well be and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and school went out a week ago.. and he's only called me once since we've been out.. I'm crazy about him. but when we are on the phone i get the feeling like he doesn't care about me. and I'm tired of always picking up the pieces like always having to call him.. what should i do? should we end it?15 year old girl who needs guy advice please help?
Do you sometimes wonder why everyone is looking at you at a party. It's because you're the only one with s hit on you're face.15 year old girl who needs guy advice please help?
dear dont listen to any of the guys because they could not tell you what to do because they have not been through this situation. i on the other hand have been in this situation and it was a horrible feeling. (1) whatever you do you should not try to be something your not, that does not help the situation. (2) dont let him push you into anything you dont want to do such as lust. (3) if he is acting distant just ask him about it. (4) just remember that if you two do break up it will only be because he has not matured enough to be ready for this relationship. (5) try a diffrent approach to this relationship, mabe asking him what he is feeling. (6) try hinting that you want this relationship to work out and you would like to see him more. (7) ask him to call you for a change. (8) hang out as just friends for a day or so to actually get to know eachother. (9) talk about the stuff he wants to talk about. (10) just have a fun time when he's around you, if your relationship isn't going where you'd like it to go just be happy that you still have that relationship. well i hope these work out for you and i really hope everything will work out for you and him.
Well, ask yourself why you're crazy about him. Is it because...
Looks?
Popularity?
Personality?
If it's because of one of the first two, then end your relationship. If it's the last, then ask yourself...
Does he only act like he likes me around his friends? If this is true, FRICKIN DUMP HIM, GIRL!
Is he just plain horrible at starting conversations? If he is, then you're just a little too worried.
Is he one of those guys that only goes out with girls to be seen going out with girls, do you know what i mean??? Once again, dump him if it's a yes.
I can't tell you anything for sure, but i hope that this helped!
I truely think that you should end it. Your still young and younger guys like to mess around and have freedom so he might not be into the whole committment thing especially being that it is summer. I have been in very similar situation and i liked him so much that i ignored the warning signs like the ones your describing and he just ended up breaking up with me. Hope everything works out for you :]
If he is too lazy or too disinterested to even call you often during the time you have been out of school, then that should be the sign for you to end it. Either he'll just say ok and then you'll know he didn't really care, or maybe he'll change. Either way, you should just tell him.
End it honey..... it sounds like what happened to my best friend and she was crying her head off when HE ended it with her-- i mean you shouldn't have to guess if someone still likes you, if there looks like there is something wrong then 99.9% of the time there is..... call him, then dump him.
Well what you really should do is tell him you want to meet up with him somewhere private, and talk to him about it, and if he as an attitude about you should just be like ';if you don't want to be with me just say so'; if he doesn't just let him go.
hey darl, I know what your goin thru...
Get some stubborn streak in u. I recommend u make him put effort in.
if your always the one calling him, wait till he calls u. Try making him jelous... but a bit of fear in him that he could lose u. If he makes not change or does not recognise he could lose u, i think u should break up wit him. Find someone who makes an effort and appreciates ur time .
And do the person who advised her to put out... GO **** URSELF.
Dont lower urself to sex. You deserve someone who will love and appreciate u for the person u are not ur body n the sex u could give.
it sounds like something else could be on his mind, ask him if everything is okay, he might have some sort of family problems or something. Next time why don't you call him and organise to go out somewhere for a fun day? hope it works out!
I would talk to him about it. Just call him and talk to him about it in a serious tone. Don't freak him out but just let your attitude tell him that you want to fix this. Couples have problems, you just have to communicate
Bring the problem out to him. Tell him how you feel. How the hell is he suppose to know that you feel like he doesn't care on the phone. Don't end it so soon. Your relationship might have potential.
yea id say so you're 15, at that age you should try and find someone who truly cherishes you and respects you. i guess that holds true for any age...
He sounds way to preoccupied with his other stuff, your not a priority right now end it
no dont end it call him tell him how u feel that he just dosnt care about you and that ur tired of it see how he responds n work from there
May just want to hang out with mates till school is back.
he doesnt sound interested...end it
have you put out if not, then i suggest that you do or he'll lose interest
Thursday, December 31, 2009
For Guys only, need your advice?
When your talking to a girl for only about a few weeks, and its not serious ( your not boyfriend/girlfriend) yet, just dating. If you do like the girl, 1. if you have intercourse, does that usually change things (meaning, do you feel different about her, bad or good? 2. how long or what does the girl have to do or show you for you to want the girl to be your girlfriend?For Guys only, need your advice?
If you don't even know that he is interested in you then why are you having sex? I thought a girl losing her virginity at 14 was bad enough, but this is ridiculous, I think that the sex would feel much better when you know that the person you're having it with is in love with you for you and not for what's below your waist. You don't want to end up losing your virginity to someone who just wanted to exploit you do you now?
Jesus Christ, learn to control yourself and leave your shorts on until you know that that the guy you're having sex with is someone you spent your entire life with and until you realize that he is just as committed to you. No wonder so many girls regret losing their virginity to guys who just only exploit them and love them for what's below their waist.
Sex should mean that you are signing a pact with him that you want to spend your life with him, not just harvest pleasure and go after another. This ruins the idea of how sacred and pleasurable it is to lose your virginity to a partner rather then some guy who will just hit it and leave it. This is why I'm glad I have kept my virginity from my ex when I found out she was pregnant by someone else, I would have burned my eyes out otherwise.
If you don't even know that he is interested in you then why are you having sex? I thought a girl losing her virginity at 14 was bad enough, but this is ridiculous, I think that the sex would feel much better when you know that the person you're having it with is in love with you for you and not for what's below your waist. You don't want to end up losing your virginity to someone who just wanted to exploit you do you now?
Jesus Christ, learn to control yourself and leave your shorts on until you know that that the guy you're having sex with is someone you spent your entire life with and until you realize that he is just as committed to you. No wonder so many girls regret losing their virginity to guys who just only exploit them and love them for what's below their waist.
Sex should mean that you are signing a pact with him that you want to spend your life with him, not just harvest pleasure and go after another. This ruins the idea of how sacred and pleasurable it is to lose your virginity to a partner rather then some guy who will just hit it and leave it. This is why I'm glad I have kept my virginity from my ex when I found out she was pregnant by someone else, I would have burned my eyes out otherwise.
Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
i need andive on guys. im 14 and ive nevr had a boyfriend. i need one plz help!!!Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
dont worry, the right guy will come ur way. its
not like if u dont have one, ur gonna die :)
im 14 too but i heard some people never had
one till they were like 16 or something.
dont worry - just be patient.Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
Don't be obsessive over guys. It's not a healthy habit to get into. Just start off by being friends with someone. Be yourself and guys will like you for who you are.
dont worry, the right guy will come ur way. its
not like if u dont have one, ur gonna die :)
im 14 too but i heard some people never had
one till they were like 16 or something.
dont worry - just be patient.Any advice?(on guys)!!!!!!?
Don't be obsessive over guys. It's not a healthy habit to get into. Just start off by being friends with someone. Be yourself and guys will like you for who you are.
Need advice again (guys only)?
ok so i dumped my bf to go to my bestfriend as my bf, so i spent the night at his house(were neighbors) and told him and he said he liked me so now he is my bf, .........we wanted to get more comfy w/eachother so we saw eachother nude....................................鈥?were playing around and he started to get really red and sweaty.......................so we just went to bed................now everytime i see him he acts different he ussually gets red and stuff he always wants to hug and stuff WHY is he acting like this and how can i stop it cause we really like eachother but.........he's different nowNeed advice again (guys only)?
What age are you????
You had only just broken up with one guy and u let another guy see you naked already? Something not right there!
Take things slow-This guy is obviously shy but really likes you. He is acting different because hes embaressed-Just act normal and he will get over it soon enough.
You say u think he wants something from you? Dont do anything your not comfortable with or old enough for!Need advice again (guys only)?
FUC K u whore, you ugly prickhead
he turned red because you r so ugly and fat
go sucka cow and leave that poor guy alone, he musthave been so scared......poor little guy
well duh he's going to be different now.
he's seen you without clothes...
...you didn't do anything then...
...he's a typical teenage guy...
...and he wants to get his hands on you.
trust me, it'll only get worse from here. you give in to one thing he asks for (hug, kiss, etc.) he'll ask for more until it gets to the point he's begging you for sex, as i saw in your other question. of course you want to do it, doesnt everyone? but please please please dont, there are too many risks, and you havent been together that long, you dont even know how long it will last. dont have sex with anyone until you know for a fact that you're staying together.
no, i'm not a guy like you asked for, but i'm a girl thats been in the same situation...except no ones ever seen me without clothes...
great job......
How old are you? You sound like you are 16.
Wow, you really need to learn to read people's body language. If he's turning red, he's obviously embarrassed about something (probably just because he's shy?)
Also, what's with the getting naked to get more comfy thing?? That is NOT normal... regardless of how old or young you guys are. No wonder he's embarrassed.
Here's a tip: TALK TO HIM! Ask him why he gets red. You were best friends, now you're ';more';... maybe he just doesn't quite know where you're at, and how he's supposed to act.
What age are you????
You had only just broken up with one guy and u let another guy see you naked already? Something not right there!
Take things slow-This guy is obviously shy but really likes you. He is acting different because hes embaressed-Just act normal and he will get over it soon enough.
You say u think he wants something from you? Dont do anything your not comfortable with or old enough for!Need advice again (guys only)?
FUC K u whore, you ugly prickhead
he turned red because you r so ugly and fat
go sucka cow and leave that poor guy alone, he musthave been so scared......poor little guy
well duh he's going to be different now.
he's seen you without clothes...
...you didn't do anything then...
...he's a typical teenage guy...
...and he wants to get his hands on you.
trust me, it'll only get worse from here. you give in to one thing he asks for (hug, kiss, etc.) he'll ask for more until it gets to the point he's begging you for sex, as i saw in your other question. of course you want to do it, doesnt everyone? but please please please dont, there are too many risks, and you havent been together that long, you dont even know how long it will last. dont have sex with anyone until you know for a fact that you're staying together.
no, i'm not a guy like you asked for, but i'm a girl thats been in the same situation...except no ones ever seen me without clothes...
great job......
How old are you? You sound like you are 16.
Wow, you really need to learn to read people's body language. If he's turning red, he's obviously embarrassed about something (probably just because he's shy?)
Also, what's with the getting naked to get more comfy thing?? That is NOT normal... regardless of how old or young you guys are. No wonder he's embarrassed.
Here's a tip: TALK TO HIM! Ask him why he gets red. You were best friends, now you're ';more';... maybe he just doesn't quite know where you're at, and how he's supposed to act.
Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
Okay, lets say that you know this teenage girl, and she tells you that she is so deeply in love with you... Would you:
o1. Give her the speech, you know ';I think you're great, so maybe in a full years etc, etc';
o2. Tell her parents.
o3. Ignore her.
Or something else?Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
Called my husband and asked (he's 25), and he said, ';Well, first I'm married, so ewww. Second, even if I weren't married, I'd tell her that was just way to old and she needs someone her won age. Then, I'd avoid her like the plague. I'm not letting some hormonal teenager get me into any trouble!';
My husband's a smart man.Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
most guys would just try to get into their pants, unless they're into guys.
i have the situation alot with my lil sisters friends. i usually ignore them or i explain to them its just impossible for us to be together and im sorry.
girls under 18 are what you call jail bait
off limits.
i would say that's cute but i think you should find someone your own age. But i think you're confusing love with a crush. Bottom line your a child and I'm a man. Don't be in a rush to do adult things because they have adult consequences.
a man 16 and over can go to jail for having sex with a girl under 16 in most states.
you can get pregnant or get VD or worse
slow down and enjoy being a child
Haha I just called my brother and asked him this question. Here's his answer and he's 21 turning 22 this year.
Probably tell her I was too old for her and that she should try and find guys her own age. Then I'd probably just try and keep my distance from her.
Sorry Jen,
Unfortunately you will just have to wait until college or so until society and your family will accept dating with somebody a little bit older than you. All I can say is don't put the ';crush'; pressure on him and make him uncomfortable, it's just not to be, even if it feels so right inside.
Take your time and enjoy youthbeauty cosmetics
o1. Give her the speech, you know ';I think you're great, so maybe in a full years etc, etc';
o2. Tell her parents.
o3. Ignore her.
Or something else?Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
Called my husband and asked (he's 25), and he said, ';Well, first I'm married, so ewww. Second, even if I weren't married, I'd tell her that was just way to old and she needs someone her won age. Then, I'd avoid her like the plague. I'm not letting some hormonal teenager get me into any trouble!';
My husband's a smart man.Need advice from guys (20-26 years old)?
most guys would just try to get into their pants, unless they're into guys.
i have the situation alot with my lil sisters friends. i usually ignore them or i explain to them its just impossible for us to be together and im sorry.
girls under 18 are what you call jail bait
off limits.
i would say that's cute but i think you should find someone your own age. But i think you're confusing love with a crush. Bottom line your a child and I'm a man. Don't be in a rush to do adult things because they have adult consequences.
a man 16 and over can go to jail for having sex with a girl under 16 in most states.
you can get pregnant or get VD or worse
slow down and enjoy being a child
Haha I just called my brother and asked him this question. Here's his answer and he's 21 turning 22 this year.
Probably tell her I was too old for her and that she should try and find guys her own age. Then I'd probably just try and keep my distance from her.
Sorry Jen,
Unfortunately you will just have to wait until college or so until society and your family will accept dating with somebody a little bit older than you. All I can say is don't put the ';crush'; pressure on him and make him uncomfortable, it's just not to be, even if it feels so right inside.
Take your time and enjoy youth
HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
we dated for 2 yrs but argued a lot.he mentioned marriage.i dumped him out of nowhere.5 months later,we tried to make it work again but break up.i force myself to see other guys,but can't stop thinking of my x.he moves on and starts a new relationship.after a month,he gets in a huge fight with her/tells me he's going to dump her/uses me for sex/next day changes his mind.this shook me bc he's not the type to cheat.she dumps him for other reasons.i later find out from the girl that they never had sex.during this,i meet a guy that's ok,but still not as great as my x.my x sees a new girl but spends way more time with me than her.she ended up going for her x anyway.2 weeks later,my x puts my pics on his dorm wall/wants to hold hands.we makeout.i still love him but am afraid.i tell him i only want 2 b friensd with benefits.he confesses that he wants a relationship/says that he won't have sex with me otherwise.i hesitate/he is hurt/ignores me.later,i agree to give him another chance.
ADVICE?HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
You really need to lose this guy and start all over, there is still too much drama there, and it isn't good. I know it's hard to do but you need to start all over and when you see yourself again in a situation like that, you should allready know it's not a good thing. Get out and start a life with your self and maybe soon a new prince will be involved in you life.HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
you're a lost cause...
ADVICE?HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
You really need to lose this guy and start all over, there is still too much drama there, and it isn't good. I know it's hard to do but you need to start all over and when you see yourself again in a situation like that, you should allready know it's not a good thing. Get out and start a life with your self and maybe soon a new prince will be involved in you life.HELP! advice from guys needed. what should i do??
you're a lost cause...
Help/Advice with guys...?
I'm 16, female, and never been kissed and I've never had a boyfriend. I consider myself fairly attractive, but I am pretty shy. It takes me almost a whole school year to talk to a guy. I really want to have some guy friends at least. Any advice???Help/Advice with guys...?
Don't avoid eye contact, don't look away when you make eye contact. Those are things that very shy and self conscious women do, even as adults.
My current girl is like that, she's 27, and she swears she's had a crush on me for a couple of years, yet she would tense up, avoid eye contact, and turn away when I would go near her.
Go talk to guys by asking for the homework, etc.Help/Advice with guys...?
I believe the usual method is to hang around your older brother or male cousin who has friends about your age, or hang around with your girl friend that seems to have more than one boy friend. Does that ring any bells?
dont worrie about it. My cousin is 16 and never been kissed. and, maybe you should get some friends that you feel really confordable around and they make you laugh and you can act silly around them and that will help you become more outgoing.
Don't avoid eye contact, don't look away when you make eye contact. Those are things that very shy and self conscious women do, even as adults.
My current girl is like that, she's 27, and she swears she's had a crush on me for a couple of years, yet she would tense up, avoid eye contact, and turn away when I would go near her.
Go talk to guys by asking for the homework, etc.Help/Advice with guys...?
I believe the usual method is to hang around your older brother or male cousin who has friends about your age, or hang around with your girl friend that seems to have more than one boy friend. Does that ring any bells?
dont worrie about it. My cousin is 16 and never been kissed. and, maybe you should get some friends that you feel really confordable around and they make you laugh and you can act silly around them and that will help you become more outgoing.
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