy your life. stop worrying about things like this.
and stop being so shocked that you've never had a boyfriend at AGE FOURTEEN. goodness, you're still a little kid.
no, a guy being a guy would see this as a challenge.
trust me when i say, stay innocent for as long as you can...
watch all your friends get sti's and you can say, i told you so.
which is the most relieving thing in the world
wow sweeite i ask the same thing just ask someone out and get you @zz out of the i think im prettier than you thing your never going to get any where what kind of question is that anyways? look you are too young but i an too soo lol but ih hope everything eorks out hopefully
im a girl, but NO! girl, it sounds like your waiting 4 the rite one. dont loose hope. it doesnt sound weird. dont worry the right one will come. and ur just as the same as me, lol. it sounds like u look like me 2. but im waitinf 4 the rite guy. =]
guys prolly think you are prude,
if you go out with guy and make out with or something ppl will prolly think ur ok with hooking up with ppl
really depends on what you want to do with guys
no they cant what the hell for if they do there probably the jackasses
well kinda, u get the prude label put on ya then
It's not weird.
I'm in a similar situation... you're not alone :)
you are not out of normal
No your not weird. My gosh your only 14.
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