Guys only, any advice?

I'm a virgin and my bf and I were thinking about having sex for the first time in our relationship. We've been going out for like 3 months now and yeah he's been waiting for me. So, I want it to be done right, any advice? Like on what are good condoms out there to use or ways for it to be as pleasurable as possible for the both of us? We really don't want to use a condom but I know we'll have to. No lecturing, just real talk, please. I know how to protect myself, I'm just curious and is ready to take my relationship to the next level.Guys only, any advice?
that's up to you if you want to take your relationship to the next levelGuys only, any advice?
if you want it to be done right wait or marriage
dont get pissed


im a girl but yall have only been going out for 3 months


thats a huge step and im sure you know that so i would wait a few more months


who knows he may just screw you and break up with you


DONT BE EASY


im not trying to lecture





also i dont think your going to have a lot of pleasure because im sure its gonna hurt like a ******


also if you are going to use a condom and birth control


if you cant get birth control on your own then your too young
try trojan condoms, and try reverse cowgirl position.
just get tested for std's and if ur both clean get on the pill or some other kind of bc
i think i had sex for the first time around that time in my relationship. (only we didn't use a condom lol, so good for you being smart!) i'm sure since he's been nice about waiting that you've talked about it and stuff, but make sure he knows to take it slow. it hurt like hell for me at first. but my bf was really nice about it, and we took our time. that's the best advice. just don't rush when you start. it took me some time to get used to it. also, get some lube just in case... nothing's worse than trying to go in dry. ouch
well good on you for waiting this long and planning on safe sex.


To be honest any condom aslong as it fits will be ok as lets be honest the laddie will be quite keen and wont last that long.


But why dont you hold off a little longer to make sure he is serious about you? sex isnt to be rushed into, or should it have the 3Month sell by date.





just make sure its what you want, and if so get the condoms bought
use one
trojans, make him buy them so that they are the right size, get him happy, hands in the pants and stuff then ask him to undress you, as that is sooooooo sexy to a guy, then tease him a lil bit, then just start it up. id lie down and let him do the work for your first, ask him to go slow (i made the mistake, as my last gf forgot to mention that she was a virgin, which i though she was just really tight, and it hurt her like a *%26amp;%26amp;%26amp;%26amp;) SLOW as hell. then slowly get faster and faster. It will hurt you for a little while, maybe the entire time, you may not get to orgasm. it may take multiple sexual encounters before you even get one from him. also depends on his size. Just dont judge the AWSOMEness of sex on your first time, it usually (well almost always) SUCKS. Guy cums too fast, girl is sore as hell for a while, etc.
definatly buy condoms. dont want no babies yet. Think about it really hard first like if youre ready for this step in your relationship. thats all that i can really give except for make sure you keepo track of your period and when your done make sure the condom didnt have a whole in it for anything, because a lot of them can. and if it did go get yourself a pregnancy test.
Always use a condom, any condom, with everyone, everytime. Don't worry about the rest....the first time is never as good as you think it will be, no matter what you do to prepare.
it depends if you are going hard core or soft core