Guys...a little advice plz?

my bf is into dirty talk/noises while having sex. Im not....and we do have sex but im just like the quiet type...like i do just heavy breathing/ and little silent moans....he says he doesnt care that we will just work up to that whenever....but the truth is i just feel a little strange saying things and screaming lol. What tips do u guys have?Guys...a little advice plz?
Why men demand women to be more expressive is coz men are more visual and vocal compared to women. More over male psychie is altogether different compared to fems. What matters more to men is what he could do to his partner. Not what he could get from. So your responses to his plays imply that he is doing good. That actully is a positive reinforcement and encouragement to him while making love to you. So reacting to what he does is very important...it will only arouse him more.





But that need not mean that you need to behave like a porn actress in bed. Why dont you guys meet half way? You become a bit more expressive and dirty, while he reduces his extremities. You know i too used to be quiet. And my husband demamded me to be more expressive. I too had a bit starting problem letting the voice outta my mouth. But now i love expressing myself fully n it makes him horny as well.


You will never enjoy sex unless you are ready to welcome changes and try new things. And if you are, you will never stop wondering if there is something else you can do in it.





So....good luck n enjoy!!!Guys...a little advice plz?
You should just tell him you cant yell and scream like that because . . .you cant
just tell him that you don't like it, get it out in the open
maybe tell him how you feel about it and maybe you guys can work out a situation together to keep it pleasurable for both people
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it. Tell him you won't do it. If he still insists, then punish him by taking away his sex privilages.


He wants to have sex, he'll have to have it your way or not at all (well maybe his hand, unless you smack it everytime he tries to whack it)


If he still insist on his way, come up with some excuse, like your tired or have a headache, not feeling well whatever it's all up to you.
Maybe you could just explain to him that you're not comfortable making noises. I'm sure he'll understand. Does he make a lot of noises as well? If he does, and you feel strange when he makes noises, ask him if he could keep it to a minimum.
Hmmm...





I don't know...??





If you don't feel like you want to make noises, or say something sexy; then you don't have to.





But you could try starting with simple little things, like:


How good he feels, or is making you feel...


or confessions about the things you like (when he does them)


or words of encouragement


or asking him to tell you or you tell him when you're about to (Ummm) feel relief.





Small things like that may satisfy his need, if you are able to do those things...





If not, perhaps you're not complatible in bed...





It's not the worst area to be incompatible.
as a guy my wife would wine i was the quiet type and explained i needed to get into it more. Not like fake it or something but breath or moan it helps the other gauge your level of excitement etc.. I started doign it and in all honesty it makes sex way better.
My boyfriend loves to talk dirty and I don't, I feel silly when I try. I told him that and he's okay with it, he says he would like it, if I did, but since I'm not comfortable with it, he just likes it, when he does it.
Just let yourself go. Don't repress your emotions and say and express what you feel. However, if you really don't feel very comfortable doing that, then he should have to to respect that.