Question prefer advice from guys...?

I met an old flame while on vacation we planned to meet for about 6 months now %26amp; when the being intimate subject came up he asked if I thought it was a good idea to get things so complicated. He is in mid divorce %26amp; seemed to like me %26amp; agreed to complicate things would not be a bad idea just maybe not a good one. So... we complicated things. I really like him, but don't want to scare him away either so I was hopeing someone could tell me what a guy means when he says he's not sure it's a good idea to complicate things.Question prefer advice from guys...?
he us unsure if he wants to be in a relationship right now at this present moment. he does not want to get emotional involved yet, he is not ready. he does like you, but does not want to hurt you. bdQuestion prefer advice from guys...?
i am old school dont put out till u get married if u r serious
To me it means that he did something that he regrets and he is letting you done easily. He is unsure of his feelings and emotions. Give him space to uncomplicate a complicated life.
ur q is? methinks you've answered it already, eh?





guy needs some space to sort things out...





and when he says it, he means it...





not like you chix who try to read more into what a guy says or thinks...sheesh!





g/l 2 u, eh?
He is being genuine. A man never turns down sex unless he truly feels that it would be a bad idea (I've yet to think of what constitutes a bad idea for sex but theoretically one exists).





Sounds like you got a keeper there.
stay away from a divorced, about to be divorced guy for about 1 year, youll just make it worse
In his particular situation, his wife finding out he had sexual relations with you (even after the divorce was already begun) could lead to her talking to her lawyer to but his chops even harder. Depending on the reason for the divorce too, emotionally he might be feeling more than a little fragile and cultivating deep feelings for you right now would really mess with his head.
well lets just put this short and simple. regardless if he is ';Mid Divorvced'; or not you shouldnt be talking to a married man. i suggest you back out of that situation until he is Fully divorced.
wait till he's divorced.. if you start ';being intimate now'; things could get complicated (by feelings, texting, phone calls, dates, dinner, massages, etc) ..he maybe trying to reconcile things at the house.. even still you don't want to add yourself as fuel to flame of their divorce.. ya dig?
Im sure he means wait until all of his devorce things are settled and you both can think clearly with no distractions. Im sure his life is complicated enough right now with out having to jugle his past life endings and a new very serious relationship life as well. I would let it breathe and give him the space he needs to think and feel with out demanding anything from him yet.
Impossible to know for sure. There is however a good chance that he needs some time alone after the divorce. I would not start a relationship before some time had passed after the divorce. It`s the clean thing to do and you might need some alone time.
Sorry but it sounds like you are the ';transitional woman'; here.