Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Advice please(guys&girls)?

Recently, I was on a normal chat site with no real intention except that I was v bored at work when I noticed everyone was hitting on the people with suggestive names, so I decided to re-login as a suggestive named person to see what would happen.


Someone replyed and they flirted and started talking dirty-I thought it was funny and was curious so I replied back.


The conversation went on into more 'detailed' descriptions.


It did kind of excite me but not coz its another person-only because of the words used.


I feel really guilty now,I feel like I had cybersex-but didnt mean to, My bfs not the jealous type but I dont know how to tell him. I feel like I cheated on him even though i didnt intend or ever would intend to. I love him so much and want to be honest.


I enjoyed the experience of 'talking dirty' online and even thought immediately afterwards that I would like to do it with my bf(as it would be real and better, this just felt like looking at porn)


Please help me out! ThankAdvice please(guys%26amp;girls)?
well if you think that your bf wont mind then go ahead and tell him but just tell him it was a joke cuz that is what it really is because i had that before but i really dont hink its cybersex its just a fun way to pass time thats the way i use it but i mean its up to you if you think its ok for you to tell him i would think yeah just to keep your mind clean and knowing that you are not hiding anything away from your bf but yeah i really think you should go for it i mean its really nothing bad you dont even know the person you met. Good Luck!Advice please(guys%26amp;girls)?
There is really no reason to tell your boyfriend. You experienced something new without him. You did not swap fluids with anyone and as long as you don't pursue anyone you flirted and talked dirty to on line...and you let them know not to pursue you and you remain loyal to your man, you did nothing wrong...KNOW YOU BOUNDARIES AND DON'T CROSS THEM...


Start flirting and talking dirty on line to your man and eventually it will be brought into your lovemaking where it can be most pleasing.


LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU WERE FLIRTING WITH OTHER MEN ON LINE AND HE'LL THINK THAT YOU WERE TEASING OTHER MEN IN AN EFFORT TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO DATE OR TO CHEAT ON HIM...DON'T OPEN THAT CAN OF WORMS! IF YOU'RE FEELING GUILTY, DON'T DO IT AGAIN!!! JUST TALK DIRTY OR ';CHAT DIRTY'; WITH YOUR MAN ONLY...


YOU NEVER KNOW, HE MIGHT BE CHATTING OR TALKING DIRTY ON LINE TO OTHERS TOO...
well it is the computer omg lol forget it... that is dumb you just went it to not be bored and be entertainned ok lol it is all good not like you send each other pics and all that your all good no number exchanges
...words can be very powerful for some darling...and they can be very destructive at the same time occasionally too. Cheating of any kind is bad of course...but you have to decide what's right and wrong for you sweetie. Fantasy stuff can be fun intriguing and exciting occasionally....but not when it's occurring behind somebody's back reasonably. Attempt to have a fantasy erotic conversation with your present boyfriend hun.....and see where both of your own comfort levels fall within the context of your conversation together. I always say ask for what you want for yourself sweetie....just make certain your lover is in tune to it as well. He'll be pissed if he finds out you're doing this with someone else hun....so simply do it with him......sound cool?
I think this incident is pretty harmless, but how would you feel if he was the one having these converstations online? I don't think you should tell him, but I also don't think you should do it again.
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