Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Any advice from guys or girls?? PLEASE!!?

Ok. So me and this guy like each other but i never know what to say. I want to talk to him but i dont want to say something stupid. And i dont want to just ask cheesy questions and stuff like that. So how do i start a conversation that doesnt sound stupid??Any advice from guys or girls?? PLEASE!!?
';Hi, how's your day been? Do anything exciting or new?'; Ask about his interests (don't talk about your own unless he asks). Go with what you know, be a good listener and don't cut him off when he's in the middle of talking. Just smile and nod (or shake your head if you don't agree). That's the best advice I can give you.Any advice from guys or girls?? PLEASE!!?
sigh, don't worry about that. Sounding dumb or cheesy are things you worry about when you are trying to get someone to like you. If you both like each other it really doesn't matter. A little secret everyone is dumb and cheesy, the magic is when you can do it with someone else and not even care.
you have a crush so no matter what you say you are going to feel a lil stupid but you need to build confidence and talk about what you have in common
honestly, get s grip and stop stuttering. If he *likes* you, he won't give a crap what you say. Just ask him out.
If you can't even start a conversation with him how are you supposed to have a relationship with him?
Ok Taylor...do you have anything in common? favorite team? If nothing else, this works for me. Ask him what his future goals are and really listen to him. Do not be distracted by your surroundings, look him in the eye when he speaks, he will be impressed and be comfortable around you thus in turn will be more open.
Well find out what's he interested in and what he likes. If you don't really feel like going under investigation then I suggest that you act really flirty around him and bring up stuff that you like.
Usually conversations that are about something the other persons likes or likes to do starts the ball rolling very nicely. Music, sports, school, parents, siblings...all great convo starters. Good luck!
ask him things to see what you have in common like going on answers for advice.
you can say how was your date or talk about your likes and dislikes
Be all like ';Hey what's up?'; the more casual you are the better you sound no matter what trust me


the more you work yourself up the stupiter(is that a word?lol) you sound..TRUST ME


take my advice


and if he asked why you are suddenly talking to him now just say ';Because I finally gathered my courage to talk to the boy I am interested in..'; with a smile of course


I know it sounds crazy but chances are he likes you too and the more confident you sound the more it will turn him on


boys like that
talk about him.


ask him questions about himself.


(get ideas from those stupid surveys on myspace)


(:


that way you don't say something stupid about yourself or something like that.





if he likes you, i doubt he'll care if you say something silly.


he'll probably think its cute or something.
just say what you wanna say but remember you don't wanna make it akward so start off saying hey how are you or say hi and grin good luck=]!
Find out somthing you and him both like and go from there
Just talk about stuff that people always talk about. Ask him how his day is going and listen for cues and go from there. If he wants to talk to you, too, he should give you some kind of bait to pick up on as far as talking goes... Good luck!
What you do is you say the thing in your mind. If it sounds cheesy don't say it. What you do is be your self and pay attention on what your saying. I hope that helps.
You:Hi


Him:Hey


You: What's Up????


Him:Nothing much


You:(mention something about what he's doing)I see


Him:lol


You:(smile)(talkabout what he is doing and this will start conversation)








GL ;)
talk about the stuff he likes and bring the conversation to you. ;)
just say hi, how are you? What have you been up 2? Ask him about school, his life, his family. These will signal to him that you want to know more about him and that you potentially care. Once you get the converstation started it will flow. And im sorry but once you like a guy and you start talking and or dating you will at one point say something stupid! But its ok because if hes a decent guy he will laugh with you about it and there you go you now have an inside joke that wil make you laugh! Hope this was a little helpful! Good Luck!!! :D
ask him about his (or your) musical taste


everyone has an opinion about music
ask him about soprts that he plays or something
I had the same problem.


I asked him about something i knew we both had in common.


If that doesn't work try something else.


if there is a party ask him if he'll be there, and if he says yea, then say I'll see u there... if not ask why, or ask him to go with you.


and if that doesn't work, make him laugh. I'm pretty sure all guys like a girl who can make them laugh, and who have a good sense of humour. try something that he likes. or go to a game if he plays a sport. there are lots of ways to communicate with someone , u just have to figure out which is most comfortable for you.
amzingly enough ask a silly question to kinda break the ice get a laugh move on to more serious topics
tell him wats he into
just talk bout things that you both like
well first, he should start the conversation but if he doesnt then you can. all you should do is just start small talk and see if he talks back with a lot of interest. just keep doin that everytime you see him.
make a compliment, nice shoes..........where did u get it from?

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