Advice fast!!!! (guys only please!)?

my names ally im 19 and i am a single mom to my baby girl. shes 2 :) anyway i feel like i can never get a guy because of her. i love her to death don't get me wrong but it seems like guys just aren't into dating girls with a kid. is it because you guys think we only want sex. because of extra baggage or what!? i just really need help understanding this from a guys point of view why guys wont date me anymore because of cloie...Advice fast!!!! (guys only please!)?
i'm probably not the best to answer..... on fourth marriage but not the kids fault out of the 4 wives three had kids not an issue i like kids doesn't matter whose i have one from first marriage and one from second right now have 18 step daughter at home kids and single mother have never been a problem with meAdvice fast!!!! (guys only please!)?
Okay Allie, this is coming from me, a guy 21 years old:





Kids scare the hell out of me. I am WAAAY too immature for a kid, granted I get along great with them. Like I have a little brother, 6 years old, we get along great. Probably because I like to act like one. And the thought of being someone with a kid kinda scares me, as I try to date for long term. I never understood the point of one night stands. So in the event it does become long term, great, I'm stuck raising some other guys kid. [insert choice words for guy]
Well, first of all, don't give up hope... I married a woman who already had a child, so it can happen!





Most people don't want an ';already made family';, they want to start a family on their own. That's cool, it's their choice; granted it doesn't help you, but you need to understand that. What you look for is someone who enjoys being with you and without denying the reality of you having a child you allow that person to develop their own feelings, thoughts and fears about coming into your family...





Just remember, the guy you're looking for will be the one that respects your motherhood...plain and simple!
My personal reason is because I hated having a step mom or dad in my life. I had to deal with it and it was torture. Now at such a young age she wont really notice and she will be customed to the new boyfriend whoever that may be. I personally just want a kid thats mine. I dont want another kid thats not mine in my life..