Should i ruin her reputation? plz advice from guys and girls PLZ!!?

ok, last year i was involved in an affair with a married woman (i know it was wrong, she did instergate everything).. and i stupidly fell for her (she is the only child from a rich italian family, was married to a rich doctor, %26amp; is 30 - i'm 24), we remained best friends (so i thought) after it happened, until she got a new job at an upper class clothing store %26amp; started to distance herself from me, like changing her fone number %26amp; saying she didnt want me to have her new number (but still insiting we were ';friends';) i felt very hurt %26amp; went overseas for a month to get over it..the day before i was supposed to come back, she emailed me saying she was getting a divorce.. when i came back i asked her if she was seeing anyone (yep, i was still in love with her) and she said ';no, but i don't want you'; again i was heartbroken, %26amp; i emailed her saying i felt used and she was self-centered, she replied with very vicious emails calling me a no hope freak who she never gave a **** aboutShould i ruin her reputation? plz advice from guys and girls PLZ!!?
Ah, my good man. Look at the other side. She's divorced, had two men, THIRTY YEARS OLD (I don't care if she has the package - she's thirty!), and you're single and still young!





Just walk on by. Forget her. She's one of those type of person who is not very environmental friendly - she uses and she throws away. In her mind, I bet you she must have been thought you nothing more than a scratching post. And now that she is divorced, that means she can leave and set her goals higher.





Heck, she even said you are a no-hope freak. I guessed she was not thinking of that when you were very, very, 'cozy' with each other. But remember one thing. Words can only hurt so much. You do what every other survivor has done: live through this. Stop all communications. If you have some mementos from your time together, sell it off or just give them away. Get a good job. Educate yourself, if your current education level is unsatisfactory. Wash her off yourself.





I'm not saying she will run back to you someday, but for the time being, it's time for you to become the main character in you own movie.





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By the way, you have to do nothing to ruin her reputation. She will become her own ruin.Should i ruin her reputation? plz advice from guys and girls PLZ!!?
It sounds to me like she has a lot of soul searching to do. She's the type of woman that has always had everything in life she ever wanted (men, money, clothes, cars). So it's easy for her to become unattached to anyone because she's never really felt like she was ever really loved by anyone, much less herself.





If I where you, I would let her go. Close that chapter in your book of life, learn from the lessons you've receive when dealing with her and keep moving. Trust me, what goes around comes around and she'll get hers soon or later.





People like her wonder aimlessly through life hoping to find what it is in that special someone they're looking for, only to realize that they had it right in front of them all along. She probably didn't even want to get married to her husband, but she only did it because he was successful.





You're young, and I'm sure handsome, you have your whole life ahead of you to meet plenty of other young, single, and attractive women. And it's not always about the looks, it's more about the character of the woman you chose to spend your time with.





And next time, don't hook up with someone who already has some one. Because in the end, you are left holding the short end of the stick. She didn't love her husband enough to stay faithful, so she sure as hell wasn't going to love you. She probably doesn't love her self either.





Like I've told many other people here, let go, and let god.
What goes around comes around and karma is a mother@$%^%26amp;*.
Why would you do that? Worry about your own life, don't be evil... you will be judged later.
Just move on, stop dwelling on the past....It has been a while, and I think that you should just let it go!
um, you are both guilty of adultery, so why is it that her reputation is the only one that could be tarnished?





learn your lesson about getting involved with married people, forget about her, and move on. don't bother trying to stay friends. she's probably avoiding you because she feels guilty about cheating on her husband, and doesn't want any reminders.
Why waste your time. You're in love with a fake brat. And she's obviously unloyal if she had an affair with YOU. Who's to say she wouldn't do it again.
ruin her reputation? why bother? a snake like her doesn't deserve any more attantion, get someone who will love you. keep in mind you intruded a marriage and now are paying for it. don't do it next time. she wasn't faitful to her husband she will never be faitful to anyone

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